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pacificelectric
3rd February 2009, 18:21
Like many others I have tried Internet dating and like many others encountered scams, some childish, some a bit sophisticated.... I don't need to repeat the golden rule: a decent and reliable person will never ask for money! If I can give a piece of advice based on my personal experience and judgment (I have been working with law enforcement for nearly three decades and encountered hundreds of crooks in my career..), if you have doubts on the person or just want to make sure she is sincere, use her phone, call her unexpectedly (mind the time difference of course!), use snail mail to be sure her address indeed exists and in some cases Google can be a very efficient detective. My GF introduced herself to me as a recently graduated licensed nurse and this was indeed confirmed by the governmental listings you can access to through Google. Just an example..

Now, as far as the scams are concerned: "my sister wants to sell our computer, and if I can't access a computer how can we communicate Honey?"..... I did not respond. One week later: "my eldest sister died, we need 10.000 Pesos for the funerals". That time I received photos of a funeral with people nearby a coffin, the whole family sobbing in the church, etc.... I sent the 10.000 Pesos. There was one chance out a billion that the story was true... one week later, I got a message about a Social Security check she could not cash because she had no bank account.... I did not respond and in the end she quit. Good luck!

More recently another one wrote me that because a cousin had forgotten something on the stove the whole house had burnt down.... I sent some money again and after she told me that if I was good enough to "lend" 50.000 Pesos she could buy a small house..... well again I decided not to respond. I don't like being a sucker, eventhough this happens to me from time to time.

That's about it, you know what to expect if the girl raises the financial issue.......... :D

pennybarry
3rd February 2009, 19:02
Sorry to hear your repeated story. But please don't give up as not all filipinas are asking for money. Scammers are everywhere so be careful with all the tricks you will encounter.
Goodluck for your next try.

KeithD
3rd February 2009, 19:05
Penny.....can I have some money? :xxgrinning--00xx3:

pacificelectric
3rd February 2009, 19:18
Well at the same time you feel a bit guilty when you know the living conditions in the Philippines. Once I communicated with a schoolmistress in Quezon City, she had to share a room with her brother, they had to share a bathroom with other people and they had no fridge.... mind you, no fridge in a tropical country! And still she had to sell Avon stuff to make both ends meet.... but of course it is not pleasant when this feeling of guilt and compassion is exploited by scammers!

pennybarry
3rd February 2009, 19:20
Penny.....can I have some money? :xxgrinning--00xx3:

hmmm I didn't ask money until I married hubby but don't give money too:action-smiley-081: I give some to him when he is jobless. :icon_lol:


But I can do donation :D I have noticed that DONATE (on the upper right) I clicked that b4 but I don't even have a debit card/credit card:doh. :D:icon_lol:

Pepe n Pilar
3rd February 2009, 19:48
Sorry to hear that Pacificelectric. You seem a nice and genuine person. You deserve someone like you as well. Don't get disappointed you will meet the perfect one for you. Just be very careful because scammers are everywhere. Decent women don't ask money from people they don't even know and never met in person. It's obvious that it is a scam but still you keep on sending money to her. You're really loaded i suppose....:)

gemini63
3rd February 2009, 20:00
Sorry to hear that Pacificelectric. You seem a nice and genuine person. You deserve someone like you as well. Don't get disappointed you will meet the perfect one for you. Just be very careful because scammers are everywhere. Decent women don't ask money from people they don't even know. It's obvious that it is a scam but still you keep on sending money to her. You're really loaded i suppose....:)

Best of luck in your search...

I agree...decent woman dont ask money to whom they are talking in net.If the purpose is to find out a real and serious relationship. Its not bad doing so, like sending money if the relationship is too close already and committed with each other surely. And have meet in person already too...So when a woman ask money easily,even just have newly known each other,, its a real scam..so beware especially young girls using cafe..

nigel
3rd February 2009, 20:34
Get out there to Philippines and actually meet the girl I say! You'll learn that Filipino's are good natured when you get there, and your sure to have a cracking time! Because your on this website you've become an easy target for scammers it seems..:Erm:

KeithD
3rd February 2009, 20:39
My wife never asks for money......she's already spent it all....


:xxparty-smiley-004:

pacificelectric
3rd February 2009, 20:57
Well the lady I have now found in Mindanao is great and I am looking forward to meet her there....

nigel
3rd February 2009, 21:39
Well the lady I have now found in Mindanao is great and I am looking forward to meet her there....Oh great stuff! I've been to Davao twice now, I like Jacks Ridge and there's an eagle sanctuary in Davao if your interested in that kind of thing..Filipino's are fun, good natured people, they've got these amazing smiles I'll never forget it! You may well be expected to pay for everything while your out there...you'll have great fun though!:xxgrinning--00xx3:

vbkelly
3rd February 2009, 21:39
Well the lady I have now found in Mindanao is great and I am looking forward to meet her there....

goodluck to you

pacificelectric
3rd February 2009, 22:12
You may well be expected to pay for everything while your out there...you'll have great fun though!

I am ready for that.... :icon_lol: and I hope to be able to go a bit around!

aromulus
3rd February 2009, 22:16
I am ready for that.... :icon_lol: and I hope to be able to go a bit around!


I still have a spare sister in law that needs a good seeing to.......:omg:

Mrs.JMajor
4th February 2009, 01:23
hmmm I didn't ask money until I married hubby but don't give money too:action-smiley-081: I give some to him when he is jobless. :icon_lol:


same here,when i applied for my fiancee visa ,some friends of mine says,did you put some western union receipt there, i said "why? he didn't send me money since we met more than year ago" and the reason they say is "commitment" issue, but i think i would be more questionable of the ECO if i ask money,cause i have good business here

the issue here is not all filipina are asking for money

Eljohno
4th February 2009, 01:41
Well the lady I have now found in Mindanao is great and I am looking forward to meet her there....

Where in Mindanao is she from????

scottishbride
4th February 2009, 04:19
Well the lady I have now found in Mindanao is great and I am looking forward to meet her there....

Goodluck! Hope she's not Abu Sayyaf! LOL:cwm12:

pacificelectric
4th February 2009, 06:50
:omg: from the photos she is not Abu Sayaf..... not even his sister!!!

SHe is from Davao City and I hope the city is safe. I remember quite vividly the episode of hostage-taking of several westerners among whom several French in Jolo in 2000.... 32 weeks prisoners in the jungle!

LEAHnew
4th February 2009, 07:10
:omg: from the photos she is not Abu Sayaf..... not even his sister!!!

SHe is from Davao City and I hope the city is safe. I remember quite vividly the episode of hostage-taking of several westerners among whom several French in Jolo in 2000.... 32 weeks prisoners in the jungle!

:Erm: I thought we Filipina mostly confused about his/her, she/he:D

Well be careful maybe She is He:omg::D:Cuckoo:

Goodluck:xxgrinning--00xx3:

pacificelectric
4th February 2009, 08:51
I'll be careful.... I remember being approached by ladyboys when I was on this dating website...

bornatbirth
4th February 2009, 11:01
I'll be careful.... I remember being approached by ladyboys when I was on this dating website...

i had a few of those,he wanted to meet me when he came to london as i looked nice :omg: :action-smiley-081:...i never told him i dont live there :icon_lol:

PeterB
4th February 2009, 14:52
SHe is from Davao City and I hope the city is safe.

Davao is, indeed, safe. I've been out and about in Davao today, and left to drive home to Tagum at around 19:30.

However, venturing too far (50kms?) south or west from the city is probably not a good idea at the moment.

Mrs.JMajor
4th February 2009, 14:55
Davao is, indeed, safe. I've been out and about in Davao today, and left to drive home to Tagum at around 19:30.

However, venturing too far (50kms?) south or west from the city is probably not a good idea at the moment.

Don't feel too confident peter,have u watched TV patrol this 6:30 ?more and more of kidnapped victims :NoNo:

Take care guys

PeterB
4th February 2009, 15:22
Don't feel too confident peter,have u watched TV patrol this 6:30 ?more and more of kidnapped victims :NoNo:

Take care guys

:yikes: Nope, we weren't home until almost 9pm! Tell me more.

Eljohno
4th February 2009, 15:27
Don't feel too confident peter,have u watched TV patrol this 6:30 ?more and more of kidnapped victims :NoNo:

Take care guys

There is always more chances of kidnappings happening in the Southern part of Mindanao.

Davao has a good mayor who is known for putting a lot of effort to keep the city safe but please use common sense and read up on the do's and don't do's while there.

If someone offers you a cheap holiday on the islands at the south of Mindanao run run run:yikes:

Mrs.JMajor
4th February 2009, 15:30
:yikes: Nope, we weren't home until almost 9pm! Tell me more.

lol sorry for the thread owner :D

they told,this week more and more kidnap victims,i guess more than 10 people, :doh including a 7 years old boy, mostly ordinary people,look for ABSCBN tv patrol today

PeterB
4th February 2009, 15:42
I haven't seen the TV news yet but, as far as I can see, most (all?) the recent kidnaps have been is Sulu or Basilan .. quite a way from Davao.

I know that when there have been security problems around here, the police road checks are very evident ... one evening we were stopped and searched three times between Davao and Tagum. There was no sign of any extraordinary activity today.

Jay&Zobel
4th February 2009, 15:56
Well at the same time you feel a bit guilty when you know the living conditions in the Philippines. Once I communicated with a schoolmistress in Quezon City, she had to share a room with her brother, they had to share a bathroom with other people and they had no fridge.... mind you, no fridge in a tropical country! And still she had to sell Avon stuff to make both ends meet.... but of course it is not pleasant when this feeling of guilt and compassion is exploited by scammers!



:NoNo::NoNo::NoNo: i had sideline jobs when i was there (other than my accounting jobs): sold AVON products, Dakki Inflatable pillows, insurances name it!! hehhe...

also, sharing rooms with relatives are so common (but not with a brother if they belong in the same age group?)...

fregarding the fridge: NOT YOUR PROBLEM! there is always an ICE BLOCK/cubes that can be bought in the nearby convenience store...

but she is indeed a scammer.. just be very careful next time...

PeterB
4th February 2009, 16:59
also, sharing rooms with relatives are so common (but not with a brother if they belong in the same age group?)...

Ummm ... before I arrived in her life, Ruby's family (about a dozen people living there) only had one bed and one room. The only other option was to sleep outdoors. The bed was Ruby's - she bought it because she had become accustomed to a bed while working in Singapore ... and other members of the family did share it with her.

pacificelectric
4th February 2009, 18:14
I was also given to understand that life in Manila/Quezon City was far more expensive than anywhere else in the Phils and people there would end up in "crash pads" where they can be lie sardines in a tin can!

nidadonnachie@y
4th February 2009, 18:45
well immeet my husband through online but i never ask money to him even do he offered me b4 he come over i said no.eveen now his in uk i ddnt ask him to sent me money coz im working and i can support myself.and just to prove to him that im true to him. well goodluck to u hope u meet the real one.be careful and sorry to hear bout ur story.

Jay&Zobel
6th February 2009, 00:12
well immeet my husband through online but i never ask money to him even do he offered me b4 he come over i said no.eveen now his in uk i ddnt ask him to sent me money coz im working and i can support myself.and just to prove to him that im true to him. well goodluck to u hope u meet the real one.be careful and sorry to hear bout ur story.



yeah ... INDEPENDENT WOMEN are really good ...


sometimes (all the time) it makes me sad reading all threads about Brits being ripped off by co-filipinas and left them broken hearted and all...

coz some Brits or other nationalities are also genuine and all they offer is their love but here come the Pinays... all asking but money... huhuhuhu really scary, annoying, outrageous and gutted...

Eljohno
6th February 2009, 00:17
As much as i know there are scammers out there you have to remember there are genuine girls who ask for money simply because of the desperate needs of their family..

bornatbirth
6th February 2009, 00:23
yeah ... INDEPENDENT WOMEN are really good ...


sometimes (all the time) it makes me sad reading all threads about Brits being ripped off by co-filipinas and left them broken hearted and all...

coz some Brits or other nationalities are also genuine and all they offer is their love but here come the Pinays... all asking but money... huhuhuhu really scary, annoying, outrageous and gutted...

the trouble here is that we list all the so called scammer and bad things filipinas do but we should also look at all the bad things foreign men do to filipinas and i think you will find more girls being badly treated and taken advantage of :NoNo:

just because a girl asks for money someone as to give it to them first and you can always say no!

Mrs.JMajor
6th February 2009, 00:55
yeah ... INDEPENDENT WOMEN are really good ...


sometimes (all the time) it makes me sad reading all threads about Brits being ripped off by co-filipinas and left them broken hearted and all...

coz some Brits or other nationalities are also genuine and all they offer is their love but here come the Pinays... all asking but money...

:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::rolleyes:

sheila_ADY
6th February 2009, 02:57
Davao City is very peaceful....and lots to visit.Especially natures tripping. Hope Mindanao is not Known for ABu Sayaff DEN. So SAD.They are known hiding in Sulu. But last time GMA featured SULU..The City has a Great Treasure..THEIR NATURES.And People are very friendly and so innocent.Thats why sometimes I am upset about the Travel Advisory. Cheers!! lol.

Good Luck Pacificelectric ^_^ hope she is the right girl for you. ANd Enjoy your Visit here soon.

pacificelectric
6th February 2009, 08:42
Actually there seems to be a gap between the advice you get from your government and what the locals tell you. Still you need to be aware of some things that western media ignore.... I also encountered a Filipina from the Zamboanga peninsula, on the western part of Mindanao, she was from a small town named Ipil (on the coast). She told me if I wanted some info about Ipil I just needed to look up in the Net, which I did. And I was a bit surprised to find out that in 1992 Ipil had been attacked from the sea by a gang of terrorists who razed the city center and killes 72 people.

The next day on the phone of course I asked her about it.
- You knew about the terrorist attack in 1992?
- Oh yes, I was there.
- What do you mean?
- I was home and saw these men walking on the street in front of the house.
- And what if they had come in and shot everyone?
- Oh no, we had locked up the gate.
- .........

what could I answer to that???? At least I am glad to know that in some parts of the world terrorists respect private property!!!!

Mrs.JMajor
6th February 2009, 12:19
Hahaha that was funny pacific,they think bullet can't enter into locked gate ah :icon_lol::doh

there's no such thing that terrorist respect innocent or as you said private property

Jay&Zobel
6th February 2009, 12:41
but we should also look at all the bad things foreign men do to filipinas and i think you will find more girls being badly treated and taken advantage of :NoNo:!



yeah, my husband totally agree with you... coz some are really being badly treated like: MAN will ask the girl to marry then she became his slave, HIS PUNCHING BAG ETC... She got no voice because she thinks that she owe her life to the MAN whom she married (giving money etc while they were dating, pull her out from poverty, "helped" her from financial distress and all). So, here comes the MAN doing nothing but make her life miserable...

pacificelectric
6th February 2009, 18:44
Yes, I fully agree with that but it is obvious that the image of the "Asian" woman is pretty distorted in the mind of many western men!

kermit123
10th February 2009, 16:23
I still have a spare sister in law that needs a good seeing to.......:omg:
what she needs her oil changing lol gaz/maybs

kermit123
10th February 2009, 16:29
yeah, my husband totally agree with you... coz some are really being badly treated like: MAN will ask the girl to marry then she became his slave, HIS PUNCHING BAG ETC... She got no voice because she thinks that she owe her life to the MAN whom she married (giving money etc while they were dating, pull her out from poverty, "helped" her from financial distress and all). So, here comes the MAN doing nothing but make her life miserable... im sorry but mine other way round about year ago i had agument with my wife i went for walk down garden she came out and fired two shoots at ground by my feet :yikes:i said ffs. she said come back lets talk about this and sort it out yep i said good idea lol now if we dont aggrea we leave the guns in the house lol but the first year together was hardest after that its great lol gaz/maybs:rolleyes:

pacificelectric
10th February 2009, 16:34
What's the name of the ol' missus? Calamity Jane? :BouncyHappy:

kermit123
10th February 2009, 16:47
Actually there seems to be a gap between the advice you get from your government and what the locals tell you. Still you need to be aware of some things that western media ignore.... I also encountered a Filipina from the Zamboanga peninsula, on the western part of Mindanao, she was from a small town named Ipil (on the coast). She told me if I wanted some info about Ipil I just needed to look up in the Net, which I did. And I was a bit surprised to find out that in 1992 Ipil had been attacked from the sea by a gang of terrorists who razed the city center and killes 72 people.

The next day on the phone of course I asked her about it.
- You knew about the terrorist attack in 1992?
- Oh yes, I was there.
- What do you mean?
- I was home and saw these men walking on the street in front of the house.
- And what if they had come in and shot everyone?
- Oh no, we had locked up the gate.
- .........

what could I answer to that???? At least I am glad to know that in some parts of the world terrorists respect private property!!!!
no if you read about zamboanga city its really really bad lol my brother said ill give you year you ll be dead or kidnapped lol i been here 4 years my heads gone but im ok lol there was a case here that a guy nocked on someones door and the owner looked throuth the spy hole in door and bang thay saw him look and fired a gun throuth it lol dead as anythink. we had a nock on our door it was dark i allways keep away from door in case thay shoot you throuth the door. lol i said who is it a reply was its police open door.i said what you want he said police buiness we need to chat to you .i said come back in light .no open door or we will break it down . my wife next to me now . i said we will shoot you if you enter with out our permission. we both had our guns loaded and ready my wife on left of door me on right both pointing 40 cal at the door going to empty 16 rounds each at the door lol. it went quiet then we heard some bikes drive of we never heard any more about it. we just reported it to brangy captain in morning lol (philippines law if anyone is in your property with out permission you can shoot them with no recouse of law its your property :)very good law allways be ready for anythink then if nothink happens it ok :)my wife is care giver and she carrys 2 guns all time one down back of her trousers a 380 james bond gun and a smith&wesson 40 cal in her bag both loaded with one in barrel thay are kidnapping normal pinoys now nurses and care givers and teachers any one i allways say if you shoot someone allway allways go finish em of with one to head then you dont have to pay medical bills for them trick now is if your on bike (we have 3 ) is pull up next to you and get you to stop then take your bike normally 2 bikes 4 people i said let them have your bike back off then as soon as thay pull of on the bike get gun out and shoot them your bike rider first then others in back again go finish em off (or thay come back for revenge later when thay recover lol.

scott&ligaya
10th February 2009, 18:51
Even on a quiet island like Palawan we were advised by the PNP to get one shotgun for our caretaker and at least one automatic for ourselves to keep in the house!!! funniest piece of advice was that if there was an intruder and we chased them, was to make sure we shot them before they got over the wall/railings as it was okay then as they were on our property. They actually told our caretaker to drag them back in if they made it over the wall wounded and then make sure they could not intrude again. We thought it was all very over the top at the time but things can happen especially of your property is very grand compared to the locals.

We have never had any issues there but I guess at least we are prepared. We added a camera over the front gate last year and sensor lights over the main doors.

pacificelectric
10th February 2009, 19:09
Waow, this reminds me of some stories I have read and heard on in South Africa after the apartheid regime stopped. The whites and their employees were subjected to a high level of attacks and since that time crime has been soaring there. But from what I read above Zamboanga is the pits.... I hope things are different in Davao City!

scott&ligaya
10th February 2009, 19:21
I think it is only fair to re-iterate that we never feel unsafe or threatened as we go about in Palawan. We are very friendly with our local neighbours, we employ some of them whenever we need work doing, If I am popping into Puerto I hate driving past locals waiting for a trike or jeepney so I always fill the pick up (I am amazed how many they put on the deck). At any fiesta time we always contribute lechon or use some of our grounds for events (we have a full size basketball court size slab of concrete for parking cars which is very popular with the local kids) and we generally invlolve ourselves in the local barangay activities to what ever extent we can. Even when we rented our property out to a Swiss friend we stipulated to him that he should continue to consdier requests to use the "basketball court".

Filipinos are nearly always friendly, welcoming and hospitable. I hope you and your girl work out and that you have a great time when you get over

pacificelectric
10th February 2009, 19:58
I found this map of the Philippines on the website of the French Embassy in Manila. THe colors are self-explanatory and are pretty consistent with what I have read around...

http://i247.photobucket.com/albums/gg125/tanuccio/PHILIPPINES--06-01-09.jpg

PeterB
11th February 2009, 17:38
I wish that the British Authorities would recognise that some parts of Mindanao are safe. Davao is often described as the safest city in Philippines (and acknowledged by the British Consul from Manila in our meeting with her today).

Having said that, your map shows Tagum in an orange area, and our beach and our farms are in the red area to the east of Davao, so it still isn't specific enough.

pacificelectric
11th February 2009, 18:10
Yes, I agree that this map is not very specific, but it probably takes into account the fact that because of various facts the "color" can change for the better or for the worse, according to military or police operations or to the relocation of some activist groups. And I am sure that even in the green areas a certain level of precaution is required.....

Happy_Now
16th March 2009, 07:30
I agree...decent woman dont ask money to whom they are talking in net.If the purpose is to find out a real and serious relationship. Its not bad doing so, like sending money if the relationship is too close already and committed with each other surely. And have meet in person already too...So when a woman ask money easily,even just have newly known each other,, its a real scam..so beware especially young girls using cafe..

Im wondering why mu husband always different:Erm::Erm::Erm:
Because we met on the internet by accident :D:D, that time it was my OJT and i had one hour to wait before shift so i went to internet cafe and a friend teach me how to go YM:D. Luckily he is online and after knowing i am widow with 4kids working hard for them:):). His heart melt and told me "oh i need to help you". He requested me then to come online next day. After a week of bein chattin he quoted "oh your teeth were beautiful and i replied "nope bcoz last night i have terrible tooth ache which makes me unable to sleep" After a while ive seen him on the phone (thru webcam) then told me to collect money (western union). I was surprised! i dont know how to do collect it, never done it before, but he insisted 4me to go and be back after collecting the money. Gosh! nearly 10k and 100 pounds sent:xxgrinning--00xx3:

Never ask for money:D:D.
On the 2nd week of our chat, he send again voluntarily. Another £100 so i could rent a car to pick him up at the airport.
I had mixed emotion, as if it wasnt real. Im tellin to myself "will he really come? But indeed he cum (CUM?:icon_lol::icon_lol:)

When i met him at NAIA, he hug me (gosh i was ashamed hehe) and said
"If your plan is to have money, here, (he open his brief case) take the money (£2,000) and let me back to the UK please. dont kill me:icon_lol::icon_lol:

I gave him 12 days to think very carefully and to have chance to see filipina ways (oh our ways) also he can withdraw if he find out he didnt love me..

But he cant wait to marry me:icon_lol::icon_lol:
he keep on trying to pull me on his room:icon_lol::icon_lol:
he didnt succeed:CompBuster:

As a son of God, never go to bed without marriage:ARsurrender::ARsurrender:
that makes him to love me more!!!:ARsurrender::ARsurrender:

Never ask for money:Rasp::Rasp::Rasp::Rasp:
not before our marriage:icon_lol::icon_lol:
after that YES!!!:BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy:
ALWAYS:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

and we live happily ever after:xxgrinning--00xx3:
but after 3 n half yrs of happy marriage:cwm34:
here we are facing difficult & heavy situation:CompBuster::CompBuster:

pls:Help1::Help1::Help1::Help1::Help1::Help1::Help1:
pray for us!
THANK YOU

pinky
16th March 2009, 12:44
mr pacificelectric....as they say, in every country..there are downsides and goodsides...i'm from Quezon city and happy to be one of the many Filipinos living a nice life... Thanks God!!!...if ul visit the Phils....don't hesitate to contact me...lol...il show u the other side of life of the Filipinos...comfortable, happy, good and peaceful life..... One thing that we, Filipinos are proud....PINOYS ARE HOSPITABLE!!!!
goodluck!!!!

Mrs.JMajor
16th March 2009, 12:54
mr pacificelectric....as they say, in every country..there are downsides and goodsides...i'm from Quezon city and happy to be one of the many Filipinos living a nice life... Thanks God!!!...if ul visit the Phils....don't hesitate to contact me...lol...il show u the other side of life of the Filipinos...comfortable, happy, good and peaceful life..... One thing that we, Filipinos are proud....PINOYS ARE HOSPITABLE!!!!
goodluck!!!!

Nice one Pinky,especially this one--------------- "and happy to be one of the many Filipinos living a nice life... Thanks God!!" ( I second the motion)

and yes very hospitable :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Jay&Zobel
17th March 2009, 06:59
Im wondering why mu husband always different:Erm::Erm::Erm:
Because we met on the internet by accident :D:D,
His heart melt and told me "oh i need to help you".

Never ask for money:D:D.
On the 2nd week of our chat, he send again voluntarily.
Another £100 so i could rent a car to pick him up at the airport.
I had mixed emotion, as if it wasnt real. Im tellin to myself "will he really come? But indeed he cum (CUM?:icon_lol::icon_lol:)

When i met him at NAIA, he hug me (gosh i was ashamed hehe) and said
"If your plan is to have money, here, (he open his brief case) take the money (£2,000) and let me back to the UK please. dont kill me:icon_lol::icon_lol:

I gave him 12 days to think very carefully and to have chance to see filipina ways (oh our ways) also he can withdraw if he find out he didnt love me..

But he cant wait to marry me:icon_lol::icon_lol:
he keep on trying to pull me on his room:icon_lol::icon_lol:
he didnt succeed:CompBuster:

As a son of God, never go to bed without marriage:ARsurrender::ARsurrender:
that makes him to love me more!!!:ARsurrender::ARsurrender:

Never ask for money:Rasp::Rasp::Rasp::Rasp:
not before our marriage:icon_lol::icon_lol:
after that YES!!!:BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy:
ALWAYS:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

and we live happily ever after:xxgrinning--00xx3:
but after 3 n half yrs of happy marriage:cwm34:
here we are facing difficult & heavy situation:CompBuster::CompBuster:

pls:Help1::Help1::Help1::Help1::Help1::Help1::Help1:
pray for us!
THANK YOU

i am an avid follower of your love story:cwm38::cwm38::cwm38:... and the famous :omg::omg:COME WORD HEHEHE...

God knows your heart desires...