Thoughts to ponder about realationships [Archive]

Queenbee

5th October 2009, 20:58

ReLatiOnsHips aRe LikE gLaSs. sOmetiMes it'S bEtteR tO LeaVe tHem "brOkeN" tHaN tRy tO hUrt yOuRseLf pUttinG it bAcK tOgEtheR......:bigcry::bigcry::bigcry:

Being brokenhearted is painful and no one can ever understand how much pain one can undergo until they've experienced it themselves. If you are going through this chaos right now, you are obviously aware of how fragile your heart is. You may want to escape the hurt and just live for awhile in seclusion. But, this should not be the way you deal with the pain from a broken relationship. The process of healing broken relationship is never easy and will take time, but this is not impossible. Though you may become really emotional right now, believe that time will heal. With the right prescription, you will be on your way to healing broken relationship and end up in euphoria again.

Realizing that your heart is still whole is a relief. You can take action of healing broken relationship. But when you are in a dilemma of desperately letting go to a former partner and you are in the state of emotional agony, this is cold comfort. You can be at your lowest - feeling a physical aching in the chest that can last for weeks of months, inability to recover, and at worst, struggling from a breakup that you tend to be alone. Some may find it hard to reconcile when a relationship is broken. But for people who are still willing to save their broken relationship, the process of healing broken relationship is easy.

IT MUST BE A 2 SIDED AFFAIR,IF NOT THEN ITS JST DOOMED TO FAIL....

KNOW ALSO IT WILL GET BETTER IN TIME,,EVERYBODY DESERVES TO BE HAPPY..YOU JST DNT KNW THAT IT HAPPENS FOR A REASON,EVENTUALLY UD FIND THAT SOMEONE FAR MORE BETTER THAN UR LAST ONE,,,I KNOW I DID...LOVE U BABE ASA..

kate_leila18

9th October 2009, 07:36

just a side question on your post...just wanted to ask when will we keep on holdin on in a relationship and when will we need to let it go?

aromulus

9th October 2009, 07:43

Am I the only person here, that finds the mixing of lower and higher case iRriTatInG...???:Erm::cwm23:

New Shoes

9th October 2009, 08:28

Am I the only person here, that finds the mixing of lower and higher case iRriTatInG...???:Erm::cwm23:

You're certainly not. Count me in as well. It's on par with text speak when writing posts on a forum........

D&G

9th October 2009, 09:18

Am I the only person here, that finds the mixing of lower and higher case iRriTatInG...???:Erm::cwm23:

count me in, sir! :xxgrinning--00xx3:

sorry QB but it is just so irritating really...just like when i get SMS from people (who are so happy sending messages with mixed lower & higher case) :Brick::NoNo:

triple5

9th October 2009, 09:32

Almost annoying as all uppercase :icon_lol:

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 09:37

count me in, sir! :xxgrinning--00xx3:

sorry QB but it is just so irritating really...just like when i get SMS from people (who are so happy sending messages with mixed lower & higher case) :Brick::NoNo:

sorry bout that:D

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 09:38

Am I the only person here, that finds the mixing of lower and higher case iRriTatInG...???:Erm::cwm23:

its ay of expressing for me...why everybody is hatin,,,:Erm:

If you guys hav a prob,then dont read ma post...

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 09:41

You're certainly not. Count me in as well. It's on par with text speak when writing posts on a forum........

:Erm:

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 09:43

just a side question on your post...just wanted to ask when will we keep on holdin on in a relationship and when will we need to let it go?

easy, when both of you is:) not happy anymore and nobody is making an effort to work things out,,,

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 09:45

Almost annoying as all uppercase :icon_lol:

annoying???no one is pushing u to read it,,,:Erm:

everybody ahould just chill as im just trying to emphasize hat im trying to say,,im not shouting at anyone here,,,duh,,:doh

KeithD

9th October 2009, 09:52

annoying???no one is pushing u to read it,,,:Erm:
Most people, me included, just don't read posts that don't conform to 'normal' writing. So you will find more & more people just ignore you.

New Shoes

9th October 2009, 10:07

I've read a few of QB's posts and as well as the text speak and the mix of lower and upper case letters, I sense a degree of 'attitude' coming accross............

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 10:26

Most people, me included, just don't read posts that don't conform to 'normal' writing. So you will find more & more people just ignore you.

im trying sir keith:):):)...im a newbie in this kind of forum..I do fashon blogging and all,they dnt have a prob with it,,,

I hope they dnt use words like Annoying and irritating and stuff like that...Can they jst say it nicely to me????:Erm::Erm:...Im not messing up with people's business with ma writing...

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 10:30

I've read a few of QB's posts and as well as the text speak and the mix of lower and upper case letters, I sense a degree of 'attitude' coming accross............

i dnt mind if u say ive got an ATTITUDE...as long as im not being nasty to anyone here...Only if they mess with me first...:D

why some people just dnt get it,whats impt is the message,not the mix of lower and upper case letter,,,

why can jst some people give me a break,,,:doh

johncar54

9th October 2009, 10:41

Queenbee, may I suggest you write in 'Word' and then spell-check.

That way unusual spellings and non-standard capitalisation is often indicated and can, if one chooses, be corrected before 'copy and paste' into the forum.

My pet hate with spell checkers, is that so often they correct in USA English and not Standard English English, even when one has set the language.

Take care.

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 10:49

KeithD

9th October 2009, 10:49

why some people just dnt get it,whats impt is the message,not the mix of lower and upper case letter,,,

You appear to be the only one on here who 'gets it'! That suggests something is wrong. Either you are correct, or everyone else on here is correct. I wonder which? :Erm:

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 10:51

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 10:54

You appear to be the only one on here who 'gets it'! That suggests something is wrong. Either you are correct, or everyone else on here is correct. I wonder which? :Erm:

yah yah boss ok i get it:icon_lol:,,Dont mix with small and big letters..But do they have to say im annoying and irritating?:Erm:

johncar54

9th October 2009, 10:58

Johncar i still dnt know how to use that magic with ma Macbook,,,If u have a an apple too,could u please share some magic...

I am really sorry Queenbee but that last message is really difficult to understand.

If you need to find how to do something, anything on a computer, I suggest you go onto a browser and type the question. You should find the answer.

May I add, the problem with using 'unorthodox' language is that usually the reason for making a post is to communicate with another person. If that person cannot understand exactly what you meant, then the communication is jeopardised.

Having said that, thank goodness we don't have to write in Tagalog here, I would be silent!

bornatbirth

9th October 2009, 11:06

yah yah boss ok i get it:icon_lol:,,Dont mix with small and big letters..But do they have to say im annoying and irritating?:Erm:

its just easier on the eye to read in normal letters and caps lock make you look like your shouting :xxgrinning--00xx3:

i dont think anyone is suggesting your annoying or irritating,im glad your more accepting of others opinions :D

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 11:07

I am really sorry Queenbee but that last message is really difficult to understand.

If you need to find how to do something, anything on a computer, I suggest you go onto a browser and type the question. You should find the answer.

May I add, the problem with using 'unorthodox' language is that usually the reason for making a post is to communicate with another person. If that person cannot understand exactly what you meant, then the communication is jeopardised.

Having said that, thank goodness we don't have to write in Tagalog here, I would be silent!

i know just google it...Im not a dumbass.I think in my post everybody could understand my english..They just have a problem with me using my CAPslock thingy..

Im sure ur familiar with Apple right????Macbook,Mac Pro...im using a laptop
and i dnt know yet the magic in how to make letters small if im writing Big letters and some short cuts...That's what i mean....

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 11:09

its just easier on the eye to read in normal letters and caps lock make you look like your shouting :xxgrinning--00xx3:

i dont think anyone is suggesting your annoying or irritating,im glad your more accepting of others opinions :D

it seems so they are..
ok boss..i would actually listen to people not being nasty to me...I mean theyre the experts here,they dont have to be hard on a nonexpert like Me...

KeithD

9th October 2009, 11:14

it seems so they are..
ok boss..i would actually listen to people not being nasty to me...I mean theyre the experts here,they dont have to be hard on a nonexpert like Me...
Folk are telling you your writing is annoying and irrating. If you look at the other 170,000+ posts on here you'll notice you are the only one doing it.

triple5

9th October 2009, 11:15

annoying???no one is pushing u to read it,,,:Erm:

everybody ahould just chill as im just trying to emphasize hat im trying to say,,im not shouting at anyone here,,,duh,,:doh

I didn't mean it as you are annoying. It just takes me longer to read sentenced when they're like that. And I'm sure it probably takes you longer to write.

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 11:22

I didn't mean it as you are annoying. It just takes me longer to read sentenced when they're like that. And I'm sure it probably takes you longer to write.

ok cleared...No it didnt really,just several minutes...when ma emotions are overpowering me...

so i write and write,no stopping...

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 11:23

Folk are telling you your writing is annoying and irrating. If you look at the other 170,000+ posts on here you'll notice you are the only one doing it.

ok ok me get it already boss keith...Its free to make mistakes here right???Dnt be too hard on me...:D

Are u still mad at me??

triple5

9th October 2009, 11:27

ok cleared...No it didnt really,just several minutes...when ma emotions are overpowering me...

so i write and write,no stopping...

It took you several minutes to write that one sentence - ReLatiOnsHips aRe LikE gLaSs. sOmetiMes it'S bEtteR tO LeaVe tHem "brOkeN" tHaN tRy tO hUrt yOuRseLf pUttinG it bAcK tOgEtheR.....

seriously, you could probably get that down to 30 seconds by writing in lower case :D

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 11:29

It took you several minutes to write that one sentence - ReLatiOnsHips aRe LikE gLaSs. sOmetiMes it'S bEtteR tO LeaVe tHem "brOkeN" tHaN tRy tO hUrt yOuRseLf pUttinG it bAcK tOgEtheR.....

seriously, you could probably get that down to 30 seconds by writing in lower case :D

ahhhh:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

Nah i just like the way it looked actually...Smetimes being an artist,theyre always misunderstood..

bornatbirth

9th October 2009, 11:33

It took you several minutes to write that one sentence - ReLatiOnsHips aRe LikE gLaSs. sOmetiMes it'S bEtteR tO LeaVe tHem "brOkeN" tHaN tRy tO hUrt yOuRseLf pUttinG it bAcK tOgEtheR.....

seriously, you could probably get that down to 30 seconds by writing in lower case :D

somehow i think queenbee can write like that far quicker than you :Erm:,she as a unique way of writing but maybe writing in english we can all understand,will suite all :D

monkeyface

9th October 2009, 11:33

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 11:37

somehow i think queenbee can write like that far quicker than you :Erm:,she as a unique way of writing but maybe writing in english we can all understand,will suite all :D

:smileybigtmouth::smileybigtmouth::smileybigtmouth:
hehe mr bornatbirthyou make ma heart smile....:D:D:D

i am different,i like being different...

Im a beautiful disaster,a constant work in progress,,hehe

I apologize to those people who are offended by ma attitude...:ARsurrender::ARsurrender::ARsurrender:

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 11:40

SomE PEoPLE fInd THiS cUte. :icon_lol:

it is cute,,hehehe but sme people on here dnt really appreciate it,,,

I know kinda childish but i think its cute to add some color and personality in what im writing,,,I dnt mean to annoy or irritate someone or shout at someone,,duh..

monkeyface

9th October 2009, 11:45

it is cute,,hehehe but sme people on here dnt really appreciate it,,,

I know kinda childish but i think its cute to add some color and personality in what im writing,,,I dnt mean to annoy or irritate someone or shout at someone,,duh..

Personally, not a fan either but as they say to each his own. :)

GaryFifer

9th October 2009, 15:59

ahhhh:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

Nah i just like the way it looked actually...Smetimes being an artist,theyre always misunderstood..

I canny understand a word yer saying lassie. Whit ye on aboot? Its aboot time ye didne listen to these English bams, cos before there wis a dictionary there was no way of spelling wright or wrang. You can mak it up as ya go along. so do as ya wish. :)

I know if I rite my essay in txt spk,it wld b slow gd for the envrmnet cos no many paper used.

how to spell tongue? doesn't even sound like that.

Queenbee

9th October 2009, 16:25

I canny understand a word yer saying lassie. Whit ye on aboot? Its aboot time ye didne listen to these English bams, cos before there wis a dictionary there was no way of spelling wright or wrang. You can mak it up as ya go along. so do as ya wish. :)

I know if I rite my essay in txt spk,it wld b slow gd for the envrmnet cos no many paper used.

how to spell tongue? doesn't even sound like that.

nyahaha me likey yah slang dude!:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

me too justa bit lazy ass smetimeszzz..hehe:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

yah so dope mate!:Dme likey!

monkeyface

9th October 2009, 16:35

I canny understand a word yer saying lassie. Whit ye on aboot? Its aboot time ye didne listen to these English bams, cos before there wis a dictionary there was no way of spelling wright or wrang. You can mak it up as ya go along. so do as ya wish. :)

You sound like my Geordie pet, when he is not trying on a posh accent. :icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

GaryFifer

9th October 2009, 16:38

You sound like my Geordie pet, when he is not trying on a posh accent. :icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

You been watching too much Ant and Dec.

try this old guy, fae Fife

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0d73w1vcP8

I think its Arthur.

alicat

9th October 2009, 16:42

You been watching too much Ant and Dec.

try this old guy, fae Fife

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0d73w1vcP8

I think its Arthur.

subtitles please?:Erm::D

GaryFifer

9th October 2009, 16:55

subtitles please?:Erm::D

Kain- known. Theres a big list of words next to his video that explains the english haha.

Well somebody was asking me how they can speak like me. Well its no as easy as that, like, you've got to, I'd suggest to you.. spend 5 years in Central Fife and then whit to do is is tour all around the countryside. Just walking about listening to all the different accents, and you have to change them in order to make other people ken what yer sayin :)

And if you gan up the north east of Scotland you will get all the farm folk and get a wee job on the farm and you will hear the farm folk speak, you ken?
Like when they are talking aboot thats affy when yer oot of work(awful when you are out of work) The trade is all so dull. I tried my best to get a job dae what er a will. (do whatever I can.) I will try again sometimes.

Most Native Scots retain a distinct accent. Althought there common accents differs wildy. I like to try speak English although people will not understand whit I am on about. Well (laugh) noone kains what I'm on about anyways.

Some Scottish words and expression are used across the whole country.Some are not. Dinnae- don't Cannae- Can't Willnae- won't. Aye- yes. Wee- means small. Greet- Cry. Kirk- Church. Breeks- Pants. Lassie- Girl, Bairn- small child. Flit- move house.

English words reveal scottish from accent.
Are you no goin
Aren't you going?
Am away to bed.
Sorry I canny speak the English of that.

Well there you go ;)

alicat

9th October 2009, 17:06

excellent,its nice to learn some scottish words..
i love their accent.

GaryFifer

9th October 2009, 17:12

excellent,its nice to learn some scottish words..
i love their accent.

Ok. can you translate one for me. Boris Johnston.

alicat

9th October 2009, 17:15

Ok. can you translate one for me. Boris Johnston.

Johnson?:Rasp::Rasp:

GaryFifer

9th October 2009, 17:19

Johnson?:Rasp::Rasp:

Johnson. How embarrassing. He is named after a rubber?Yep the English version of OOR WULLIE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W2_D93XZEik

alicat

9th October 2009, 17:23

Johnson. How embarrassing. He is named after a rubber?Yep the English version of OOR WULLIE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W2_D93XZEik

lolz!classic:D

D&G

9th October 2009, 17:32

sorry bout that:D

sorry too QB :) i prefer the conventional way of writing thats all i wanted to say (im not a hater) :)...anyway, thank u for the request to be my friend :xxgrinning--00xx3: ingat girl!

monkeyface

9th October 2009, 17:47

You been watching too much Ant and Dec.

try this old guy, fae Fife

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0d73w1vcP8

I think its Arthur.

Have you got an Advil? Sure could use one. :Rasp:

IainBusby

9th October 2009, 21:07

ahhhh:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

Nah i just like the way it looked actually...Smetimes being an artist,theyre always misunderstood..

Most artists are usually misunderstood and under-appreciated until long after their dead. You never know, you mixed uppercase, lowercase and textspeak shorthand writings could in many years to come have great value as an art form in it's own right, but as a way of communicating your thoughts on this forum in this day and age, I'm afraid it just makes it hard for us mere mortals, who must be somewhat lacking in artistic flair, to understand your what you are trying to say.

Iain.