is it mad to get married that soon???? [Archive]

Steve.r

10th October 2010, 22:04

Only you can make that decision. We don't know any facts. Do yo think you know eachother well enough to spend the rest of your lives together? :Erm:

Languish

10th October 2010, 22:45

Hello Guys, im new here nice to meet u all..

Is it wrong to get married in less than a year of knowing each other?say 10 months..:)

It's not wrong if the relationship is right. Love can be blind - but i knew i wanted to marry my girlfriend in a matter of just a few months. Its no different a year on - in fact the desire is stronger! :xxgrinning--00xx3: Trust your heart!

Arthur Little

10th October 2010, 23:49

Hello Guys, im new here nice to meet u all..

... and nice to greet you; :welcomex:

Arthur Little

11th October 2010, 00:06

Is it wrong to get married in less than a year of knowing each other?say 10 months..:)

:NoNo: ... not at all! But, there again, :rolleyes: it's something that only a couple can decide between their two selves ... based on how well each feels he/she knows the other, :love2: really!! :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Baliw99

11th October 2010, 00:27

Hello Guys, im new here nice to meet u all..

Is it wrong to get married in less than a year of knowing each other?say 10 months..:)

Welcome to the board. Can I ask, on your status, it says that you are married and also your board name, so are you asking the question as you feel it was too soon?
Only you will know the answer to it though, if you are happy and in love, then if it was 10months or 10 years, as long as you are together, is that not what is important?

On a side note---- earlier this year, I was talking to this elderly lady, she said that she met her late husband on a blind date, the second date he asked her to marry him, they married within 5 months and lived a happy life until he passed away, which if I remember correctly was 50 years later. So it shows, that when you meet the right person, you will know.

febmary

11th October 2010, 05:03

Hello mrs g, serrano,

I think as long the relationship u started is genuine, trusting and true. Why not go farther, Just make sure of your decision, its a commitment for a lifetime....

My fiance knew each other in dec 2009, met in June 2010, and intend to marry in feb 2011. We had a open and constant communication.

Just be sure..and Goodluck..

Regards,
Ann

rani

11th October 2010, 05:17

hi mrs serrano :Hellooo:

if there's no doubt in the relationship and everything is in order.. why not?
everyone deserves to be happy... :heartshape1:

Terpe

11th October 2010, 07:41

:Hellooo: Hi Mrs.G Serrano, Welcome to the forum. :Wave:

Everyone is different. If two people believe it's the right thing to do then go ahead.
Important is love, trust and honesty.

malditako

11th October 2010, 07:58

my officemate marry her husband only after few weeks of knowing each other....others says its romantic other says its not right...i think its only you who can decide and only you can best assess if it is right :)

Terpe

11th October 2010, 08:22

One of the guys who worked in my office had been with his g/f for 8 years. They lived together. Nice couple.
Within 3 months of getting married they decided to split up. Have no real idea why.
After 6 months of separation (and splitting up most of their property including the house) they are now back together. :)
I heard they are now happier than ever.
It's a funny world! :D

johncar54

11th October 2010, 17:43

We had been chatting on line for a couple of months, although because of my wife's poor English, that did not amount to much in reality.

When I went to RP in January 2006 I had a short list. My wife was the first and having met her, I decided I did not need to meet anyone else.

We married on 24th March 2006.

Every day I know, more and more, that I / we made the right decision.

Arthur Little

11th October 2010, 17:53

... its a commitment for a lifetime....

It's a BIG step - or should be - right enough, Ann ... :iagree:

Arthur Little

11th October 2010, 18:30

We had an open and constant communication.

:gp: ... that's the key! Be completely open and honest with one another.

And make sure you communicate regularly ... keeping a record of all correspondence as well as photographic evidence of the two of you together - to substantiate proof of a genuine relationship when the time is ripe to apply for a UK Settlement Visa. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

stevewool

11th October 2010, 19:41

do what you both think is right , only you will know if its right or wrong aslong as we your new friends get a invite, good luck in what ever you deside :)

tomboo

12th October 2010, 11:07

as long as you have met in real and know each other well enough, your heart will tell you if its right, but if you have to stop and think about it, then maybe you need to understand each other more

aposhark

12th October 2010, 14:32

Hi Mrs.G Serrano,

I met my wife in the Philippines and knew she was the one when I first saw her :hubbahubba:
It wasn't just how lovely she looked, after talking with her I sat down and was shaking in my seat.
It was very strange :yikes: :heartshape1:

I knew she would be my wife and that we would have children, we have a baby daughter now.

We got married when I went back less than six months later.

aposhark

12th October 2010, 15:18

:gp: ... that's the key! Be completely open and honest with one another.

And make sure you communicate regularly ... keeping a record of all correspondence as well as photographic evidence of the two of you together - to substantiate proof of a genuine relationship when the time is ripe to apply for a UK Settlement Visa. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

I agree Arthur, I also think that your command of the English language helps many people on this forum also :Jump:
This is beneficial to Filipinas and to English alike.
I am not on here much these days with a gruelling work schedule but it is good to see English typed with such aplomb :xxgrinning--00xx3:

johncar54

12th October 2010, 16:08

:gp: ... that's the key!

And make sure you communicate regularly ... keeping a record of all correspondence as well as photographic evidence of the two of you together - to substantiate proof of a genuine relationship when the time is ripe to apply for a UK Settlement Visa. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Or failing that come and live in Spain where the governments accepts that if you are married your spouse has an absolute right to live with you. Just 60 euros application fee, and of course the necessary bits of paper, and live happily ever after !

sars_notd_virus

12th October 2010, 17:35

Is it wrong to get married in less than a year of knowing each other?say 10 months..:)

If you are physically,emotionally,mentally ready and agree to marry,.. why not? it doesnt matter how long or how short you knew each other,...we will not be in your relationship ,it will just be you and your partner for the rest of your lifes..

...sending u Best Wishes in advance:)

Arthur Little

12th October 2010, 19:05

I agree Arthur, I also think that your command of the English language helps many people on this forum also :Jump:

:) ... it's very kind of you to say so, Mike ... :68711_thanx:

This is beneficial to Filipinas and to English alike.
I am not on here much these days with a gruelling work schedule but it is good to see English typed with such aplomb :xxgrinning--00xx3:

It has to be said that I'm equally impressed by your style ... and - even though our opinions might differ on occasion - I always enjoy reading your interesting posts. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

KeithD

12th October 2010, 20:02

Arthur actually writes in Gaelic .... it's his wife that translates the posts to English ;)

JimOttley

12th October 2010, 22:01

Hello Guys, im new here nice to meet u all..

Is it wrong to get married in less than a year of knowing each other?say 10 months..:)

My parents got married in 1949 after a 10 month relationship, it's nothing new, like everyone they had their good and bad times but they were happy for many years throughout the 50's and 60's, if it feels right go for it :xxgrinning--00xx3: