Meeting Filipino girls in the UK

[Andrew1]

Hi Guys I'm new here my name is Andrew.

I've travelled a fair bit around south east asia so I'm not a newb as such. Going to Phils in December mainly for a normal holiday tbh. The problem with meeting girls on such short trips is your just not together long enough to make any real decisions about girls imo.

I was considering trying to meet a phils girl that was already in the UK, looked on DIA and Filopino cupid and not had much luck.

Anyone got any suggestions where could be other good places to meet phils girls in the UK?

Thanks :)

[alanmf1]

Hi Andrew, Welcome here,:xxgrinning--00xx3:
there is a filipino festival at Campbell Park in Milton Keynes on 25th & 26th June.
Perhaps you could come along to that and meet some people!
Good luck:Wave:

[Tawi2]

Loads of them,I sat in a KFC packed with them last sunday right across from a pinoy religion HQ in west-london,one question though,why does it have to be pinays?:Erm:

[Terpe]

................why does it have to be pinays?:Erm:

:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Dedworth]

Hi Guys I'm new here my name is Andrew.

I've travelled a fair bit around south east asia so I'm not a newb as such. Going to Phils in December mainly for a normal holiday tbh. The problem with meeting girls on such short trips is your just not together long enough to make any real decisions about girls imo.

I was considering trying to meet a phils girl that was already in the UK, looked on DIA and Filopino cupid and not had much luck.

Anyone got any suggestions where could be other good places to meet phils girls in the UK?

Thanks :)

Hospitals ! My wife's a nurse & lots work in healthcare. I'm trying to fathom out a reason for being in one if you're not a patient or visitor :) As Alanmf1 suggested you could go along to some of the upcoming fiestas - search for threads that give dates etc or have a look at http://www.adoborice.com/filipino-events.aspx

Good luck

[Andrew1]

why does it have to be pinays?:Erm:

Cus I like Asian girls and I'm sick of having pigeon English conversations with Thai, Laos girls etc.

Its a lot easier to have a proper relationship with someone that can speak good English.........

[Andrew1]

Hospitals ! My wife's a nurse & lots work in healthcare. I'm trying to fathom out a reason for being in one if you're not a patient or visitor :) As Alanmf1 suggested you could go along to some of the upcoming fiestas - search for threads that give dates etc or have a look at http://www.adoborice.com/filipino-events.aspx

Good luck

Thanks for that link :)

[Andrew1]

Hospitals ! My wife's a nurse & lots work in healthcare. I'm trying to fathom out a reason for being in one if you're not a patient or visitor :) As Alanmf1 suggested you could go along to some of the upcoming fiestas - search for threads that give dates etc or have a look at http://www.adoborice.com/filipino-events.aspx

Good luck

Thanks for that link.

My job involves spending a lot of time in hospitals, unfortunately most the the pinay nurses I meet are lasses older and bigger than me :icon_lol:

[Andrew1]

Hmm, what happened to the other posts I tried to make? They didn't appear on the board?

[Andrew1]

Hospitals ! My wife's a nurse & lots work in healthcare. I'm trying to fathom out a reason for being in one if you're not a patient or visitor :) As Alanmf1 suggested you could go along to some of the upcoming fiestas - search for threads that give dates etc or have a look at http://www.adoborice.com/filipino-events.aspx

Good luck

Thanks for the link, I might check it out!

My job involves me going into hospitals a lot, most of the Pinay nurses I see are older and fatter than me :icon_lol:

[grahamw48]

:xxgrinning--00xx3:

Cos they're wonderful...of course. :D

[grahamw48]

Cus I like Asian girls and I'm sick of having pigeon English conversations with Thai, Laos girls etc.

Its a lot easier to have a proper relationship with someone that can speak good English.........

You might see my beautiful step-daughter around in Nottingham when she returns to Uni' there after just having done a years internship in New York, but don't expect her to fall for the usual chat-up lines and blather....been here too long. :icon_lol:

[Andrew1]

You might see my beautiful step-daughter around in Nottingham when she returns to Uni' there after just having done a years internship in New York, but don't expect her to fall for the usual chat-up lines and blather....been here too long. :icon_lol:

Bizarrely enough I've got a date tonight with a Thai chick that I randomly bumped into and got talking to in town today.:)

[Terpe]

The season is almost upon us for the Philippine fiesta's.
There are plenty including the Hounslow fiesta in July.

There will be thousands of the most beautiful Phils ladies you could ever dream of.
Check out the fiestas with a search here.

If you're a good guy .............Good luck!

If not ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

[Andrew1]

The season is almost upon us for the Philippine fiesta's.
There are plenty including the Hounslow fiesta in July.

There will be thousands of the most beautiful Phils ladies you could ever dream of.
Check out the fiestas with a search here.

If you're a good guy .............Good luck!

If not ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Any chance you point me in the direction of any in the midlands please?

[Terpe]

Hey Andrew, be honest, did you do a search here?
I think no.

Take a look here:-
http://www.adoborice.com/filipino-events.aspx

113th Filipino Independence Day
18 June 2011.

10:00am - 18:00pm

Tingewick Hall, John Radcliffe Hospital, Headley Way, Headington, Oxford, OX3 9DU

Fiesta sa Birmingham-Midlands 2011
18-19 June 2011.

18 June at 09:00am - 19 June at 18:00pm.

Woodgate Valley Country Park. Clapgate Lane, Bartley Green, Birmingham.

Filipino Festival: Milton Keynes Barrio Fiesta
25-26 June 2011.

Free entrance.

Campbell Park, Avebury Boulevard, MK City Centre, Milton Keynes MK9 4AN. Event is from 10AM - 7PM on both days.

Not to forget the really BIG one
27th Barrio Fiesta sa London 2011 (Hounslow)
16-17 July 2011.

10:00am to 19:00pm Saturday and Sunday Free admission

Lampton Park, Hounslow, West London, TW3 4DN

The Barrio Fiesta sa London 2011 is now on its 27th year and is primarily a family-oriented event. The event consists of groups of Filipinos getting together to socialise, eat, shop and enjoy the atmosphere of a traditional Filipino Fiesta.

For more information, visit the Barrio Fiesta sa London 2011 website at www.barriofiesta2011.com

C'mon m8, if you're that sincere do some research

[Andrew1]

I did mate, I just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing out on anything. I know from using other forums that searches can be a bit hit and miss.

[Terpe]

I did mate, I just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing out on anything. I know from using other forums that searches can be a bit hit and miss.

Yeah, I know what you mean. Not always so easy.
Hopefully you now got some clues.
Good luck:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Andrew1]

Yeah, I know what you mean. Not always so easy.
Hopefully you now got some clues.
Good luck:xxgrinning--00xx3:

Yeah cheers. The Brum one would be best but I'm busy next weekend. Might go to MK, we'll see........:)

[Terpe]

Yeah cheers. The Brum one would be best but I'm busy next weekend. Might go to MK, we'll see........:)


If you've never been to Hounslow fiesta, it's well worth the vist.
If recent years are to be repeated, you can expect 20,000 attendees.

A really excellent day out

[Andrew1]

If you've never been to Hounslow fiesta, it's well worth the vist.
If recent years are to be repeated, you can expect 20,000 attendees.

A really excellent day out

Ok I'll have a think about it mate :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[bornatbirth]

Cus I like Asian girls and I'm sick of having pigeon English conversations with Thai, Laos girls etc.

Its a lot easier to have a proper relationship with someone that can speak good English.........

not all filipinos speak good english it all depends on their education, even tho you could say that they dont even speak english....more like american english :D

have a good think about the partner you want to look for....goodluck :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[grahamw48]

Could be worse....Geordie, Glaswegian ? :D

[Andrew1]

not all filipinos speak good english it all depends on their education, even tho you could say that they dont even speak english....more like american english :D

have a good think about the partner you want to look for....goodluck :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Yeah I'm fully aware, reasonable English would be a basic requirement :D

Went out with a Thai bird this weekend that had reasonable English, she could be a half decent prospect ;)

[scott&ligaya]

being referred to as a "bird" and "prospect" are words some Filipnas here might read as disrespectful or a bit of a lad!!!! hehhehe, good luck with your search, pity you cannot make Sat/Sun in Brum, their battle of the bands have some great bands/singers.

[nutter36]

Well ive travelled around asia for years and though I know this is going to annoy lots,, ive found those outside uk are interested in me,, thoughs already here are not. If you go out, you very rarely see them mix with anyone from outside their nationality. Those I do see with english husbands, met them outside the uk. I used to go to resturants and clubs around london, that were filipino and thai, and even though i was there regular i was treated as an outsider and a pervert . I have tried numurous dating sites and get a 99% reply rate from those outside uk and zero response from those in uk.
I have now given up trying to find a lady from asia.
Now this is my point of view from my experience.

[Steve.r]

Well ive travelled around asia for years and though I know this is going to annoy lots,, ive found those outside uk are interested in me,, thoughs already here are not. If you go out, you very rarely see them mix with anyone from outside their nationality. Those I do see with english husbands, met them outside the uk. I used to go to resturants and clubs around london, that were filipino and thai, and even though i was there regular i was treated as an outsider and a pervert . I have tried numurous dating sites and get a 99% reply rate from those outside uk and zero response from those in uk.
I have now given up trying to find a lady from asia.
Now this is my point of view from my experience.

So the lesson of the day is ..... go to the source, easy!! :doh:doh :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Terpe]

Well ive travelled around asia for years and though I know this is going to annoy lots,, ive found those outside uk are interested in me,, thoughs already here are not. If you go out, you very rarely see them mix with anyone from outside their nationality. Those I do see with english husbands, met them outside the uk. I used to go to resturants and clubs around london, that were filipino and thai, and even though i was there regular i was treated as an outsider and a pervert . I have tried numurous dating sites and get a 99% reply rate from those outside uk and zero response from those in uk.
I have now given up trying to find a lady from asia.
Now this is my point of view from my experience.

Interesting point of view nutter36, seems to be a little bit logical, but not actual from my experience.
I would agree that most of the married couples you meet with brit husbands met outside UK. But from my experience most of those not already married are very open minded about "husband material".
I do think you have made a valid observation though.

[Englishman2010]

So the lesson of the day is ..... go to the source, easy!! :doh:doh :xxgrinning--00xx3:

I completely agree with Steve:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

I've met many of Elaine's female friends from the Makati call centres and they all speak perfect English, as well as being very westernised in their ideas. Most of them are gorgeous and would love a western man:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[grahamw48]

I've got NO chance here then. :cwm3:

I am willing to sacrifice a few weeks in England's fair and sunny land to have a look in the Phils though. :D

Sometimes the trouble with people who've travelled Asia a lot is that they're expecting the expat Filipinas and Thai girls here to act like bar girls, or they at least start recounting their travel 'experience' in a way that would be most insulting and presumptuous to Asian girls here.

Try that sort of approach on my step-daughter (22 and lived here since the age of 7), and you'd likely get a kick in the nads. :)

[Steve.r]

I've got NO chance here then. :cwm3:


Sometimes the trouble with people who've travelled Asia a lot is that they're expecting the expat Filipinas and Thai girls here to act like bar girls, or they at least start recounting their travel 'experience' in a way that would be most insulting and presumptuous to Asian girls here.


Yes, big mistake. The old steriotypical attitudes towards Asian ladies will never get you far. It is quite sad to think that these tales might affect how some see our chosen wives or girlfriends. As you say Graham... quite insulting :cwm23:

Maybe nutter's obsevation reflects the fact that lots of Filipino women here have had to work very hard to be here and they are quite happy to be single in case it jeopardises their jobs. Not all are just here to find love.

[grahamw48]

Very true, and a lot have children back home too, as well as other family members they are supporting.

Let's not forget that they also tend to have higher moral standards than a lot of the women who you see staggering around the streets on a Saturday night over here. :rolleyes:

[Steve.r]

Very true, and a lot have children back home too, as well as other family members they are supporting.

Let's not forget that they also tend to have higher moral standards than a lot of the women who you see staggering around the streets on a Saturday night over here. :rolleyes: :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Pete/London]

Well ive travelled around asia for years and though I know this is going to annoy lots,, ive found those outside uk are interested in me,, thoughs already here are not. If you go out, you very rarely see them mix with anyone from outside their nationality. Those I do see with english husbands, met them outside the uk. I used to go to resturants and clubs around london, that were filipino and thai, and even though i was there regular i was treated as an outsider and a pervert . I have tried numurous dating sites and get a 99% reply rate from those outside uk and zero response from those in uk.
I have now given up trying to find a lady from asia.
Now this is my point of view from my experience.

I met my wife here in London while she was studying English at a college in Warren St. I had been separated for a couple of years and was not looking for a serious relationship, had no intention of meeting a foreigner and didn`t even know where the PI was. In fact I lost friends over our relationship.
Two of our closest friends also met their Filipino wives here, the only difference being that UK resident Filipinos take more time with the relationship before marrying and have a bigger choice. We didn`t marry for 3 years.

[Andrew1]

Well ive travelled around asia for years and though I know this is going to annoy lots,, ive found those outside uk are interested in me,, thoughs already here are not. If you go out, you very rarely see them mix with anyone from outside their nationality. Those I do see with english husbands, met them outside the uk. I used to go to resturants and clubs around london, that were filipino and thai, and even though i was there regular i was treated as an outsider and a pervert . I have tried numurous dating sites and get a 99% reply rate from those outside uk and zero response from those in uk.
I have now given up trying to find a lady from asia.
Now this is my point of view from my experience.

That is true in part.

The reality of the situation is that if you go to their home countries you can get fairly hot girls even if your old/fat/ugly, because they need us either financially or for a visa or whatever their motivation is. Once they are in the UK its a level playing field and the girls can get a a guy with equivalent looks and don't need the old/fat/ugly dude as she has no financial need.

That basically means that the dudes that are used to getting the hot girls in Asia are disappointed as in England or wherever they can probably only get an Asian girl that has equivalent looks to a white girl they would get, which partly defeats the whole object in the first place.

Also, the guys that do bring the younger hotter chicks over to the UK from abroad run the risk of being upgraded for a younger hotter model if there is a significant age/looks difference, as the girls know damn well what their real worth is on the looks front, for sure they will be getting a load of attention from the younger guys if they are half decent.

Pretty harsh but true I'm afraid. That said I do know a few guys it seems to be working out for where there is a significant age/looks difference, but it normally goes tits up eventually.

[Tawi2]

I walked past the european headquarters of Iglesia Ni Cristo last week,I took the shortcut through their back carpark and there must have been 20-25 pinays in the kitchen and at the rear door with plates in hand,I walked past and said "Gutom na ako,pahingi ng tira" which made one laugh and shocked some others :icon_lol: it initiated a conversation,pinays love nothing more than to chat :icon_lol: Its easy enough to meet a pinay in the UK.


That basically means that the dudes that are used to getting the hot girls in Asia are disappointed as in England or wherever they can probably only get an Asian girl that has equivalent looks to a white girl they would get
Totally true,everyone punches above their weight in asia,I used to go out with an incredible half japanese half pinay lady,she had to be a 10,real head turner,she dumped me for an american twice as old as me but twice as rich :icon_lol:
Any western guy past his sell by date,jaded,fighting a losing battle with male pattern baldness and middle-aged spread,face like a crumpled unironed bedsheet and weighed down with more personal baggage than a Cathay Pacific flight(self-descriptive) can go to pinas and hook a 20 year old stunner,hell,MORE than one 20 year old girl if thats his wish,within a few days,poverty does strange things to people,thats a fact.
I told a tale before of a girl I know,she is 30+ her boyfriend is 70+years old and american,I asked her would she go out with a 70+ pinoy,she looked at me as if I was crazy and said "Thats different" ;)