3 months later... the outcome.

[triple5]

Hi all, some of you may remember me from my thread at the start of this year
http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?t=13441

After some digging around and a bit of detective work it turns out there was another guy on the scene. I've been in touch with this guy today, another foreigner, and he was as baffled as me that she'd been two-timing us both. For over 6 months she's been telling both of us she loves us.

He has also visited her there, met the family, went the same places together, just 6 weeks after I'd visited. We even exchanged pictures of our time there. The similarities were creepy. Same places, same people, just a different guy in the picture. I find it appaling that the whole family were in on it and smiling their way through a pack of lies.

Anyway, we both put her actions down to her desperation to find a husband, and as neither of us were particularly forthcoming in a commitment she kept us both in the hope one of us would cave in. That's our theory, then yet again we could have just been two in a long line of fools. Who knows.

I don't feel any anger towards her, just this great pity that she felt the need to be so devious. Neither of us have spoken to her about it yet. The funny thing is, while shes been acting weird over the past few months me and this guy have both met somebody new :Cuckoo:

[aromulus]

Cor........:doh

That crystal ball I bought in Murano so many years ago, really works..........:omg:

Sorry to hear that, mate.
Being taken for a ride is not nice and is is definitively painful.:NoNo:
I don't think that she would have made a commitment herself with either of you guys in the running.
She would have happily continued to fleece you for a while or try to.
Good riddance.:xxgrinning--00xx3:

Luckily you seem to have found someone else in the meantime and I wish you all the best for the future.

[Mrs.JMajor]

The funny thing is, while shes been acting weird over the past few months me and this guy have both met somebody new :Cuckoo:

arrgghh,that was really devastating to know....sorry to hear it...but dont you think you already punish her for finding new one,
what about talk to her and ask why she do that....and just listen to her,she might lie again....but....just listen :doh
Shocks cant be aunt agony here :NoNo:

[Ann07]

Ohhh dear :doh:doh sorry to hear that...glad you've found your new one now. Keep on............:D


Goodluck:)

[Mrs.JMajor]

Ohh and i read my reply on your old thread,and i am right for what i said,eventhou youre trying to argue on my post there,but I am absolutely right..........
Sorry mate,but i am wishing you the best of luck from the bottom of my heart

[aposhark]

........Same places, same people, just a different guy in the picture.......

Really creepy, could be the plot to a bad movie.


........ I find it appaling that the whole family were in on it and smiling their way through a pack of lies........

I bet they felt very uncomfortable and phoney, but probably had no option as they just wanted her to be taken away to wealthy UK (yeah, right)


Anyway, we both put her actions down to her desperation to find a husband, and as neither of us were particularly forthcoming in a commitment she kept us both in the hope one of us would cave in. That's our theory, then yet again we could have just been two in a long line of fools. Who knows.

I don't feel any anger towards her, just this great pity that she felt the need to be so devious. Neither of us have spoken to her about it yet. The funny thing is, while shes been acting weird over the past few months me and this guy have both met somebody new :Cuckoo:

Good for you!

[triple5]

Thanks aromulus, yes should have definitely taken your advice at the time. Luckily I didn't lose too much, and in a way have no regrets. I still had a good holiday there and hope to return soon :)

Hi Mrs.JMajor yes I would listen to her if she wanted to talk about it. But once you've been fed so many lies by a person you then question everything that comes out of their mouth.

As I said in the original thread she planned to go to japan. She left 2 weeks ago and neither me or the other guy have heard from her since. So it wouldn't be a surprise if we never heard from her again.

[Mrs.JMajor]

Hmmm she might in visit visa with another man or fiancee visa...just a weird :doh:cwm24:guess

[triple5]

Mrs.JMajor yep you were spot on :) The province I believed she was in was actually bohol and cebu with fool number2.

Thanks aposhark It was creepy, and me and this guy said the same - it could be a movie. And she was a very good actress :lol:

Thanks Ann07

[triple5]

Hmmm she might in visit visa with another man or fiancee visa...just a weird :doh:cwm24:guess

yep, that has crossed my mind.

[kimmi]

sorry to hear about what happened triple5, well at least u knew the real thing as early as now and uve found somebody new..

Goodluck and wish u all the best, hope this time it's for real..:D

[triple5]

thanks kimmi yes thats true. I feel like I've had a lucky escape finding this out. I may have never known and been getting taken for an idiot for years.

