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aromulus
18th August 2008, 08:42
How it started....:cwm23:


Jet's sister Bessie had been ill for a few days, not eating, always drowsy and generally weak.
After giving her medicines from the house cupboard, paracetamol, ibuprufen and God knows what else that should have been discarded years ago, the family, at Jet's instigation and insistence, finally called a doctor which diagnosed Dengue....:omg:
Immediately on hearing the news we dispatched some money for whatever was necessary.

The poorly girl was taken to the local hospital, after a few days there, a few injections later, a CT scan, and a couple of bags of dextrose, they realized that she developed fluid in her brain...
And the best course of action would be to transfer her to Chung Hua Hospital, where they have better facilities to deal with this particular problem.

Hence the 5 am emergency call this morning.
Apparently, the money that we sent last week has been already exausted by all the tests and jabs, and more is needed urgently.
So I xoom-ed some over, hoping that it will get there a little faster than normal.
For the time being, I believe that, the father pawned or sold his fishing boat.

Jet was absolutely distraught, and got as mad as a hatter, as she did tell them to call the doctor when she first heard that her sister was unwell.
But for days they thought that a few painkillers and other junk, would suffice.

And having googled it, seems that the stuff that they given her might have caused her some complications.

The part that annoys me most is where if you need something urgent overthere, you have to get the prescription, go to the Pharmacy, buy the stuff and take it back to the Hospital for someone to charge you lots of money to administer....:cwm23:

I hope all goes well, and she will be alright.

KeithD
18th August 2008, 09:24
Wish you luck with this mate. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

I think one of the wife's family recently had it and pulled through.

PeterB
18th August 2008, 12:48
Indeed, I hope that there is a good outcome. Certainly, apart from the very young and old, Dengue is treatable and survivable. I just hope that the delay and inappropriate treatment haven't tipped the balance the wrong way.

We have a 20-something friend who was treated for Dengue, here in Tagum, about a month ago. She was back at work within a week.

Ann07
18th August 2008, 12:59
I hope she will be ok soon. I will pray for her speedy recovery:)

A_flyer
18th August 2008, 17:55
Chung Hua is a good hospital. She is in good hands there. I hope she will feel better soon. All my wishes for a quick recovery.

andypaul
18th August 2008, 18:37
I hope Things are sorted Jet and Dom soon, in our family we have had a few members catch Dengue and they are all fine now.

Mrs Daddy
19th August 2008, 12:32
I hope everything`s well now Dom.I know you shouldnt give any paracetamol on dengue it will complicate it.hope things will get better...

aromulus
26th August 2008, 08:37
Yesterday afternoon, I received the dreaded text from Jet.

Her sister Bessie had passed away while in hospital.

I immediately left work at the town & Country Show in Coventry and made my way home, to try to be of some comfort.

I phoned my boss to tell him that I would be unable to go to the office today as I wanted to be with my wife.
The answer I got seemed very selfish indeed, but I can live with that.

I hope he can.

Thanks for all your prayers and words of support.

menchkin
26th August 2008, 08:42
So sorry to hear the sad news... My condolences to you and your wife.

A_flyer
26th August 2008, 09:55
It's so sad to learn that she was not able to recover. My condolences to Jet and you.

andypaul
26th August 2008, 11:02
My Condolences to Jet and You sir.

You did the right thing to be with your Wife, who needs you far more than your Boss today.

Mrs Daddy
26th August 2008, 11:10
when I open this thread i was quite scared and hoping that its not gonna be a bad news and yet this happen I am so sorry for what happened.my condolence to jet

PAT
26th August 2008, 11:41
it's so sad to know that jet's sister was not able to survive.My condelence...

PeterB
26th August 2008, 12:21
Our condolences to you, Jet, and all the rest of the family.

Piamed
26th August 2008, 17:16
Dom, I am at a loss for words. My heart goes out to Jet, yourself and the rest of the family. Regarding your boss's response. The way you handled it will heap burning coals on his head.

Really sorry for your loss!

Ann07
26th August 2008, 17:25
Oh so sorry to hear that Dom.

My condolences.

tiN
26th August 2008, 17:57
my condolences

alicat
26th August 2008, 18:20
my condolences to you,jet and all the rest of the family.

kimmi
26th August 2008, 18:44
sorry to hear about the news Dom and Jet..Prayers and condolences for the whole family..


Clive and Kimmi

joebloggs
26th August 2008, 19:19
:NoNo: sorry for your misses dom, time is a healer thou

:cwm24:

lil John
26th August 2008, 20:01
Hi Dom, My prayers will continue for you,Jet and the rest of your family. God Bless

patti1227
1st September 2008, 12:59
My condolences. Extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family...

gracia143
1st September 2008, 17:10
Our heartfelt condolences Dom and Jet.

From Trevor and Grace

LEAHnew
2nd September 2008, 04:09
My prayers and condolences for the whole family.

silver13
2nd September 2008, 13:14
No words that me and Anilyn could ever say will be enough, but we send our deepest condolences to you both and all of Jet's family at this difficult time. Our hearts are with you all.

vbkelly
2nd September 2008, 13:21
Yesterday afternoon, I received the dreaded text from Jet.

Her sister Bessie had passed away while in hospital.

I immediately left work at the town & Country Show in Coventry and made my way home, to try to be of some comfort.

I phoned my boss to tell him that I would be unable to go to the office today as I wanted to be with my wife.
The answer I got seemed very selfish indeed, but I can live with that.

I hope he can.

Thanks for all your prayers and words of support.


condolences dom and jet and jet families

fred
4th September 2008, 03:38
condolences dom..Crikey thats awful news.

aposhark
4th September 2008, 08:43
So sorry for you and Jet, Dom :bigcry:

mhynne
4th September 2008, 17:57
such sad news... condolences dom and jet... =(

aromulus
5th September 2008, 09:39
On behalf of my wife, I wish to thank everybody for the kind and sincere words of simpathy and condolencences.

jbt
10th September 2008, 05:35
me and my husband would like to offer our sincere condolences dom and jet.