Nice guy looking for friendship in the UK

[neilxc]

Hi everyone,

My name is Neil - I'm a 36 year old guy living around London and would like to meet a nice girl to become friends with initially and see where it goes.

I've got to this stage of my life without any "baggage" (no ex-wife, no kids etc), as I have been pretty career focused in the past which typically would be a problem for any relationship I was in. I am no longer so work driven (no need now have got where I want to be) but I'm really missing someone to share it with.

I would love to hear from anyone who is located in the UK (preferably London) so that we could actually go for a coffee/drink/meal and talk.

So why a filipino girl? Some years ago I had an ex who was from the philipinnes and living in the London area - she was the most beautiful person (inside and out) I have met in my life so far, but sadly I met her at the wrong time.

Anyway - I am fun to be with and can still hold my own on a football pitch. I am no Gordon Ramsey in the kitchen but I do know a few good restaurants which more than makes up for that character flaw ;-) I would love to hear from you if you are relatively local, or maybe you know someone who is looking for someone like me...

Thanks for reading :)

Neil

[grahamw48]

Welcome to the forum Neil, and good luck with your search. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

If you ever have the chance, I'd also recommend you visit the Phils because it's an amazing place. :)

You'll also then have a better understanding of the 'average' Filipina's cultural background.

I didn't go there until I was 38 (also single), and it was just like being a teenager again....so much fun. :icon_lol:

[Steve.r]

Welcome Neil,

Yes, get yourself over there, you will have a great time and make lots of friends and also understand a little of what makes our partner's tick.

[neilxc]

... however that's easier said than done! I will not be able to get 2 solid weeks off until at least the new year and I'm moving house as well so the chances of getting there are somewhat limited. I do agree on meeting someone in person though so I'll put myself out there just on the off chance :-) I am also not a great "solo traveller" and am wary of going anywhere that far on my own.

[Steve.r]

You live in London.... and you are afraid of a different culture :icon_lol:

[grahamw48]

Jeez....I feel a lot safer in the Phils than in London ! :cwm24:

Plus there is the advantage of sunshine, palm trees, coral sand beaches and millions of gorgeous ladies. :D

[Moy]

hmmm ive got a twin neilxc if your interested:rolleyes: btw good luck and happy hunting:):Wave:

[grahamw48]

I am.

Male or female ?

Older or younger ? :Cuckoo:

[Moy]

:icon_sorry::D

[Arthur Little]

Hi, Neil ... :welcomex: to our friendly filipino/uk site. Like my friends here, I'd certainly have recommended visiting these beautiful islands. But ... since you're pretty well tied-up with work commitments for the time being :anerikke: ... I reckon you'll just have to take things as they come, and I wish you good luck in your quest. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Farmerg]

:Hellooo::Wave:

[sweetnote143]

goodluck to your search, neil....i hope you'll find her....welcome to the forum :Hellooo: same thing I'll say to all the members and people who are genuinely seeking love, goes for me tooc:icon_lol: someday, somewhere, right time, right moment

[scott&ligaya]

welcome Neil, the issue you may have is that most of the single Filipinas here are student nurses and are late teens/early twenties. the older ladies are either married here, or back home and are supporting families back home. You may meet a Filipina born here but will almost be more Western in her atttitudes than you may want.

Not impossible but diffcult to find here and as you are single , no baggage and successful why compromise..

get out to the Phils next year when you can... you may find someone here to hep carry your bags LOL.

good luck

[worthingmale]

hi neil

good luck in your search, I wish you well

manila paul in the courting section posted a coule of photos of a lady from phils, not sure how old she is

[worthingmale]

ah just read she is 21 and the man must be 35 or younger

[Terpe]

Hi Neil, welcome to the forum. :xxgrinning--00xx3: