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tone
24th May 2011, 23:08
Hello everyone
Didnt know how to title this so I left it quite generic!

I happen to notice that there is a lot of bitchiness towards to Fiancee because she has got a relationship with a foreigner - and I am slightly concerned if idle banter would become more serious - towards emotional and mental bullying!

Is this an issue anyone here has had to deal with?

My Fiancee is particularly humble - just like me, I live my life with a single motto - treat others as you wish to be treated and my Fiancee mirrors this and is really very lovely for a girl so young.

Although there is no straight answer - I have told her not to publish anything that would atagonise her social circle one of her so called close friends openly admitted jealousy was at the forefront of her mind!!

Anyone know how far this goes... does it get physical!?

I got stuck on a flight back from Malaysia once with a guy who lived in Thailand and was on his 2nd Thai wife and we got talking and he told me some horrific stories about how Thai girls get so jealous that they had physically disfigured girls who were on their way out so to speak. I am slightly concerned about this...

Thanks

Tone

raynaputi
24th May 2011, 23:51
i think (well based on the people who i'm surrounded with) very rarely that Filipinas would physically fight..most of the time, it's all just words and banters or gossips..unless one starts to physically hurt another like slaps or pull the hair, then that's the start of a never ending battle..but i think physical damage is less common compared with gossips circulating among the Filipinas..that usually starts the fire..just make sure your girl won't be affected with these stuffs..

grahamw48
25th May 2011, 00:29
I haven't heard of anyone being physically attacked either.

If any of her particularly attractive jealous associates are also particularly desperate to land a foreigner...then you have my permission to let them contact me via this website. :D

sexiimulditah
25th May 2011, 01:29
i think (well based on the people who i'm surrounded with) very rarely that Filipinas would physically fight..most of the time, it's all just words and banters or gossips..unless one starts to physically hurt another like slaps or pull the hair, then that's the start of a never ending battle..but i think physical damage is less common compared with gossips circulating among the Filipinas..that usually starts the fire..just make sure your girl won't be affected with these stuffs..



i agree with rayna,gawssshhhh can u imagine a girl fighting physically gawsh thats just too horrible:Erm:,,,most of the girls just do some blah blah blah(bit its too noisy eh?:Rasp:) well that's woman..lol..

tone
25th May 2011, 09:11
Thanks for your words makes me feel a lot better.
Graham I'll mention that to some of them!!

Cheers
Tone

Tawi2
25th May 2011, 15:49
Yeah,Pinays NEVER fight :icon_lol:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nrcznb8Am44

Seen a pinay putting the boot into an indian guy lying on the ground at LA Cafe,the air was blue with "Putang Ina"s,I almost blushed :icon_lol:
Also once saw a pinay trying to use a bottle on someone(not sexually.......Violently) :icon_lol:
They actually fight better than the guys(Manny Pacquiao being the exception) :icon_lol:

grahamw48
25th May 2011, 16:09
LA Cafe....naughty place, now renamed, and formerly 'Rosie's Diner'/'Blue Hawaii' ? ;)

I presume you were just passing by. :D

Tawi2
25th May 2011, 16:29
LA Cafe....naughty place
I used to frequent "Naughty Places",they always attract the most interesting characters ;)
i have seen a number of pinay face-slapping,hair-pulling,wrestling,catfights(wonder if such a pay-per-view website would be a viable business proposition:Erm:),they fight just the same as women anywhere in the world:icon_lol:

grahamw48
25th May 2011, 17:01
You and your link !

I've just been all over the place on youtube for the past hour...nearly missed my tea ! :icon_lol:

Yes, in my single days spent many a happy few hours/days/weeks in the Ermita funfair, and then transferred up to AC. :)

Tawi2
25th May 2011, 17:06
You and your link
Yeah,but it brought back memories of Wanchai didnt it?Big-apple,new makatis and my favourites Pussycats and neptunes :) Happy days mate :icon_lol:

grahamw48
25th May 2011, 17:21
Yep...wish I was there now. :bigcry:

somebody
25th May 2011, 18:54
Cant say the Wifes friends or strangers were Violently jealous but she did put up with some not so nice comments occasionaly from strangers:rolleyes:

Should be nothing to worry about but of course be aware of indivudals who may have an issue. I know some friends of my wife and other Ladies moving abroad were a little jealous/upset of the hubby/pinay as they losing their friend if they move abroad. But many phills move abroad away from home so most accept it and get on with things :):)

tone
27th May 2011, 22:52
Thanks again for your input, things got a bit heavy on facebook but I told her to lay low and dont post up too much that increases the green eyes.
I know girls can get bitchy the world over, I just feel so protective - just my nature.

Cheers

Tone

sars_notd_virus
28th May 2011, 10:27
Hello everyone
Didnt know how to title this so I left it quite generic!

I happen to notice that there is a lot of bitchiness towards to Fiancee because she has got a relationship with a foreigner - and I am slightly concerned if idle banter would become more serious - towards emotional and mental bullying!

Is this an issue anyone here has had to deal with?

Anyone know how far this goes... does it get physical!?

Tone

Personally, I like to keep myself private and respects somebody elses privacy (so thre is no room in jealousy) ...I get bored and hate bitchiness ,so if somebody do that to me i can get really physical , then we'll just see each other in court for the damages:rolleyes:

scott&ligaya
2nd June 2011, 19:57
Yeah,but it brought back memories of Wanchai didnt it?Big-apple,new makatis and my favourites Pussycats and neptunes :) Happy days mate :icon_lol:

hehehehehehehe you forgot Boracay, Fenwicks and Strawberrys as well as ckub bunny and the rest.... not that I have ever been in any of them, strictly a carnegies, mes amis and old china hand plus the wanch with the hash, and of course Dusk to Dawn for the house band... happy nights

scott&ligaya
2nd June 2011, 20:00
Hi Tone, welcome to another midlander, maybe see you at the Birmingham Barrio fiesta on 19/20 June
..... and yes just ask her to not be to flashy about her new relationship

Tawi2
2nd June 2011, 20:15
Boracay, Fenwicks and Strawberrys
Wasnt Boracay upstairs from where Big Apple was after BA closed?I have been to Fenwicks,the wanch,and the old china hand etc,but they werent as hot as pussycats or Neppies for me :xxaction-smiley-047:icon_lol: I also used to go to a Thai disco in Admiralty,but time dims the memory,cant remember its name now:Erm:

scott&ligaya
3rd June 2011, 13:48
ahhhhh fond memories indeed, did you dance on the carnegies bar with the Virgin atlantic cabin crew:Jump::Jump::Jump: now there is a bunch of ladies who know how to enjoy life hehehehehe. Going through HK in a month or so so will be revisiting some old haunts (no mahal with me but she has many spies in HK so best behaviour for me )lol