Sulkiness(tampo) Management

[sars_notd_virus]

..how do British guys deal with it???

[stevewool]

i will tell you next month give me time to get use to it first hand :icon_lol::icon_lol:

[KeithD]

I never notice :Erm: ... wifey's always a nark :laugher:

[James Hubbard]

..how do British guys deal with it???

ice cream does the job :)

[KeithD]

ice cream does the job :)

Eaten or smeared all over her? :rolleyes:

[James Hubbard]

Eaten or smeared all over her? :rolleyes:

depends on the flavour :hubbahubba:

[James Hubbard]

duplicate ... sorries

[burdock]

Having to deal with some at the moment:(

[James Hubbard]

Having to deal with some at the moment:(

I don't envy you! I have had enough in the last 3 years to last 10 lolz

[stevewool]

is it that bad really, i am a bit john bull so had i better change or stay as i am with emma

[triple5]

Never experienced it. keep waiting for it, expecting it as everybody warns about it, but still never seen it first hand... or maybe i'm just so insensitive I never noticed :D

[stevewool]

Never experienced it. keep waiting for it, expecting it as everybody warns about it, but still never seen it first hand... or maybe i'm just so insensitive I never noticed :D

brill they say we men are insensitive or dont listen

[aposhark]

Sorry, I don't have the answer and I'm not sure that there is an answer.

I have tried various strategies and all have failed miserably :doh

Just weather the storm and wait for sunnier days seems the only thing to do in my limited experience :cwm24:

[keithAngel]

join in it takes 2 to tampo:rolleyes:

[Dedworth]

I like the way the thread is divided into the haves (had a dose of Tampo) & have nots......... I'm a fully paid up have

[-sillybilly-]

my husband ignores me when he knows im sulking, but the next day he will take me out shopping or buy me fish n chips or indian meal! and then he will apologize for what he said or done....

[Dedworth]

my husband ignores me when he knows im sulking, but the next day he will take me out shopping or buy me fish n chips or indian meal! and then he will apologize for what he said or done....

Of the 3 options I'd prefer " or buy me fish n chips "- I hope I have to wait a long time before needing to try it :)

[-sillybilly-]

Of the 3 options I'd prefer " or buy me fish n chips "- I hope I have to wait a long time before needing to try it :)

we'll my husband waited about a few months...getting to know each other more and when you feel so comfortable to each other then it will come out...just a little tampo...dont worry little is easy....chips is good enough, no need fish! But if its a full blown tampo then try those options!:D:D:D

[bornatbirth]

have a tampo step, whenever my wife gets tampo i tell her to go to her step and stay there until she stops, works everytime :Cuckoo: :crazy:

[James Hubbard]

have a tampo step, whenever my wife gets tampo i tell her to go to her step and stay there until she stops, works everytime :Cuckoo: :crazy:

My wife would probably make my head connect with the step very quickly if i tried to pull something like that during her tampos ;)

[jam07]

brill they say we men are insensitive or dont listen

exactly steve! :D

[pennybarry]

My husband is already immuned with my tampo and tried to change him but 2 hopes. No hope and Bob Hope.:icon_lol:

Oh men! what would you be without us women?????????:laugher::heartshape1:

[-sillybilly-]

My husband is already immuned with my tampo and tried to change him but 2 hopes. No hope and Bob Hope.:icon_lol:

Oh men! what would you be without us women?????????:laugher::heartshape1:

Dang right! Ate Penny! :)

[DaveUK]

I definitely feel left out here!

The worst mood I've ever seen Yam in is a quiet one! And even then, it's not as a result of something I've done! Or at least that's what she tells me and I don't see why I should ask her twice (just in case!) :D

[sars_notd_virus]

brill they say we men are insensitive or dont listen

Aha!! so Men really got a 'nothing box' inside their brain??(the power to ignore or think nothing whenever it pleases him):rolleyes::D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZoqpjOZxf2M

[burdock]

It's very hard to manage when they not talk to you and being so far apart, maybe would be easier face to face.

Weathering a two day sulk right now, Jonalyn not been online now for two days

When I call just get "why should I come online":cwm23:

Wish I could say is was over something big but her friend as a new phone and she would like one too and i said "you have two phones now why would you need another one"

Well just have to ride this one out:(

[DaveUK]

At least you're at a safe distance mate!

Although, is there such a thing as a safe distance when tampo is involved?! :yikes:

[James Hubbard]

It's very hard to manage when they not talk to you and being so far apart, maybe would be easier face to face.

Weathering a two day sulk right now, Jonalyn not been online now for two days

When I call just get "why should I come online":cwm23:

Wish I could say is was over something big but her friend as a new phone and she would like one too and i said "you have two phones now why would you need another one"

Well just have to ride this one out:(

Yeps,

I completely understand this. 2 days is a pretty long one over such a trivial and insignificant thing, but as you said you just need to ride it out.

Seems pretty big sulk over such a small thing though :doh

[James Hubbard]

It's very hard to manage when they not talk to you and being so far apart, maybe would be easier face to face.

Weathering a two day sulk right now, Jonalyn not been online now for two days

When I call just get "why should I come online":cwm23:

Wish I could say is was over something big but her friend as a new phone and she would like one too and i said "you have two phones now why would you need another one"

Well just have to ride this one out:(

Yeps,

I completely understand this. 2 days is a pretty long one over such a trivial and insignificant thing, but as you said you just need to ride it out.

Seems pretty big sulk over such a small thing though :doh

[KeithD]

It's very hard to manage when they not talk to you and being so far apart, maybe would be easier face to face.

Weathering a two day sulk right now, Jonalyn not been online now for two days

When I call just get "why should I come online":cwm23:

Wish I could say is was over something big but her friend as a new phone and she would like one too and i said "you have two phones now why would you need another one"

Well just have to ride this one out:(

Just send her a txt that says "Well I may as well talk to the other girl when I'm online" .... and leave it at that :D

[raynaputi]

Just send her a txt that says "Well I may as well talk to the other girl when I'm online" .... and leave it at that :D

hahahahahaha..that will either put her more in tampo mode or would want to patch things up immediately...:doh:Cuckoo::D

[-sillybilly-]

It's very hard to manage when they not talk to you and being so far apart, maybe would be easier face to face.

Weathering a two day sulk right now, Jonalyn not been online now for two days

When I call just get "why should I come online":cwm23:

Wish I could say is was over something big but her friend as a new phone and she would like one too and i said "you have two phones now why would you need another one"

Well just have to ride this one out:(

A new phone? is that the reason why shes not been talking to you? :NoNo:
tell her you are not a phone shop. Sorry but that sounds selfish and immature to me and its not sulking or tampo either. :crazy:
Win2win is probably just right. Send her a text and add that maybe your chatmates could understand you more. :NoNo::NoNo:

[burdock]

totally agree it is abit selfish and immature and if she needed a new I'd buy her one before you could say nokia

I do love her, faults n all

[aromulus]

I really thought that this waas going to be a "women-free" thread.....:doh

But they seem to be coming out of the forum woodwork....:NoNo:

In this sad case, I will refrain from contributing as It might incriminate me...:icon_lol:

[James Hubbard]

Hey Burdock, how are things going now? Any better?

JH

[burdock]

Sorry to say :NoNo:

Trying not to get mad about it

[burdock]

Sorry to say :NoNo:

Trying not to get mad about it

[James Hubbard]

To be honest, unless other things are going on, this doesn't look too good for your relationship.

What i mean is ... if it's just over this small thing ... hmmm ... u may want to re-consider whom you are with, lest you spend the rest of your life in the current purgatory in which you're living!

[burdock]

I just hope it's a distance thing and when we are together it will be different plus easier to work stuff like this out

[James Hubbard]

I just hope it's a distance thing and when we are together it will be different plus easier to work stuff like this out

You know what?

As much as I'd love to tell you that it'll all be fine when you and her are together, I gotta tell you the truth from my (albeit limited) experience.

If you don't nip this trait in the bud now - with her - and let her know that for you it's unacceptable, she will have you in the palm of her hand knowing that she can manipulate you at every turn.

I am not saying that you should demand to be "the boss" ... that's a repulsive attitude. I am saying, you need to have equality in your relationship, and it seems right now, with her materialistic manipulation, she is the boss and you're her b:censored:h! Sorry to say, but that's just what I see.

I am concerned about you. It has been several days now and she's still acting like this?

The longest my now wife has ever tampo'd with me was 2 days, and that was about something very serious.

This crap is just about a phone and she's being :Cuckoo: about not getting it!

So when you're together and she wants that dress and you say "honey i can't afford it", then you get another week of hell.

If you relent and buy her what she wants, then 2 things happen

( 1 ) She sees you as a wimp, and regards you as her b:censored:h

( 2 ) She will resent you for buying it for her.

Personally, she sounds like a lot of trouble! If I were you, I'd have a very serious convo with her, and perhaps be prepared to cut your losses :NoNo:

That's my take :)

be strong mate!

[sars_notd_virus]

I just hope it's a distance thing and when we are together it will be different plus easier to work stuff like this out




Personally, she sounds like a lot of trouble! If I were you, I'd have a very serious convo with her, and perhaps be prepared to cut your losses :NoNo:

That's my take :)

be strong mate!

i think i'm going to put another thread for this topic??:rolleyes:

[malditako]

shopping always works best for me lol

[-sillybilly-]

I just hope it's a distance thing and when we are together it will be different plus easier to work stuff like this out

Sorry but i can imagine that she's a "highly maintenance".

You are not together yet and she now acts like that..so how much more when you bring her over in the UK?
The helluva :doh!

Oh no.....:doh....:NoNo:

[raynaputi]

i think i'm going to put another thread for this topic??:rolleyes:

hahahahaha...mari has just done:hijacked: :icon_lol:

[sars_notd_virus]

hahahahaha...mari has just done:hijacked: :icon_lol:

ahahhaa hi thre raynagirl..miss mod!! posh!! miss ya!!

[raynaputi]

ahahhaa hi thre raynagirl..miss mod!! posh!! miss ya!!

hahahaha..i just want to reiterate that i thought being a mod, boss keith would give me a laptop that's why i agreed..but he's cheap! :Bolt::xxparty-smiley-004::peepwall::ARsurrender:..hahahahaha LOL! :icon_lol: miss yah too! and i know you're having the time of your life there! :do_it: :shehumper::Sex: :Jump: hope we can chat next time..i'm just about to go to work and i'll be late! hahaha..:doh:icon_lol:

[James Hubbard]

i think i'm going to put another thread for this topic??:rolleyes:


And here it is :D :

http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?26042-Did-I-Marry-the-Right-Person-..or-Am-i-with-the-Right-Girl-or-Guy

I think maybe Burdock would benefit from reading it ...

[burdock]

Had a long talk on the phone, will go in to more detail when I get home later

Like to thank JH and everyone for the advise and insights

[James Hubbard]

Had a long talk on the phone, will go in to more detail when I get home later

Like to thank JH and everyone for the advise and insights

you're welcome mate

looking forward to seeing how this goes :)

[sars_notd_virus]

Had a long talk on the phone, will go in to more detail when I get home later



its hard when you cant hug someone straight away and tell all your griefs
i know the two of you will be fine :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[triple5]

It's hard when you can't tell somebody they're being a spoilt brat to their face. Sorry to be so frank dude, but I'd tell her go take her tampo to somebody who gives a :censored:

[sparky]

just had my first experience of tampo- but for what i dunno.

we were sitting there watching "grease" when my phone goes- its someone from work- we have been having a lot of issues with a major concern and i was being told about the latest update. rather than turn the sound down i went into the other room to talk- not the first time i have done that rather thsan interupt her TV viewing.

well i come back- she has moved seats and you just know when alls not right

now all i get when i ask whats up is "nothing":doh:doh

guess no :do_it::do_it: for me tonight :NoNo:

[Dedworth]

just had my first experience of tampo- but for what i dunno.

Congratulations you have passed your initiation and are now a fully fledged member. You also get a distinction for not knowing what the tampo is for :D

[aromulus]

One doesn't really have to do or say anything in particular....:omg:
It is down on how that "anything in particular" is construed by the misguidedly, seemingly offended party.....:doh

Unfortunately, at times, what we see as normal behaviour here in the west, is not appreciated by some others of different cultures and we have to learn to adjust if we want the relationships to flourish.:icon_sorry:

The real problems arise when one is Tampo-ed unreasonably only to make a useless point.:doh

I have a couple of t-shirts and caps for it now, so I reckon I am talking from personal experience knowledge on the subject....:rolleyes:
And I reckon I still know :censored: all, about the subject...:crazy:

The only sure thing I can say is that it will happen no matter what, and you and I will be totally powerless as to guess what caused it....:doh

So my friend, learn to live with it....:xxgrinning--00xx3:

:Hellooo:

[sparky]

Congratulations you have passed your initiation and are now a fully fledged member. You also get a distinction for not knowing what the tampo is for :D

bit of a harsh lesson to get both at once tho on her first attempt:cwm24:

only took a week and 2 days as well:furious3:

[aromulus]

only took a week and 2 days as well:furious3:

The making up is great...!!!

[sparky]

The making up is great...!!!

even tho i aint done anything wrong- in an effort of goodwill i saw the thread about dried fish and looked up the pinoyminimall site and told her to order some stuff from it

seems to have done the trick so far and only cost me £16:xxgrinning--00xx3: