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cheesewiz
20th September 2008, 00:22
Is it for love or comfort?

I have a brit work mate who said to me she has a filipina (45 y/o) neighbour married to a brit ( she said its her ex teacher the guy ) who is in his 80 now according to her bec she is 50 now. Of course as a filipina she thinks I have a very good explanation about it.

I thought its only filipinos who likes gossiping....:D

LEAHnew
20th September 2008, 04:35
Ask directly to the people involved on how they feel about it:xxgrinning--00xx3:, coz judgement or interpretation can't give enough better explanation:rolleyes:

joebloggs
20th September 2008, 06:56
i think an age gap of 30+ yrs will attract some attention :Erm:

as does my misses when she's out with little joe, he's got no Filipino features at all, looks like any other white British kid :doh

only in a soap do you see stories like this :D, its not 21yrs but he's 30yrs old :doh

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1055513/Formula-1-champion-Niki-Lauda-marries-transplant-hero-girlfriend-21-years-junior.html

Ana_may365
20th September 2008, 14:43
all i can say is :love: :love18: :lov4::luv13::don

aposhark
20th September 2008, 18:51
Is it for love or comfort?

I have a brit work mate who said to me she has a filipina (45 y/o) neighbour married to a brit ( she said its her ex teacher the guy ) who is in his 80 now according to her bec she is 50 now. Of course as a filipina she thinks I have a very good explanation about it.

I thought its only filipinos who likes gossiping....:D

Hi, there are two questions here and my replies would be that

1) love knows no boundaries to age

and

2) gossip is world-wide, there's no escaping it :Rasp:

PAT
21st September 2008, 02:52
Is it for love or comfort?

I have a brit work mate who said to me she has a filipina (45 y/o) neighbour married to a brit ( she said its her ex teacher the guy ) who is in his 80 now according to her bec she is 50 now. Of course as a filipina she thinks I have a very good explanation about it.

I thought its only filipinos who likes gossiping....:D


Age is just a number, not really a big deal. It's the comfort emotionally that matters most that makes you feel complete and happy, not the age.Just enjoy the feeling of being in love.:BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy:

LEAHnew
21st September 2008, 05:41
i think an age gap of 30+ yrs will attract some attention :Erm:

as does my misses when she's out with little joe, he's got no Filipino features at all, looks like any other white British kid :doh

only in a soap do you see stories like this :D, its not 21yrs but he's 30yrs old :doh

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1055513/Formula-1-champion-Niki-Lauda-marries-transplant-hero-girlfriend-21-years-junior.html

wow what a great story:xxgrinning--00xx3:.. his life savior ...now his wife:rolleyes:

joebloggs
21st September 2008, 06:57
wow what a great story:xxgrinning--00xx3:.. his life savior ...now his wife:rolleyes:

yes, he's lucky twice, she saved his life and now he's got a 29yr old wife :D

:xxgrinning--00xx3:

cheesewiz
23rd September 2008, 22:57
Ask directly to the people involved on how they feel about it:xxgrinning--00xx3:, coz judgement or interpretation can't give enough better explanation:rolleyes:


I have no intention to ask the person's involve its none of my business at all!!!! I just sharing it that's all:D

cheesewiz
23rd September 2008, 23:11
Age is just a number, not really a big deal. It's the comfort emotionally that matters most that makes you feel complete and happy, not the age.Just enjoy the feeling of being in love.:BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy:

well its easy to say that age is just a number for some people but if you do a reality check you'll know the big difference IMO

aromulus
24th September 2008, 12:21
well its easy to say that age is just a number for some people but if you do a reality check you'll know the big difference IMO


Always act your shoe size.... And not your age....:xxgrinning--00xx3:

aposhark
24th September 2008, 12:42
well its easy to say that age is just a number for some people but if you do a reality check you'll know the big difference IMO

Be POSITIVE, not negative :xxgrinning--00xx3:

PeterB
24th September 2008, 16:57
well its easy to say that age is just a number for some people but if you do a reality check you'll know the big difference IMO

I guess that you don't approve of my marriage to Ruby, then?

Strange as it may seem, we really don't find the 30 year difference to be an issue at all.

jackmac452
24th September 2008, 20:50
I agree with you PeterB...I just wish my missus could keep up with me....she's always feeling tired.....(well.I suppose she has a point..hehehe) these blooming marathons.....two weeks to go......

cheesewiz
24th September 2008, 23:09
I don't mean to offend anybody here with the age issue....sorry my apology

i do believe love conquers all i am not negative..may be i am to realistic:Erm:

LEAHnew
25th September 2008, 09:57
I have no intention to ask the person's involve its none of my business at all!!!! I just sharing it that's all:D
:Erm:really:rolleyes::D


well its easy to say that age is just a number for some people but if you do a reality check you'll know the big difference IMO

Yes it's just a number, if I do reality check it will be in positive thoughts for sure:xxgrinning--00xx3:


Always act your shoe size.... And not your age....:xxgrinning--00xx3:

:xxgrinning--00xx3:


I guess that you don't approve of my marriage to Ruby, then?

Strange as it may seem, we really don't find the 30 year difference to be an issue at all.

Not strange mate, we're on the same track:xxgrinning--00xx3:

kimmi
25th September 2008, 19:11
well its easy to say that age is just a number for some people but if you do a reality check you'll know the big difference IMO

well it will be also easy for u to say that but I am pretty sure u will find the answer when u are on the situation..:xxgrinning--00xx3:

silver13
25th September 2008, 19:22
What matters most is, if two people are happy and both comfortable to each other :-)

aposhark
25th September 2008, 21:21
What matters most is, if two people are happy and both comfortable to each other :-)

:iagree:

flomike
3rd October 2008, 14:23
my husband is 16 year old than me...is that a huge gap in British point of view? as for filipinos point of view (in Phils) it is a very huge gap:Erm:IMO but who cares...he is the love of my life:BouncyHappy::cwm12:

well, actually I have co-worker (filipina) she is 49 years old and the hubby is about 82 now but no child both parties agreed not to have one at all. My only criticism at her is she never called her husband as "husband or asawa" she always called him as her companionship and she told me that they don't sleep on the same room anymore:Erm: But being married for 17 years is a remarkable achievement:rolleyes: