playing hard to get??

[jakeob]

well ,,, i have been writing to a lady for about 3 weeks now ,,we web cam nearly everyday, talk on the phone, and exchance a long email everyday, and texts,,she seems like a very decent girl... i offered to come to meet her in November,,, and she said we havent known each other long enough yet to get to that stage.

is that a normal reply after 3 weeks??? this is all new to me :confused:

neil..

[Eljohno]

well ,,, i have been writing to a lady for about 3 weeks now ,,we web cam nearly everyday, talk on the phone, and exchance a long email everyday, and texts,,she seems like a very decent girl... i offered to come to meet her in November,,, and she said we havent known each other long enough yet to get to that stage.

is that a normal reply after 3 weeks??? this is all new to me :confused:

neil..

The pessimist would say she has something to hide:NoNo:

The opitimist would say you might have found a great girl who has the sense to take it slow:BouncyHappy:

Its working out which was is right which you will probably only find out with time:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[robeth]

The pessimist would say she has something to hide:NoNo:

The opitimist would say you might have found a great girl who has the sense to take it slow:BouncyHappy:

Its working out which was is right which you will probably only find out with time:xxgrinning--00xx3:


sometimes its what they call...slowly but surely...:) still, patience is a virtue...and it makes life easier...

[Jay&Zobel]

well ,,, i have been writing to a lady for about 3 weeks now ,,we web cam nearly everyday, talk on the phone, and exchance a long email everyday, and texts,,she seems like a very decent girl... i offered to come to meet her in November,,, and she said we havent known each other long enough yet to get to that stage.

is that a normal reply after 3 weeks??? this is all new to me :confused:

neil..



Hehehe... when she said its too early for u to meet, then respect her decision... sometimes its good to wait... courting a Filipina needs lots of patience, time etc.. yep think its part of our culture hehe Playing hard to get.. i dunno...


Jay & I have personally met after 6 years of writing snailmails & emails.. hehe, well i wasnt playing hard to get but time was indeed well spent!
Let your lady know you better and know her too! Love is patience...Love is kind..

[jakeob]

Thanks for the advice,,wow 6 yrs of snail mails, thats realy somin:)

theres me getting ready to go after 3 weeks lol

neil

[KeithD]

Filipino's = Ladies.

UK birds = :action-smiley-081: :icon_tonguew: :Sex: :butthead: :action-smiley-075: ...on the first night :D

[Jay&Zobel]

Points to ponder:

HARD TO GET IS BETTER THAN EASY TO GET!!! hehe

[scotsfiancee]

well ,,, i have been writing to a lady for about 3 weeks now ,,we web cam nearly everyday, talk on the phone, and exchance a long email everyday, and texts,,she seems like a very decent girl... i offered to come to meet her in November,,, and she said we havent known each other long enough yet to get to that stage.

is that a normal reply after 3 weeks??? this is all new to me :confused:

neil..

It would be nice to meet her in person, but i wonder y she don't seem like having an interest in meeting you very soon. Maybe she's hiding something, you should find it out! :Brick:

PS.. Filipina won't stay at first night......... you stay alone ok? :D

[misscarie]

It would be nice to meet her in person, but i wonder y she don't seem like having an interest in meeting you very soon. Maybe she's hiding something, you should find it out! :Brick:

PS.. Filipina won't stay at first night......... you stay alone ok? :D

or hands on............. pocket maybe :icon_lol:

[scotsfiancee]

or hands on............. pocket maybe :icon_lol:

It's not that itchy noh? :NoNo:

[Sharlyson]

you should admire her... i think most of the women would want to meet right away (for whatever reason) but this girl is willing to wait... that's a good move. get to know more each other, 3 weeks isn't even enough...if you are ready to meet up with her, then just a wait that she will invite you to come over. when that time comes, for sure you she's really interested in you too.