[Sophie]

Hi all, some of you may remember me from my thread at the start of this year
http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?t=13441

After some digging around and a bit of detective work it turns out there was another guy on the scene. I've been in touch with this guy today, another foreigner, and he was as baffled as me that she'd been two-timing us both. For over 6 months she's been telling both of us she loves us.

He has also visited her there, met the family, went the same places together, just 6 weeks after I'd visited. We even exchanged pictures of our time there. The similarities were creepy. Same places, same people, just a different guy in the picture. I find it appaling that the whole family were in on it and smiling their way through a pack of lies.

Anyway, we both put her actions down to her desperation to find a husband, and as neither of us were particularly forthcoming in a commitment she kept us both in the hope one of us would cave in. That's our theory, then yet again we could have just been two in a long line of fools. Who knows.

I don't feel any anger towards her, just this great pity that she felt the need to be so devious. Neither of us have spoken to her about it yet. The funny thing is, while shes been acting weird over the past few months me and this guy have both met somebody new :Cuckoo:

Sorry to hear that - for both of you. And it's good thing you found out soon enough before either one of you gets her to come here and even marry her. And i commend you for not feeling bitter and angry. Besides, she's not worth wasting time for anyway, so why waste the energy getting mad and bitter for what she did when you can move on and start an honest relationship with someone new. And i must agree with you, it's a pity she has to scheme both of you and lead you on with her lies, not to mention the family going along and seemingly ok with the deception. I guess it brings into question the character and the kind of values they have. Anyway, i'm in no position to judge or criticize her. Its her life. Its just too bad, she could have had a great relationship with an honest and great guy and she wasted it, tough luck!
Anyway, goodluck in your new relationship and consider yourself lucky that the nightmare is over :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[triple5]

Its just too bad, she could have had a great relationship with an honest and great guy and she wasted it, tough luck!

Which guy? :icon_lol: Seriously though, thanks for your kind words :) The funny thing was I got on with the other guy like a house on fire. He seems like a decent chap and we said we'd keep in touch with each other.

[aposhark]

Which guy? :icon_lol: Seriously though, thanks for your kind words :) The funny thing was I got on with the other guy like a house on fire. He seems like a decent chap and we said we'd keep in touch with each other.

I know of a lady who found out that her man was cheating.
Of course, he vehemently denied her accusations.
Luckily she met the other woman and also found out there were many more too.
So she made arrangements to meet this bloke in a pub, and when he was relaxed gave out the signal and quite a few women walked in the room.

She said his face was the perfect picture.....

[triple5]

hahaha nice story. There is a part of me that wants to see her face when she's busted.

[Sophie]

[QUOTE=triple5;127501]Which guy? :icon_lol:

:D Silly, i meant you of course :icon_lol::icon_lol: You're the one were talking about here, not the other guy :D :icon_lol:Although as u said, he's not so bad himself. So i guess this girl really blew it big time! Coz she lost 2 great guys :xxgrinning--00xx3: :icon_lol::icon_lol:

[Sophie]

I know of a lady who found out that her man was cheating.
Of course, he vehemently denied her accusations.
Luckily she met the other woman and also found out there were many more too.
So she made arrangements to meet this bloke in a pub, and when he was relaxed gave out the signal and quite a few women walked in the room.

She said his face was the perfect picture.....

:icon_lol::icon_lol: Nice one aposhark :xxgrinning--00xx3: This is the best revenge ever! :xxgrinning--00xx3::icon_lol:

[tiN]

Sorry to hear that triple5..

She doesnt deserve u, Goodluck on your new relationship :)

[Sim11UK]

I find this story very sad...disturbing too.
There were no winners, everybody lost out...I guess it was greed which kept her going.

I know you & this other guy have dusted yourselves down & moved on, but I can't help thinking there will be another victim, around the corner.

What a way to live your life. :NoNo:

[Florge]

wow! that scheming biatch!!! oopppss... sorry moderator... just that it makes me soooo angry when I learn of Filipinas who do this... they give a bad bad image to my countrymen... good for you though... lucky escape indeed! good luck to you.

[trader dave]

sorry to hear about that mate but there are many like that BUT THERE are also many genuine ladies so she has gone to japan ???? maybe in japeoke :NoNo: i had a gf over there once who on my return to the uk she said she has expecting my baby :icon_lol::D so i went on explan SORRY I HAD THE CHOP 5 YRS AGO:furious3::furious3::Brick::Brick: all it does it makes you extra carefull next time


best of luck

[triple5]

Hi Tin, how are you? thanks mate.

Hi Sim11UK, agree with everything you say. I was happy to see your story had a happy ending :) Congrats

Hi Florge None of this has changed my opinion of filipinas in general. You get bad apples in every cart.

Hi trader dave yes she has gone to japan yes. Whats japeoke? I just googled it and nothing came up.

As I said, she still has no idea that we know what she's been up to. This morning I received a message from her saying she was in tokyo, and how much she missed me blah blah. I'm not sure how to tell her she's been busted, by email or wait till I catch her online (as I'd like to see her face on cam when the truth comes out).

What would you guys do?

[trader dave]

hostess in a bar in japan just my thought because many do :NoNo: as far as telling her u have rummbled her NO HAVE some fun play the game she played you along so now YOU and the other guy have yr fun :icon_lol::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Sim11UK]

Hi Sim11UK, agree with everything you say. I was happy to see your story had a happy ending :) Congrats

As I said, she still has no idea that we know what she's been up to. This morning I received a message from her saying she was in tokyo, and how much she missed me blah blah. I'm not sure how to tell her she's been busted, by email or wait till I catch her online (as I'd like to see her face on cam when the truth comes out).

What would you guys do?

Thanks triple5, reading back over your thread, little did I know my life was about to be turned upside down...Anyway, it's all good now. :)

The :censored: cheek of her, telling you she's been missing you. :NoNo:
You've definately got to see the expression on her face, don't just send an email...It's your turn to get your own back...Still sad though.

I wish you well, keep posting. :)

[Mrs.JMajor]

Whats japeoke? I just googled it and nothing came up.
Where did you get that words from ?
Japayuki - a filipina just been to japan,nothing big deal on the word,you can't find it in google :icon_lol: its just filipina street words,:xxgrinning--00xx3: more we call if she been there as a dancer or working in the bars

Bruniyuki- a filipina who been in brunei

Update us ,who knows ..her relation didnt work out ,and she might try to hook you back

[aposhark]

... just that it makes me soooo angry when I learn of Filipinas who do this... they give a bad bad image to my countrymen...

It happens everywhere!
I still believe Filipinas to be the most trustworthy...

[aposhark]

....I'd like to see her face on cam when the truth comes out......

What would you guys do?

Perfect :)

[Arthur Little]

It happens everywhere!
I still believe Filipinas to be the most trustworthy...

Agreed ... on both counts, Mike!! :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[PAT]

Sory to hear that. Well ,its the girl's lost not yours, you are blessed now for having someone new who are true.

[triple5]

So I caught her online last night. I waited for her to put the cam on, but it froze just as I told her I knew what had been going on :( I kind of wish I'd just sent an email. Here's her story: after I visited her there she really hoped we could marry and we would do whatever I decided, whether it be her move to the uk or me there. And I gave the impression I wasnt interested (really I just wanted to wait till we were together again if I was going to propose). So the other guy had been online chat mates with her for awhile and he said he wanted to visit her, and as I seemed disinterested in marrying her she met him there, because she didnt want to feel like she was waiting forever for me and wanted to keep her options open. She says that after meeting him she realised that she felt a lot more for me and now viewed him more as a brother. Also her mother thought I was the better guy suited for her having met us both.

I wish she said she'd loved the other guy more, would have made things easier. She looked ashamed and guilty and I didn't have it in me to get angry with her. I just felt pity for her that she'd put herself in this situation. She says its up to me what will happen to us now, whether I forgive her, we remain friends or go our seperate ways. It was 2 in the morning at that point and I was exhausted so I just disconnected.

Sad state of affairs really :(

[Mrs.JMajor]

not to let you make disappointed but...........again dont believe her on what she said with your recent post.....5 minutes ago

[Tawi2]

Where did you get that words from ?
Japayuki - a filipina just been to japan,nothing big deal on the word,you can't find it in google :icon_lol: its just filipina street words,:xxgrinning--00xx3: more we call if she been there as a dancer or working in the bars

Bruniyuki- a filipina who been in brunei

Update us ,who knows ..her relation didnt work out ,and she might try to hook you back

So is an UKay-UKay-yuki a pinay who shops for used clothing in england :Erm:
Triple,I have several times sat in Manila internet cafes and seen girls chatting to multiplicities of guys online telling them all they are the only one,its nothing personal for her,sounds like she was just playing the odds looking for someone/anyone to offer her a new lie abroad.

[Mrs.JMajor]

Where did u get the ukay-ukay -yuki :doh
Ukay-Ukay is like a second hand clothes came from any part of the world..
there is no suck words of ukay2x yuki,lol if you are trying to say UK-yuki ,sorry lad there no such as Uk is not like japan or brunei that filipina just can work as bartender,dancer etc..

[Pepe n Pilar]

Hi Triple5,
It seems that she is still in the process of choosing from among her chatmates who showed interests on her. As what you have mentioned that you are still waiting for the time to be with her again and make the proposals, so that means there's no commitment yet?. As far as she is concerned she is not yet committed to anyone of her friends online that makes her continue to communicate with some other guys. I can't tell if she is a double timer or what. It seems she has not given any commitment to any of you.

I understand that you consider her as a possible love interest ( correct if if i'm wrong) or are u already on a bf/gf rel?......but you were turned off by discovering she has been chatting with several guys. If you had told her during your first visit that you had fallen for her and still she continues chatting with others, then for sure that is considered a "double timer".

Good to know you have found someone new. I wish you the best of luck...

Cheers!:)

[Tawi2]

Where did u get the ukay-ukay -yuki :doh
Ukay-Ukay is like a second hand clothes came from any part of the world..
there is no suck words of ukay2x yuki,lol if you are trying to say UK-yuki ,sorry lad there no such as Uk is not like japan or brunei that filipina just can work as bartender,dancer etc..

I know :icon_lol:But I bought shorts in an Ukay-ukay store last week :icon_lol:

[Pepe n Pilar]

Where did u get the ukay-ukay -yuki :doh
Ukay-Ukay is like a second hand clothes came from any part of the world..
there is no suck words of ukay2x yuki,lol if you are trying to say UK-yuki ,sorry lad there no such as Uk is not like japan or brunei that filipina just can work as bartender,dancer etc..

I heard that word already:). Yuki refers to someone who is fond of or works in or is associated with as in Japayuki (one who works in Japan) and Buneiyuki (one who works in Brunei). Ukay ukay in the Phils is a charity shop here in the UK. Stores selling used clothings, shoes, bags etc. So someone who is fond of buying 2nd hand clothes in the charity shops is called ukay ukay yuki.

I heard a Doctor says Wii-itis :Erm: (which means a pain you feel on your arms after playing sports in nintendo wii). That he said is the same as suffering from tonsilitis (sore on the tonsils):D:xxgrinning--00xx3:or Bursitis ( pain or strain you have in the shoulders after playing tennis, golf,badminton,bowling or any sports using your arms).

Tonsilitis and bursitis are medical terms but the wii-itis is just a slang informal word. So that is the same as the ukay-yuki.:xxgrinning--00xx3:

:)

[Tawi2]

Good thing about english as a language is its flexible and growing in words and usage every year,if Pinays can butcher it into tag-lish (watch ABS-CBN or GMA channels)I am sure as an englishman I can introduce UKay-UKay-yuki into the vocabulary :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Jay&Zobel]

So is an UKay-UKay-yuki a pinay who shops for used clothing in england :Erm:
Triple,I have several times sat in Manila internet cafes and seen girls chatting to multiplicities of guys online telling them all they are the only one,its nothing personal for her,sounds like she was just playing the odds looking for someone/anyone to offer her a new lie abroad.


Good thing about english as a language is its flexible and growing in words and usage every year,if Pinays can butcher it into tag-lish (watch ABS-CBN or GMA channels)I am sure as an englishman I can introduce UKay-UKay-yuki into the vocabulary :xxgrinning--00xx3:


I know :icon_lol:But I bought shorts in an Ukay-ukay store last week :icon_lol:




:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol: I LIKE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOUR HEHE

[trader dave]

lol u tag a lag-eons want to change our slang now :doh any way ok she might not be a bar girl :NoNo: just my thoughts as i have many years of touring them sorts of places :Rasp: so i know a little about most types of pilipina :Hellooo::butthead: but these types of scammers give all pilipina a bad name :D there are even websites where u can check out girls who scam :NoNo: DO NOT LISTEN TO HER CRAP :Hellooo: