huhuhu im loosing hope of finding real friends or a girlfriend

[\\\\ToNy////]

ive not had a girlfriend for 10 years but last year a filipino friend in south wales itroduced me to a filipina lady, i went to see her about 6 times, i thought she might be my gf, she hold my hold my hand sometimes, and i had songs that reminds me of her and makes me cry, all was ok but then some guy on friendster asked me if im in a relationship with her because he see the pic of me and her together, than i had a massage off her saying that she already has a bf in the philippines, so that was the end of that, she stil contacted me sometimes to see if im ok but not anymore,
even finding good filipino friends seams to be hard,
im a good person, im honest, faithful, careing, polite, panget hehehuhu, im shy and dont have much confidence,
so if anyone knows anyone that might want to be my friend, at the moment its more important to find friends than find a girlfriend,
i better sleep now, nytnyt and god bless

[D&G]

finding good filipino friends seams to be hard,
im a good person, im honest, faithful, careing, polite, panget hehehuhu, im shy and dont have much confidence,
so if anyone knows anyone that might want to be my friend, at the moment its more important to find friends than find a girlfriend,
i better sleep now, nytnyt and god bless


hi Tony! finding good friends isn't that hard when u're a good person :xxgrinning--00xx3: just be optimistic, don't lOse hope :xxgrinning--00xx3: Just be yourself!

Goodluck!

[\\\\ToNy////]

thankyou your so kind, im a good person but im shy and dont go out much, but i would like to go and hang out where filipinas hang out but i dont know where, i get on with filipinas, there are some in the place i work but all are married and busy, and my friends in southwales are too far away, and i have a filipina friend in redditch but after ive done alot of things for her and she not need me now, and after i helped her move house i thought to myself and told a mate that i bet that she wont want to see me again now thatt she not need me huhuhu, and i was right, im lucky if she chats me once aweek now and she only chats a short time then stops answering me, ive always been so nice to her, always complimented her and never been moody or anything bad with her, i dont mind her useing me if that whats shes like, but she should stil treat me as a friend even if she not a real friend, i told her that i care for her and ill always be here for her,
i prefer to be used than have nothing, i treasure every moment with people

[trader dave]

hi tony

i can understand your plight it is not easy to find friends and even harder to find a girlfriend i dont realy think you will have a lot of luck doing that on this forum I MIGHT BE WRONG :xxgrinning--00xx3:

i am sure there are friendship websites out there as far as meeting a pilipina to be your girlfriend just be carefull my friend:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Tawi2]

Tony why does it specifically have to be a filipina :Erm:They arent the solution to low moral or shyness problems,the worlds filled with women mate,broaden your horizons :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Tawi2]

Took 3 clicks of a mouse to find you a choice,a smorgasboard of pinays,take your pic make your move :xxgrinning--00xx3:

http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?p=165171#post165171

[KeithD]

I'll be honest, going by your posts your a negative guy, and women pick up on that. They want someone happy, with a sense of humor, doesn't give a :censored: about what others think.

Get on Friendster (and put a live link to this site :D, THAT GOES TO EVERYONE :xxgrinning--00xx3:), make your profile fun, and make friends with around 20....yes TWENTY Filipina's. Don't fall for any :doh, just keep them as friends, and test various yourself on them with regard to your humour, etc.....remember though, you can get things LOST IN TRANSLATION. Over the months some will drop off the radar, those that are left in say 6 months are real friends (and obviously like something about you), and you should have learnt something about yourself as well, and hopefully changed your outlook.

Once you've been talking a while, ask them what they like/dislike about you, etc......

Finding friends and love takes a while, some of us on here took years to find someone decent, and then more years just to get them to the UK, but we'd all do it again :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Don't forget my REP :D

[Florge]

boss, you still need a rep? hehehe

[KeithD]

boss, you still need a rep? hehehe
All I can get babe :rolleyes:....I'm a Rep whore :cwm24:

[aromulus]

thankyou your so kind, im a good person but im shy and dont go out much, but i would like to go and hang out where filipinas hang out but i dont know where, i get on with filipinas, there are some in the place i work but all are married and busy, and my friends in southwales are too far away, and i have a filipina friend in redditch but after ive done alot of things for her and she not need me now, and after i helped her move house i thought to myself and told a mate that i bet that she wont want to see me again now thatt she not need me huhuhu, and i was right, im lucky if she chats me once aweek now and she only chats a short time then stops answering me, ive always been so nice to her, always complimented her and never been moody or anything bad with her, i dont mind her useing me if that whats shes like, but she should stil treat me as a friend even if she not a real friend, i told her that i care for her and ill always be here for her,
i prefer to be used than have nothing, i treasure every moment with people

Reminiscent of Marvin the paranoid android....:Erm:

"Life... Don't talk to me about life....":doh

[JimOttley]

im lucky if she chats me once aweek now and she only chats a short time then stops answering me, ive always been so nice to her, always complimented her and never been moody or anything bad with her, i dont mind her useing me if that whats shes like, but she should stil treat me as a friend even if she not a real friend, i told her that i care for her and ill always be here for her,
i prefer to be used than have nothing, i treasure every moment with people

Tony, I can really understand where you are coming from, when I was young I had real trouble forming relationships, I felt a lot like you and I let myself get into the mindset of "I prefer to be used than have nothing" and I can tell you with absolute conviction that it won't ever work :( if you act like a doormat people will treat you like a doormat.

The problem is that when you have that mindset it shows up everywhere in your personality and people pick up on it not just women but everyone around you, that's why they shy away from you.

I am still quiet, still pretty shy in lots of ways but age brought a little confidence. I went twenty years with no one in my life, it's not so bad really there are lots of things that make life worth living but it was only when I stopped trying so hard that I was lucky enough to meet someone and be enough of myself for the nice guy in me to actually be visible on the outside.

You need to not try too hard, women really do pick up on it.

Jim

[trader dave]

have to agree about friendster as the boss said as soon as you say UK MALE you have as many friends as you want MALE &FEMALE :D and thats when the problems start:Erm: as others have said sharpen yourself up others will read that :xxgrinning--00xx3:

BE CAREFULL

[Northerner]

Get on Friendster (and put a live link to this site :D, THAT GOES TO EVERYONE :xxgrinning--00xx3:)

:xxgrinning--00xx3: Tis will be done..

[britishdetained]

:xxgrinning--00xx3: Tis will be done..

or even try facebook:xxgrinning--00xx3::D

[trader dave]

or even try facebook:xxgrinning--00xx3::D


to many british more pilipina on fs :xxgrinning--00xx3: right or wrong

[Northerner]

Tony,

Seriously man, I think you need a bit of an ego boost! Right now you're far too shy and withdrawn to notice if there is a girl out there who might actually like you. Tawi was correct and it does not matter where you go you will need to get a bit of self esteem.

:Erm:

However.. There are girls in the east who are looking for a western man to love. This is self evident with the dating sites out there! But to be honest, I think if you went onto those withought any real life experience, the scammers will eat you for breakfast:NoNo: So perhaps the best thing for you is to go over there for a holiday! Get yourself to Cebu or someplace like that:xxgrinning--00xx3: Try and avoid the obvious prostitutes and such..

Get on friendster! I know of two girls who are single and are looking for a man from the UK if they can one who is a decent guy.. Send them a message and take it from there:xxgrinning--00xx3:

Life has no gurantees but sitting at home and watching TV will get you nowhere! At least do as the boss say's and join friendster....

I'll hook you up bro:xxgrinning--00xx3:

Why not penpal with a few ladies and then go and see them and see how it goes. Nice and simple, a few dates and good company:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

Check out the dating site attached to this forum:xxgrinning--00xx3::)

[Tawi2]

Northerner,he doesnt need a far-eastern relationship,its not that simple and they are often quite complex affairs :Erm:He is best off looking closer to home,he is grasping for a pinay the way a shipwreck survivor grasps at anything hoping to stay afloat,I think he has deep rooted issues that need addressing before he even attempts a one on one with a woman,especially one who will chew him up and spit him out at the first sign of his insecurities :NoNo:As for "I dont mind if she uses me" the last time I paid to be used and abused by a "Lady" it was £120 an hour with a discount for regular patrons :xxgrinning--00xx3:(and I never even attended public school):icon_lol:Trust me tony,the last thing you need is a miss whiplash in your life,learn to like yourself,dont rush into a relationship at this stage,and good luck with your future :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Northerner]

Northerner,he doesnt need a far-eastern relationship,its not that simple and they are often quite complex affairs :Erm:He is best off looking closer to home,he is grasping for a pinay the way a shipwreck survivor grasps at anything hoping to stay afloat

Maybe.. But nothing builds confidence quicker than a lady who goes after you:xxgrinning--00xx3: But I see what your saying and I think you might be right..

Singles nights!


I think he has deep rooted issues that need addressing before he even attempts a one on one with a woman,especially one who will chew him up and spit him out at the first sign of his insecurities :NoNo:

Yup.. This is why a good girl is needed:Erm:


As for "I dont mind if she uses me" the last time I paid to be used and abused by a "Lady" it was £120 an hour with a discount for regular patrons :xxgrinning--00xx3:(and I never even attended public school):icon_lol:

Her name wasn't Rosi by any chance was it? And was it for an old sports injury:icon_lol:


Trust me tony,the last thing you need is a miss whiplash in your life,learn to like yourself,dont rush into a relationship at this stage,and good luck with your future :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Agreed... Tony, dude.. you need to mingle somehow. Get into something. Learn to dance. Learn to kickbox (you'd be suprised how many women go to those classes):xxgrinning--00xx3: Just do something...

But whatever you do, do NOT go with prostitutes. They can be very addictive to men not used to having girlfriends and will sap your wallet dry:Erm: And maybe even a dose of some VD:NoNo:

:Erm:

[Tawi2]

HEYYYYY,dont give him bad advice about GRO's :cwm24:Oh,yeah,yes,he is right Tony,better not go with "Those" sort of women at all,ever,not even once,not even to try them,not even if theres three in the room at once and.............:ARsurrender: Just learn to like yourself first Tony,get a hobby or something that boosts your self confidence,your a cyclist right?You said yourself your a good one,try and do something along a similar vein,but dont let a woman use you(leastways not for £120 an hour) :ARsurrender:

[Northerner]

£120 an hour... You was robbed mate:icon_lol::icon_lol: Old Doris from across my road would have sorted you out for a fiver:laugher:

[Tawi2]

I dont think old doris looks remotely like Nikita :cwm24: You know there are 2 pinays down here who charge £1200 a night :omg:

[Northerner]

I dont think old doris looks remotely like Nikita :cwm24:

No mate, she does not:cwm24:


You know there are 2 pinays down here who charge £1200 a night :omg:

:yikes:£12000 a night... Well, if your into that thing then good luck and go forward.. But a waste of time I think:xxgrinning--00xx3: Sure, you get to have sex with a stunning woman, who will be out that door before you crack your morning f*rt:D

Again, Tony... Avoid these women mate. They will bleed you dry my friend.

:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[belfast_dude]

Reminiscent of Marvin the paranoid android....:Erm:

"Life... Don't talk to me about life....":doh

great tv series / radio series and movie.....thank you..douglas adams

so long and thanks for all the fish

[belfast_dude]

tony...be yourself man...all will come

[Northerner]

great tv series / radio series and movie.....thank you..douglas adams

so long and thanks for all the fish

Ahh yes. 42!

The answer to life... :D

[Sim11UK]

Hi Tony

Please don't accept the notion, of settling for being used, as it's better than nothing, as you'll just get more of the same...This will just make you even more unhappier.

I've had lots of confidence issues myself, but now half the things that used to worry me, just don't now...It's all about self worth.

You could try chatting to people on chat websites, then you are in your own surroundings & in your comfort zone...Just as friends, don't take things seriously & it will lift your spirits. There's plenty of things to talk about, even the weather. :)

[KeithD]

If your looking for 'that' kind of luvin', find a drunk Manc bird, give her a blow job and she'll marry you :cwm24: :Erm:

[Northerner]

If your looking for 'that' kind of luvin', find a drunk Manc bird, give her a blow job and she'll marry you :cwm24: :Erm:

You know all about Manchester I see:icon_lol:

[Sophie]

i prefer to be used than have nothing, i treasure every moment with people

Don't settle for just that, you don't think you deserve to be just used, do you?
Being used by someone is not something you should consider as a moment worth-treasuring.....
Remember, how you see yourself is exactly how other people will see you...
I suggest you build your self confidence, enhance your good qualities and get yourself exposed to women
so you get more comfortable around them and overcome your shyness....
it's just a matter of time and you'll be on your feet and women will be enjoying your company while you're just being yourself...

Do not force your way into a relationship thinking it doesn't matter if she use me, as long as i got someone and not alone.....
Let's face it, you'll still feel as alone as ever, even when you're with someone, if she doesn't genuinely love you and is just using you....
There's a saying that says "I'd rather be alone for the right reasons, than be with someone for the wrong ones"
Think about it tony.....wouldn't it be nice to be with someone whom you love and genuinely loves you back.....

[Northerner]

Don't settle for just that, you don't think you deserve to be just used, do you? ....

:xxgrinning--00xx3: Agreed with everything you said! :Erm:

[Tawi2]

:xxgrinning--00xx3: Agreed with everything you said! :Erm:

Except the "Get yourself exposed to women" part :omg: It might be taken literally :Erm:

[Sophie]

Except the "Get yourself exposed to women" part :omg: It might be taken literally :Erm:

LOL, if tony thinks the way you do now, then he might :omg::omg::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

[Tawi2]

LOL, if tony thinks the way you do now, then he might :omg::omg::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

I am just trying to cover it from all angles Soph :Erm:Not "Cover it" as in somethings exposed,I just mean cover it as in the situation :Erm:

[\\\\ToNy////]

:BouncyHappy: waw thankyou so much to you all, your all rite, il try to be more confidend, its all in the mind, ive not been out on my bike much, keeps raining, but 2 weeks ago i goined the gym, i realy want big muscles,will help my confidence, im very thin at the moment and have fat tummy:cwm3:, ill go tomorow and try to goo more,
i have friendster, tagged, facebook, 100 friends on friendster, 190 tagged and 4 on fb, how can i brouse people on fb?
is easy to find a lady that says she loves me when she is 7000 miles away but to find a lady here is imposible, to filipinas not want a guy here once they are already here lol, im tired of searching, ill wait for them to find me, there is one lady in the filipines that i trust but i cant afford to go there, i was working in the same place as her brother, and she says that she will come here next year, but im sure somthing will go wrong, she might find another guy ect,
hopefuly at exmas time ill be invited to parties, or should i invite myself hehehe,
£120 per hour:ARsurrender: its a good job that im not sex mad, i see ladies as people not sexy people, well some sexy ladies make my heart beating mmmm, i like filipinas the most because of personality, then chinese but even harder to find, indian are ok but not many single, some nice british ladies but most have kids and arnt single and they swear,fight,moan,cheat,the list goes on,

ill save this thread so i can come back to it, i feel better now after reading all the posts.

[Sophie]

I am just trying to cover it from all angles Soph :Erm:Not "Cover it" as in somethings exposed,I just mean cover it as in the situation :Erm:

I get what you mean tawi, lol :D:D
I guess what i was saying to tony is, he should be more exposed to women in the sense that he should talk to women more,
make a lot of women friends either in person or in friendster and facebook as what boss keith earlier suggested already,
that way he could overcome his shyness and get more comfortable around women...
And by that, i mean wholesome women tony, ok? lol :D:D:D:D
And i hope you don't end up as a womanizer by the end of this process, lol :D:D:D:D

[Northerner]

Excellent Tony:xxgrinning--00xx3:

Join some of those classes at the gym as well. You'll find tons of women in them, even if nothing hapens just to be in their company should boost your confidence and help you loads:)

Just think of that "Call on Me" music video:D:D:D :Erm:Then again, better not:icon_lol:

[Tawi2]

Just concentrate on your training Tony k?Boost your image,you should notice a difference in 3 months,slow gradual steps,your not going to look like schwarzenegger the first week,you cant rush mother nature k?Decent diet :xxgrinning--00xx3:You probably already have good cardiovascular from the biking,your right mate women arent sex objects,and exercise is better than sexercise:Erm:(unless its with Jennifer Lopez):luv4: that beating heart of yours could be because your overdoing the biking :Erm:

[Sophie]

or penelope cruz :Erm::Erm::D:D:D:D:

[Tawi2]

or penelope cruz :Erm::Erm::D:D:D:D:
Heyyyyyyy :xxgrinning--00xx3: Great minds think alike :icon_lol:

[Sophie]

Heyyyyyyy :xxgrinning--00xx3: Great minds think alike :icon_lol:

LOL, my husband fancies her along with angelina jolie, but i don't mind :D:D:D:D:icon_lol::icon_lol: as long as they don't move next door :icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

[Northerner]

or penelope cruz :Erm::Erm::D:D:D:D:

Don't get Tawi started :icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol: The list will go on and on.... :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Sophie]

Don't get Tawi started :icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol: The list will go on and on.... :xxgrinning--00xx3:

I could already imagine :xxgrinning--00xx3::D:D:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

[Northerner]

...unless its with Jennifer Lopez

Sorry, had to drop this one in here... No, this is not J-Lo:) She's my Rizza:icon_win::luv4::love18:

[\\\\ToNy////]

:butthead:Jennifer Lopez
:Hellooo: if only i had longer arms :D, yes ill take it easy at the gym, i couldnd move for 4 days after the last time i went :sport-smiley-003:
next year when i have some spare cash il go to silverstone or another race track,i want to try the drift skool and learn how to drift cars, il meat people with simular intrests, shold be cool and fun

[Sophie]

Sorry, had to drop this one in here... No, this is not J-Lo:) She's my Rizza:icon_win::luv4::love18:

And a gorgeous one at that :xxgrinning--00xx3: I bet you can't wait to get to the philippines to be with your lovely girl :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Northerner]

And a gorgeous one at that :xxgrinning--00xx3: I bet you can't wait to get to the philippines to be with your lovely girl :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Oh, I'm counting the days:D 65 of them to go... Thanks Sophie... :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Sophie]

yes ill take it easy at the gym, i couldnd move for 4 days after the last time i went :sport-smiley-003:
next year when i have some spare cash il go to silverstone or another race track,i want to try the drift skool and learn how to drift cars, il meet people with simular intrests, shold be cool and fun

that's a very good idea tony, what better way than to meet women who share thesame passion and interest as you do
and enjoys biking and sports as much as you do....:xxgrinning--00xx3:
I'm sure you will meet women from the gym and even women who loves biking and go on trails.....:xxgrinning--00xx3:
Join several biking clubs and groups who go trailing on weekends, i'm sure there will be women there you could struck a friendship with...
and maybe the things you have in common and your similar interests could create some romantic spark in the future...
just take your time, and don't rush.....just go with the flow, have fun and be yourself....

[Sophie]

Oh, I'm counting the days:D 65 of them to go... Thanks Sophie... :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

getting close, good for you :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[trader dave]

well i will agree to disagree with some of the others :Hellooo:

if you want a pilipina wife you have one if you want a thai wife you have one if you want a vietnamese wife :doh shall i go on but only one at a time :icon_lol::doh one of the best things you could do is have a lads holiday in thailand there are things that go on there that will leave a lasting impression on you :cwm24::Rasp: :Cuckoo:


the trouble is as others have said the girls over there are like a drug it can hook you :Erm:especialy when it only costs you from 500php say £7.00 now thats a couple of pints of beer here :Cuckoo: the trouble is what one does you the least damage :Rasp::icon_lol:

[D&G]

First of all, you need to discover venues filled with many Filipina ladies.. Start frequenting places where you know there will be a large number of pinays... example, dining out at Filipino restaurants at least once a week or even do some of your shopping at Filipino/Asian stores where you can chat up the employees or meet asian customers.

You also need to make yourself culturally aware of the differences that may exist if you get involved with an interracial relationship. Learning how to attract a filipina woman may require a little more effort :rolleyes::rolleyes:.. you need to respect the traditional customs of a pinay, just like you would with any other culture. You can easily ruin a good date/prospect by making a cultural faux pas you weren't even aware of.

Although, it may sound stereotypical, many traditional Filipina women are accustomed to adopting a more "subservient" role than their Caucasian counterparts..(this is not meant as a derogatory statement, but more of a cultural observation) Therefore, you should make sure to present yourself as a "real man" who likes to take control...to attract a pinay involves making the majority of the decisions and letting her feel she will be well taken care of at all times (example; during sex... a pinay is less likely to compete for a dominant role, she will be more likely to appreciate your confident take-charge attitude.:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

Lastly, please work on your SELF-ESTEEM (it is so important) always remember to maintain an air of confidence and control when exploring a relationship with women (be it a pinay, thai, japs, etc... :xxgrinning--00xx3: )
.

[D&G]

but hey i'm waiting for our Alienist's opinion :):xxgrinning--00xx3:

where are u Charlene??? :Hellooo:

our friend, Tony needs some serious ego-booster therapy/techniques :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Ayjay]

I'll be honest, going by your posts your a negative guy, and women pick up on that. They want someone happy, with a sense of humor, doesn't give a :censored: about what others think.

Get on Friendster (and put a live link to this site :D, THAT GOES TO EVERYONE :xxgrinning--00xx3:), make your profile fun, and make friends with around 20....yes TWENTY Filipina's. Don't fall for any :doh, just keep them as friends, and test various yourself on them with regard to your humour, etc.....remember though, you can get things LOST IN TRANSLATION. Over the months some will drop off the radar, those that are left in say 6 months are real friends (and obviously like something about you), and you should have learnt something about yourself as well, and hopefully changed your outlook.

Once you've been talking a while, ask them what they like/dislike about you, etc......

Finding friends and love takes a while, some of us on here took years to find someone decent, and then more years just to get them to the UK, but we'd all do it again :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Don't forget my REP :D


Sounds about right... You do seem to be very negative, and probably miserable with it... Not the sort data any Filipina would find interesting...

YOU NEED A MAKE OVER...

Lighten up, take your girl out and show her a good time; find out what she is interested in.. don't come across as a miserable sod with too much emotional baggage.. make her laugh.. make her feel happy..

AJ

[jaishann]

ive not had a girlfriend for 10 years but last year a filipino friend in south wales itroduced me to a filipina lady, i went to see her about 6 times, i thought she might be my gf, she hold my hold my hand sometimes, and i had songs that reminds me of her and makes me cry, all was ok but then some guy on friendster asked me if im in a relationship with her because he see the pic of me and her together, than i had a massage off her saying that she already has a bf in the philippines, so that was the end of that, she stil contacted me sometimes to see if im ok but not anymore,
even finding good filipino friends seams to be hard,
im a good person, im honest, faithful, careing, polite, panget hehehuhu, im shy and dont have much confidence,
so if anyone knows anyone that might want to be my friend, at the moment its more important to find friends than find a girlfriend,
i better sleep now, nytnyt and god bless

hope you find one.

[jaishann]

First of all, you need to discover venues filled with many Filipina ladies.. Start frequenting places where you know there will be a large number of pinays... example, dining out at Filipino restaurants at least once a week or even do some of your shopping at Filipino/Asian stores where you can chat up the employees or meet asian customers.

You also need to make yourself culturally aware of the differences that may exist if you get involved with an interracial relationship. Learning how to attract a filipina woman may require a little more effort :rolleyes::rolleyes:.. you need to respect the traditional customs of a pinay, just like you would with any other culture. You can easily ruin a good date/prospect by making a cultural faux pas you weren't even aware of.

Although, it may sound stereotypical, many traditional Filipina women are accustomed to adopting a more "subservient" role than their Caucasian counterparts..(this is not meant as a derogatory statement, but more of a cultural observation) Therefore, you should make sure to present yourself as a "real man" who likes to take control...to attract a pinay involves making the majority of the decisions and letting her feel she will be well taken care of at all times (example; during sex... a pinay is less likely to compete for a dominant role, she will be more likely to appreciate your confident take-charge attitude.:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

Lastly, please work on your SELF-ESTEEM (it is so important) always remember to maintain an air of confidence and control when exploring a relationship with women (be it a pinay, thai, japs, etc... :xxgrinning--00xx3: )
.

I'll make sure my husband read this he he. very nice advice.

[eleazebonares]

Northerner,he doesnt need a far-eastern relationship,its not that simple and they are often quite complex affairs :Erm:He is best off looking closer to home,he is grasping for a pinay the way a shipwreck survivor grasps at anything hoping to stay afloat,I think he has deep rooted issues that need addressing before he even attempts a one on one with a woman,especially one who will chew him up and spit him out at the first sign of his insecurities :NoNo:As for "I dont mind if she uses me" the last time I paid to be used and abused by a "Lady" it was £120 an hour with a discount for regular patrons :xxgrinning--00xx3:(and I never even attended public school):icon_lol:Trust me tony,the last thing you need is a miss whiplash in your life,learn to like yourself,dont rush into a relationship at this stage,and good luck with your future :xxgrinning--00xx3:

i totally agree! I dont mean to offend u or anything,but y are u so needy?all u have to do is eat right,sleep right, keep yourself busy with work or something,until the right girl comes.u should be happy about yourself first,cause u cant share with someone what u dont have yourself.self respect.

[Queenbee]

go D and G!well said mate!I LOVE THIS FORUM!

Toni jst be yourself coz women can feel if one is a faker,,,Dnt keep on looking too hard cz when u stop lookin,ul be jst surprised..:)

When it comes to meeting women, it's no secret that men have certain requirements. Some like tall women, others like short women, while others prefer intelligent women. But let's not kid ourselves; most men would be willing to compromise their strict requirements if the opportunity to sleep with a woman arose.:D

women jst want men who loves to take good care of themselves,responsible and knws what he reallly wants and goes for it,,,I love tawi tawi said,BOOST yah IMAGE...And also dnt forget, be pure at heart and stay as sweet as you are...Be confident with yourself,not too confident though,hehehe

I believe everyone deserves to be happy,maybe its not the right time for you yet. I kn cz im truly happy right now i met again my soulmate...You can never meet your destiny twice,SERENDEPITY,,,thats my fav word..:)

[Tawi2]

Good choice of favourite word :cwm24:That used to be mine till I discovered the likes of Aeaeae,yemless and ultracrepodarian :icon_lol: Tony will be fine,he just needs to find himself,boost his self confidence,and maybe get to the root of what caused his original lack of self-esteem.

[Queenbee]

oh tawi tawi sexercise is the BEST exercise,,,:icon_lol:



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[Queenbee]

oh jst wonderin,haven't had a girlfriend for 10 years?hmmm
curious,,,

i just wonder...

[\\\\ToNy////]

:cwm12: thankyou all, well ive been made redundant from work huhuhu, but one of the filipina guys i was working with intodused me to his sister in the philippines, she realy seems to like me and im realy starting to like her, she should be here next april, all is looking good but she wants me online everyday but i have things to do at the time shes online, but i do try when i can, and she is very young, only 22, make me feel old, i would be happier if she was 44, i would feel younger and less wrinkly and bald ect,
wish me luck finding a job and wish me luck with her and hope she will like me in real