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lavander
27th January 2009, 02:25
i'd like to share this articles to all of you.. might be a long but i find it worth it to read.... no harm i guess if you try ... enjoy...


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Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.

You can make out of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets. Most importantly, if you love someone tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. Learn a lesson in life each day you live.

Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.
Was it worth it?

Make it a Great Day.

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Lavander... :)

Paulboy
27th January 2009, 09:19
Good stuff Lavander!

PAT
27th January 2009, 11:46
NIce one lavander....!

amyburple
27th January 2009, 12:39
Yea I Agree :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3: Everything has a reasons :):)

Alan
27th January 2009, 14:25
Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.


Lavander... :)

Absolutely - wise words. I must learn from them.

Al.:)

acs
27th January 2009, 17:32
Very inspirational words Lavander :)

Annainlove
27th January 2009, 20:47
Wonderful article! Very true! One should always think of that when struggling with daily life. Just put your faith in love and everything will be fine!

nigel
27th January 2009, 22:21
That was great lavander!:BouncyHappy:Are you interested in the Law Of Attraction?:cwm12: I feel great since I learnt it!:)

lavander
28th January 2009, 00:33
Thanks everyone...

@Nigel, yes though i would like to think the Law of Attraction' is already part of our daily life... :)

oppps..noticed your quotes is getting longer ha ha ha... Nice One of course!

Lavander..

aposhark
28th January 2009, 02:27
Excellent

I was once in a bar in the USA and I met a friend there.

I asked him how he was and he replied "You know Mike, I am just so happy to be here".

That simple thought has stuck with me.

We all often rush around and forget to enjoy the day.

We cannot enjoy every day, but we can try to be as happy as possible, and if we are lucky enough to have a special person in our lives, tell them they are special. :)

sheila_ADY
28th January 2009, 03:47
Nice One Lavander...very inspiring.

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

And their life too.(Vise Versa)
I met my Long time friend by accident. She seems in troubled because I noticed to her physical appearance.And invite her to sit down and had a break.She burst out right away..only I can help that time is have my ears to listen and heart to understand her. After all she burst out...I gave her an inspiration and great advice.She often text me how thankful she is,that we met and talked.And that change her way of life a bit now.
That improves her life..even not totally. Until now i cant believe i did something good.
We are instrument too and had good reasons.

Jay&Zobel
28th January 2009, 04:51
Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

Lavander... :)



Thank you Lavader... thank you so so so much!

kimmi
28th January 2009, 18:45
thank u for sharing it sis Irene, it is very inspiring..:)

joe3452
1st February 2009, 14:44
what lovely reading oh you are sweet lavender xx joseph

Sketco
7th February 2009, 16:46
G'day lavander,
Just stumbled upon this post.
Very timely advice as it turns out...it relates quite nicely to a confused situation i'm mulling over right now. Nice thoughts, very timely for me.
Thank you