Haters,insecures,bullies,miserable people who just cnt take it if pips are happy...

[Queenbee]

Aloha everyone!:Wave:
Hope everyone's having a great day!Im sure i am!Lovely day!Lovely weather!It's festival and carnival seasons here and I cnt wait to attend the Creamfields 2010 with ma man and some friends-biggest dance festival in the Uk.

Word of the day--- HATER-A person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person.

A person who feels anger and/or jealousy for someone who has succeeded in something they have worked hard for.

A being who speaks badly,and/or takes negative actions in attempt to create problems for a successful person.

Last month i happen to stumble one .He/she started commenting on my photos on my facebook. Sarcastic comments on ma shout outs.HE\she is very discriminating with filipinas who have relationships with white men. Till this day we exchange hate mails.Im really not mad,i jst wanna get even and would wanna know who she/he really is.The sad thing is this person doesnt even know me personally and doesnt want to reveal herself.Such a PUSSY or a BIG FAT COWARD!
To understand more why Haters hate or to understand the things they do and things they say,i would like to share with you the meaning of a HATER.

What i did instead of getting mad at this bully,lunee,bunny boiler who got loads of kids from different men or a big fat coward for hating, i keep on doing what im doing that brings hate my way. Having haters is one way of knowing your constantly doing something right. It's always good to have your name in someone else's mouth,keeps you popular.:Rasp:

like i said, A hater is "A person whose jealousy of another person success or achievements makes them verbally nit-pick any flaws no matter how small or just make up flaws in order to somehow try and belittle the successful person."
In my case she hates that im HAPPPY with my life.
She actually made another account just to piss me off and talk about my son and about how much make-up i put on ma face,that im a money-grabber who left her son jst to go to the UK and my boobies are hanging out and blah blah blah...

At first i was kinda pissed off but i said to myself,why should i be bothered by this bitch or this old bloke posing to be a pinay whatsoever? But the fact she used my weakness-my son and Asa,it really bring the ghetto bitch out of me.:cwm23:

Is it my fault that my long lost love who happens to be welsh has found me again?is it my fault that i had a young german ex of 3 years before i met him again?Would i be a hoe then if thats the case?A hoe by the way is a skank, a woman who ****s loads of men at the same time.A woman who is "easy", and will **** just about anything with a heartbeat.I'm a sexual person but im a one man woman thank you!

I realized that maybe this person doesnt hate me,but hates herself,her miserable life...I gave her what she deserves...If she wants war,war she must have with me wearing ma killer high heel stilettos!:xxaction-smiley-047 I know the best way to deal with these kind of pips is NOT to deal with them at all.They seem to posses these negative aura and its rubbing off on me if im around them too long..I am NOT a horrible person,I'm always happy but smehow some pips jst cnt take it....These kind of pips probably are suffering from jealousy more than anything, because of an empty life. The best thing you can do for them is to be happy and be a real person by doing positive things.

You must not even bother their hate mails and sarcastic comments because you are the only thing that gives them credit. If you don't read them, they have no purpose! Good luck with the haters!:D

[Arthur Little]

Do you KNOW this person, Quennie? IS she - or has she BEEN - a member of this forum? Because you're most probably aware that Keith and the Moderators here deal swiftly with potential troublemakers ... they're banned! But without being familiar with what goes on in 'Facebook', I'm not sure of its procedure(s) for weeding out offenders. Perhaps others might have some :idea:s.

In the meantime, I can only suggest you give the culprit short-shrift; i.e., ignore her as much as possible - and above all, don't grant her the :crazy: satisfaction of upsetting you! :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[stevewool]

hi there Quennie , just like arthur has said ignore them and if its on sad book well you can delate them there also dont talk to them or give them the satisfaction you are talking back to them, we all have a right to speak our mind, and yes some of us open our mouths before our brain is switched on, i find it upsets them more if you just dont bother with people like that, but hay ho life goes on :)

[Queenbee]

YAh i think he /she is member of this forum coz after i posted this thread...this person just messaged me on Fb...:)
i blocked her like 2 times,this person made another account jst to bug me again...Ive never ever encountered in my whole life a nasty person like this...She blocked me after i bombarded this person but this person had a really thick face to block me...Then alas!she unblocked me again to say smethin hehhee...This person is real funny!..Alll i can say BE A MAN or stop being a pussy!face me head on!

[Arthur Little]

i find it upsets them more if you just dont bother with people like that, but hay ho life goes on :)

:gp: Steve ... although sometimes I'M guilty of not following the advice I hand out to others! :rolleyes:

[stevewool]

arnt we all arthur arnt we all:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

[Pete/London]

Sorry to hear of your problem, you can block them from facebook, forget them and enjoy the summer:)

[joebloggs]

why should i be bothered by this bitch


:xxgrinning--00xx3:
and a :action-smiley-081: to them :D

[gWaPito]

I know we have had 'run in's' in the past and some pips on here may be wondering who would do such a thing.
I can assure you It is niether me or my wife (Pumpkins) She works full time and runs this house, not enough hours in the day for her:NoNo:

Same for me when I'm at work, I go back tomorrow, Thank Goodness:xxgrinning--00xx3:

No time for that nonsense.:NoNo:

[stevewool]

good luck in the job and take it easy :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[gWaPito]

good luck in the job and take it easy :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Hi Steve, Thanks.:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[gWaPito]

good luck in the job and take it easy :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Hi Steve, Thanks.:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[raynaputi]

just ignore her queenie..i've been there, done that..ignore them..these haters just enjoy the fact that ur getting back at them coz it means u notice them..they are just attention seekers..so IGNORE them and dont give them the pleasure they want.. ;)

[gWaPito]

The pot calling the kettle black springs to mind. Hey ho, life goes on:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[joebloggs]

The pot calling the kettle black springs to mind. Hey ho, life goes on:xxgrinning--00xx3:

i hope the only blood spilt today will be from cutting my finger at work :angry:

no handbag fights please :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[KeithD]

Jealousy :NoNo:

[Sophie]

Last month i happen to stumble one .He/she started commenting on my photos on my facebook. Sarcastic comments on ma shout outs.HE\she is very discriminating with filipinas who have relationships with white men. Till this day we exchange hate mails.Im really not mad,i jst wanna get even and would wanna know who she/he really is.The sad thing is this person doesnt even know me personally and doesnt want to reveal herself.Such a PUSSY or a BIG FAT COWARD!

Hi sis, sorry to hear about this person trying to upset and discredit you in fb. My advice, don’t let this lowlife get to you. Once you see sarcastic comments or hate mails, delete it and block this person right away. Don’t even exchange hate mails because you’re only giving this person the satisfaction. You got better things to do with your time than to stoop down on this person’s level. Just carry on being happy with your life and with your man and don’t let this person affect you in any way or at all.

[Sophie]

The best thing you can do for them is to be happy and be a real person by doing positive things.
You must not even bother their hate mails and sarcastic comments because you are the only thing that gives them credit. If you don't read them, they have no purpose!

I definitely agree with you on this one sis, very well said :xxgrinning--00xx3: Its always the best way to go :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[fred]

Queen bee.. You say you are not upset when you quite obviously are.
You know full well that you should do what has been suggested here but you seem to want to continue to engage with this entity in an attempt to get your own back and win the day.:doh
You have 2 choices..Either take the good advice given here and get on with your life,or continue on your path of rage..
You cant hit what you cant see!!
Bahala ka!!

[liane]

Sorry to hear about this Queenie. The best thing to do is ignore her as most members advised you. I think it would be better to change your privacy settings in your fb, that way she won't have any access in your profile and you won't received any message from unknown person.

[Queenbee]

i was frankly upset at first..it's a WOMAN thing, im jst human.
and like i said im really curious who this was!why?coz would really wanna kick her ass!hahaha...We do have a clue who she is already..It so easy to track her down if im being smart about it.track her ip address,her phone num then address.If she's in the UK she better be careful...:D

[Queenbee]

Sorry to hear of your problem, you can block them from facebook, forget them and enjoy the summer:)

dude me block her loads of time,she managed to keep quiet for awhile then she made another account..i jst bocked her again yesterday.:)

[Queenbee]

Hi sis, sorry to hear about this person trying to upset and discredit you in fb. My advice, don’t let this lowlife get to you. Once you see sarcastic comments or hate mails, delete it and block this person right away. Don’t even exchange hate mails because you’re only giving this person the satisfaction. You got better things to do with your time than to stoop down on this person’s level. Just carry on being happy with your life and with your man and don’t let this person affect you in any way or at all.

thnx sis!sometime when ur that that horrible of aperson u get affected by those people looking down on you.But i dnt want them to drag me down.I jst keep on doing what i do that made them hate me...

[Queenbee]

I know we have had 'run in's' in the past and some pips on here may be wondering who would do such a thing.
I can assure you It is niether me or my wife (Pumpkins) She works full time and runs this house, not enough hours in the day for her:NoNo:

Same for me when I'm at work, I go back tomorrow, Thank Goodness:xxgrinning--00xx3:

No time for that nonsense.:NoNo:

no worries gwapito!it is kinda childish and i think the one doing this is jst really crazy...like mental crazy:crazy:

[Pete/London]

i was frankly upset at first..it's a WOMAN thing, im jst human.
and like i said im really curious who this was!why?coz would really wanna kick her ass!hahaha...We do have a clue who she is already..It so easy to track her down if im being smart about it.track her ip address,her phone num then address.If she's in the UK she better be careful...:D

Well that`s not such a good way to deal with it, it will just boil and boil. Don`t look at facebook for a few days and ignore it.
DUDE :censored:

[pennybarry]

If I were in your shoes, I cannot just ignore her, I may feel upset but will not take the heat to boil. If he/she wants dirty words, then I'm ready to explode my filipino swearing.:omg: Don't be too upset as first time you have learned is she is hiding her identity which means she is nothing but a coward. Funny isn't it?:icon_lol::laugher:

[Ross]

those are just people who are but :cwm23::cwm23::crazy::crazy::yikes::action-smiley-081: life is too short too take it too seriously:omg::D:D:xxgrinning--00xx3::heartshape1:
peace everyone:)

[Queenbee]

If I were in your shoes, I cannot just ignore her, I may feel upset but will not take the heat to boil. If he/she wants dirty words, then I'm ready to explode my filipino swearing.:omg: Don't be too upset as first time you have learned is she is hiding her identity which means she is nothing but a coward. Funny isn't it?:icon_lol::laugher:

haha teh penns its so crazy,she blocked me after that ...then she unblocked me again jst to say sme nasty stuff again to bug me,it made me laugh!she's so desperate.Well since i cnt block her after 48 hours,i was bombarding her wih all the filipino swearing she deserves haha.then after that i BLOCKED HER for the last time.hehe.teh penns hindi na nakahirit..lol:icon_lol:

[Queenbee]

Do you KNOW this person, Quennie? IS she - or has she BEEN - a member of this forum? Because you're most probably aware that Keith and the Moderators here deal swiftly with potential troublemakers ... they're banned! But without being familiar with what goes on in 'Facebook', I'm not sure of its procedure(s) for weeding out offenders. Perhaps others might have some :idea:s.

In the meantime, I can only suggest you give the culprit short-shrift; i.e., ignore her as much as possible - and above all, don't grant her the :crazy: satisfaction of upsetting you! :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Thnx Arthur Little!:):):)

[bornatbirth]

If he/she wants dirty words, then I'm ready to explode my filipino swearing.:omg:



peace everyone

shouldnt that the other way around :Erm: :icon_lol:

[KeithD]

shouldnt that the other way around :Erm: :icon_lol:

:D

Queenie ... you can report her in FB ... attach copies of what she writes, they can close her account. Or better still. reply with short notes saying thanks and how you appreciate her advice, and you look forward to more.... that'll annoy her :laugher:

[Ross]

shouldnt that the other way around :Erm: :icon_lol:

:cwm24: :Cuckoo::D:D

[beppe]

The best policy ignore them and move on, they will stop on their own.

[cherelyn]

Lovely Queenbee. I know it is upsetting when people treat you bad, sadly this evil seems more likely to come from the west than the east. I joined the global vegan network on facebook but was forced to close my account because of the insults from other vegans, so what chance do I have with meat eaters? After the British Government stole, demolished, the house I owned in the town centre because I was an animal rights, such as they are, supporter and made my Malay wife and myself homeless during Winter, costing us hundreds of thousands of pounds etc, I have hated people since and have little to do with others except the few friends I have in Surigao, but not one in England. That is why I will form my own group of friends where we can live together in safety and happiness. Concentrate on the kind people, forget the cruel, Mike.

[-sillybilly-]

The best policy ignore them and move on, they will stop on their own.

Just ignore it friend as she will have her own "karma"....
Shes not as educated as you so why go down to her level and waste your time?
not worth it mate.

[somebody]

QB we all have a limited time on this Planet so dont waste it on time wasters. Like the Boss says let facebook know about the person. If you see a message say thanks for your views but no thanks make a standard reply which you copy n paste each time. Then ignore dont add people unless you know them to facebook..

Enjoy life dont waste it thats what this person wants..