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nnomad
23rd January 2012, 12:48
hi everyone,,,,, i am new on here,,,,
primarilly i am here to gain some information, which i may be better seeking on an other part of this site ,
if i can briefly out line the situation and if anybody can give any usefull information i would much appreciate it,,,,
i " met " a girl ( Filipino obv . ) through the internet now over six months ago and have been communicating regularly via txt and also some skype and web cam sites,, she is a nurse and has been working abroad and is now completed her contract and is heading home this week,, we have decided that we should meet and are considering the alternative ways of doing this,,,,,,,, obv the easiest way is for me to jump on a plane and go to manila, bur firstly i am not able to get two or three weeks absence from work and secondly , i am a bit concerned about my security once there ( sorry if any offence , none meant ),,,,,,, the other possibility is that she come here,, as we all know this is not easy,, with a few possibilities there also, a general visitor or a sponsored visitor,, with a general visitor i believe details of hotels ,etc have to be provided,,,,,,,,,with a sponsored visitor, i can provide documents like bank statement and tenants agreement,,as we have never met we have no photographs or the like,, also " purpose of visit " question will be asked,, will an internet relationship be ok or frowned upon,,,,,,,, i believe an interview with the manila embassy can cost 500 pounds with no guarantee of success,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
any help anyone,,,,,,,,R
imagine
23rd January 2012, 13:00
welcome to this friendly forum nnomad :Wave:
aberdeen :) your a neighbour :xxgrinning--00xx3:
you found the right place for help and good honest information,
probably your better to go visit her, visitors visa for her to come here is hard to get,
others will be along who know more than myself,who can help with your questions :xxgrinning--00xx3:
nnomad
23rd January 2012, 13:08
thanks mate,,, waiting more replies.....
lastlid
23rd January 2012, 14:40
Aberdeen. I spent about 6 years up there until about a year ago. Also spent many a year passing through on the way to the heliports etc.
Hi.:xxgrinning--00xx3:
I was in a similar position earlier last year and I went out to the Philippines to meet her. She is from Cavite which is safe / secure enough.
My first trip out there was for just 10 days. Not a full 2 weeks. We later wed in Phils and she is here in Britain as we speak.
I visited her before I actually discovered this forum but many folk on here recommend visiting her rather than the other way round, as no visa is required for you or I to go out there if the trip is for less than 21 days.
Evidently visitors visas aren't easy to get, to the UK.
nnomad
23rd January 2012, 14:51
thanks for the message mate,,,,,,, yes going out there is easy enough but really trying to get her here somehow , and she quite fancies a trip here as her sister is also here,, R
lastlid
23rd January 2012, 15:07
On the question of security. When I was there I was either at a resort or in a hotel or with my wifes family. Pontential concerns were road safety and money. My wife always ensured that I didnt flash money around and I always had someone else with me when I was at an ATM. We visited a place called Baclaran at one point and my wife told me to make sure I kept a tabs on my wallet but I did the same if I ever visited the Barrowlands in Glasgow or the like. :icon_lol: On the roads thing we hired a driver with minibus (what my wife calls a van) so we didnt have to worry on that score. Other than that I was safe enough.
I never had a problem with security in any of the hotels I stayed at either in Manila or otherwise.
Loidaseminiano
23rd January 2012, 15:52
nnomad welcome to the forum very intersting to read your post here. My fiance and i also meet in the internet in short the relationship build thought the online like skype, ym,facebook,phone call text and e mails.After about 8 months he came visit me in Singapore where i work after we meet i decided to go back to Philippines to apply fiancee visa as we meet all the documents they are asking after exactly one month they issue me a visa and now am in the uk living with my fiance. If u decided to bring your girlfriend here why dont u make a move go meet her in Phil bcoz meeting is important to satisfy the ECO that you and girlfriend are in genuine relationship as lastlid say its not easy to get visit visa i agree with him.. Have a great day to you xxxx
nnomad
23rd January 2012, 15:52
ha ha , i am well familiar with the "barras ". but at least there i can blend in,,,,,,,, security is really secondary at the moment, getting leave from work is the real problem,, i really need feed back on the visa issue, i have heard that to have actually met is a prerequisit to obtaining one,, or is that just for fiance visa,,,, ta R
lastlid
23rd January 2012, 16:38
......... i have heard that to have actually met is a prerequisit to obtaining one,, or is that just for fiance visa,,,, ta R
Not only that you have met but you also have to effectively prove that you have met.
I visited my wife for 10 days in the first instance in April last year. Then married her in Phils in June. Applied for her visa in September and she arrived here in October.
I believe that for both the Fiancee visa and Spouse visa the applicant, your gf or wife, has to submit documentary proof of having met in person.
grahamw48
23rd January 2012, 18:08
Hi and welcome to the forum.
I'm in much the same situation as yourself, although I have been to the Phils many times already.
Get yourself on a plane. It's the only realistic way to go about it.
I'll be going there to meet my girlfriend for the first time mid-February.
Just get as much time off as you can.
I feel safer in the Philippines than I do on an average Saturday night out in most large towns in this country.
It's not an issue that should put you off and there'll be plenty of advice here on the forum for your trip once you've decided to go.
imagine
24th January 2012, 00:16
save all your emails, skype,msn,, yahoo ,messages, plane tickets reciepts and anything of proof like photos when you are there with her, hotel bills ect, you will need them for the engagement,, marrage visa :xxgrinning--00xx3:
ConfusedMe
24th January 2012, 00:20
It's better to fly to Philippines and meet up with your girl, it's easier that way.... And by the way, welcome to the forum :Wave:
sweetnote143
24th January 2012, 03:00
I agree with Donnah....the best to get to know her if you'll fly down here, go around the country, enjoy sceneries, and meet new friends....at least coming here is that you'll learn the culture, the people, and you'll get to know your gf more better....but whatever you will decide, goodluck and also let me welcome you to the forum :Wave:
nnomad
24th January 2012, 14:56
hi every one,, and thank you for your encouragment,,,,,,,,,,,,, i can see that the general opinion is for me to go to Phillips, but that at the moment is not really possible hence why i am seeking advice on getting my friend over here, which would suit both of us much better,,, she has invited me over there and i suspect that eventually i will be going. thank you R ( and M )
stevie c
24th January 2012, 15:16
Hi nnomad to be totally honest the chances of getting your gf a visit visa is virtually imo
The reasons being
(1) not having met
(2) difficulty in proving the relationship is genuine
(3) proving your gf wiil return to the phils when the visa is due to expire
(4) proving your gf has ties & commitments in the phils ie owning property, employment, family ie children
So my advice to you if you are serious about the relationship is a trip to the phils as myself & many of the other members have all experianced.
Hope this helps with your situation.
nnomad
24th January 2012, 15:49
hi Steve, thanks for that mate,,, but if i may,, there is no mention or suggestion on the visitors visa of any " relationship ",,, and she has a job in Philli, she " is " just a visitor,,,, i am trying to circumvent any rejections because i believe every consular ( or what/who ever ) interview /apointment costs near on 450 pounds !!!
Terpe
24th January 2012, 16:11
hi everyone,,,,, i am new on here,,,,
primarilly i am here to gain some information, which i may be better seeking on an other part of this site ,
if i can briefly out line the situation and if anybody can give any usefull information i would much appreciate it,,,,
i " met " a girl ( Filipino obv . ) through the internet now over six months ago and have been communicating regularly via txt and also some skype and web cam sites,, she is a nurse and has been working abroad and is now completed her contract and is heading home this week,, we have decided that we should meet and are considering the alternative ways of doing this,,,,,,,, obv the easiest way is for me to jump on a plane and go to manila, bur firstly i am not able to get two or three weeks absence from work and secondly , i am a bit concerned about my security once there ( sorry if any offence , none meant ),,,,,,, the other possibility is that she come here,, as we all know this is not easy,, with a few possibilities there also, a general visitor or a sponsored visitor,, with a general visitor i believe details of hotels ,etc have to be provided,,,,,,,,,with a sponsored visitor, i can provide documents like bank statement and tenants agreement,,as we have never met we have no photographs or the like,, also " purpose of visit " question will be asked,, will an internet relationship be ok or frowned upon,,,,,,,, i believe an interview with the manila embassy can cost 500 pounds with no guarantee of success,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
any help anyone,,,,,,,,R
Hi there nnomad,
Just to focus on your post and questions raised.
The visit visa is a very low cost option. There is no requirement for any interview. Even applications for settlement do not involve interviews
I have no idea where the £500 cost came from but that also is just not the case.
The visit visa is currently only about £76
As a very first step, why not take a look at the UKBA website for visit visa. It will provide you and your friend with up to date and accurate information on what they (UKBA) require as support for a visit visa.
Take a look Look here and follow the links (http://www.ukba.homeoffice.gov.uk/visas-immigration/visiting) then you can ask specific question on the issues you to clarification or help with.
As mentioned, the Visit Visa a low cost so hence low risk. It's always worth the application effort.
The key issues for your friend will be:-
- Convincing the ECO (Entry Clearance Officer) that she has no intention of being a migrant or overstaying her visa expiry. This means showing 'sufficient' evidence that her ties to home (Philippines), outweighs any benefits in not returning from UK.
Just think of all the common sense areas such as employment, family, property etc.
- Convincing the ECO that she has sufficient funding to cover the stated duration and purpose of the visit.
You mentioned that she has already a sister here in UK? This could be the basis for a Family visit visa which often has higher success rate.
Take some time to review the UKBA website and follow the links.
Whichever route she wishes to take there are plenty of forum members who will help to get the best chance for any visit application.
nnomad
24th January 2012, 16:37
" Terpe ",, thank you very very much, this is the kind of help i am looking for ( no disrespect to everyone else ) i have been onto the UKBA website but i found it quite vague,, eg. it says for a sponsored visa all that is required is a copy of sponsors bank account,,,,i cant believe that is all !!! i will go back on and try what you suggest... the 500 is what her sister said tho i suspct she may be confusing with something else,,, i have no doubt about their honesty !!! a visitors visa, i believe , is in some ways more complicated as in that some sort of itinery , hotel bookings , places of visit etc, can be required whereas for sponsored i only have to show bank statment, tho i have also been told i need to show tennants agreement and utility bills,,,,,,,,,,, what you think,, R (M )
nnomad
27th January 2012, 11:43
" terpe ",, ( or anyone else ),,, will a photo copy of,, letter of invitation, passport, bank statment and tennancy agreement be sufficient or will originalls be required,, or is email acceptable,, ta R ( and M )
lastlid
27th January 2012, 11:50
The UKBA do ask for originals. But some folk on the forum have successfully submitted good photocopies. Personally I would submit originals, except for your passport, so that you don't give the UKBA an excuse to refuse the visa, minimising the risk of refusal, especially at £800 a pop.
Arthur Little
27th January 2012, 13:47
hi everyone,,,,, i am new on here ,,,,
... :meet-1:
tone
27th January 2012, 14:12
" terpe ",, ( or anyone else ),,, will a photo copy of,, letter of invitation, passport, bank statment and tennancy agreement be sufficient or will originalls be required,, or is email acceptable,, ta R ( and M )
I have succesully used emailed scans for everything, I guess at the end of the day we got an ECO who could see we had a good relationship too we ticked the box "have you lived together" which we had done whilst I was working in Kuala Lumpur.
Obviously for a visit visa they key is showing she has full intention to return after the trip to you - as all have said I think you should certainly look at a visit - I liked Manila found it an ok place to go to - good nightlife - always stayed in the Resorts World Marriot which is a great hotel with a few bars/clubs on its doorsteps - the malls (greenbelt) is great, you just have to keep an eye on your posessions..
Maybe if you go out there you could take a trip to a resort I found a very nice looking place a bus ride away on the south of the island Manila is based on - what you need to think about is doing some things out of the ordinary. Travel and see the sights a little and get to know the girl outside of her normal environment so that you can really get to know her.
If after this trip you decide to apply for a visa for her to come here you got to know deep in your heart she is the one because its a lot of effort and cost to bring her to the UK. I am hopefully not telling you what you already know or feel, just friendly advice.
Tone
Arthur Little
27th January 2012, 16:38
'R' ... as you've "signed" your introductory post ... ideally, :rolleyes: we'd ALL like to have our Filipina girlfriends *visit us here in the first instance - principally to provide them with an opportunity of sampling a vastly different culture to that which they'd previously been accustomed to in the Phils - so as to determine their feelings about living in the UK permanently, should a relationship show promise of developing from the virtual stage into something more lasting.
Indeed, a few years ago, I, myself, was one of those initially looking into just such a possibility ... leading me to join this forum - which very soon taught me the best way forward - for which I'm eternally grateful.
Reading your various posts, I see you're already aware of the obstacles involved ... and WHY, sadly, :bigcry: *it's easier said than done.
Having worked abroad as a nurse - then returning to the Philippines - does place your g/f in a better position than most. It clearly demonstrates evidence of SOME immigration history. Moreover, you mention [#5] 'M' (as you later refer to her ... reminding me of James Bond's boss! :)) has a sister in this country ... so a 'Family Visit Visa' might be an option worth considering - making sure you "play down" the romantic angle between the two of you - since the latter is likely to "carry more weight".
There's little else, I can add to the advice you've already had from the other respondents :NoNo: ... except to wish you good luck with whatever you decide in the end. :xxgrinning--00xx3:
nnomad
27th January 2012, 21:38
The UKBA do ask for originals. But some folk on the forum have successfully submitted good photocopies. Personally I would submit originals, except for your passport, so that you don't give the UKBA an excuse to refuse the visa, minimising the risk of refusal, especially at £800 a pop.
what is the "800 qd a pop " !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
stevie c
27th January 2012, 21:41
what is the "800 qd a pop " !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
the fee ukba charge for spouse or fiance visa aplication :xxgrinning--00xx3:
Arthur Little
27th January 2012, 23:13
i believe an interview with the manila embassy can cost 500 pounds with no guarantee of success,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
R
:nono-1-1: ... nonsense! Where did that erroneous piece of information come from? Sure, 550 quid WAS the cost of Settlement Visas [normally, fiance(e) Spouse or other dependant] as recently as 2009 - when MY wife applied - although, as pointed out, it has since increased to £850 "a *pop" (*to use the expression quoted). And, only RARELY, nowadays, are applicants required to be interviewed.
But you're not at that stage :yeahthat: yet! Short-term visit visas (usually valid for 6 months) amount to a mere fraction of that cost [approximately one tenth] so - with a lot less to lose, financially - it's sometimes worth taking a gamble :REGamblMoney01HL1: if you've a reasonably strong case ... as you seem to have if you follow the guidance given to you by others.
nnomad
28th January 2012, 11:04
phew !!!! i have already been advised that a visitor visa is around 80 qd so the 800 was a bit of a shock !!! thanks again everybody,,,, but , me going to philli at present is not really a viable option,, ( i am not prepared to loose my job when there may be an alternative !! )
Iani
28th January 2012, 11:21
I totally hear what you're saying.
Now I am not the expert on this (a search will show I've asked for guidance on visitor visas too), however -
If she has a job over in phils.
You say she's a nurse, has she a qualification in this? (I'm thinking, isn't that one of jobs in demand in the UK anyway? I don't know, but I have an Indian friend who came over here to work as a nurse. It's just - it might be rather useful if you "click" and marry and she wants to find work)
Does she own property in Phils?
Has she got a decent amount of savings? (I'd have guessed yes if she's been working away, as I'm often told when you work as an expat, you tend to save as you're working in places it's not worth spending money in)
If she can tick all those boxes above, well people go on vacations. Loads of people will be wanting to come over here for the Olympics for example. It MIGHT be an idea for her to apply for the family visit thing as already mentioned. Just don't mention you in her application
nnomad
28th January 2012, 12:14
thanks bud,, does not own prop in phils, stays in family home when there,,,,,,,,,not sure about savings ( never asked !! ) but nurses in saudi are not that well paid ) i had thot about finding her nursing post in UK , but dont even know where to start, ( maybe google !! ) family,,, sis stays london area but size of house and income will not support application, ( i dont think they accept sleeping on a couch as satisfactory ,, even your sisters !!!,, ) as you say , " people go on vocation " so why not her ?? ta R
Blesslady
29th January 2012, 06:05
Hello!nnomad,
Welcome to the friendly forum:) as I was reading your post I get Interested to know what hospital does your girl or girlfriend works in Saudi?:) and if she plan to work in the U.K as nurse I think she need to register in NMC and alslo need to take IELTS and get score of 7. as one of the requirements.for more info.try to google NMC hehe!..Gudluck!!
nnomad
29th January 2012, 10:41
Hi ,, , sorry i have no idea the name of the hospital (s), do you have some experience of that your self , tho i am sure i could ask..,, she has also worked in Cyprus and other places,,, and thank you for the information, i will be googling it , as another possible angle,, R
nnomad
30th January 2012, 11:49
hello again everyone,,,,,,,,,,,,, can someone plz tell me what i do with the documents which i now have ready, do i send them to the person directly, or to the UK enbassy in Manila or somewhere in UK ,etc,,, thnks R
Terpe
30th January 2012, 13:30
hello again everyone,,,,,,,,,,,,, can someone plz tell me what i do with the documents which i now have ready, do i send them to the person directly, or to the UK enbassy in Manila or somewhere in UK ,etc,,, thnks R
If you mean documents supporting the visit visa application of your g/f, then these must be sent directly to your g/f. She will be the one to present all her supporting docsuments when she submits her 'bundle' to VFS following her online application.
Hope this helps
Terpe
30th January 2012, 13:33
I strongly suggest you send the documents by courier
Try here:-
www.interparcel.com
Avoid sending originals.
Ann1984
30th January 2012, 13:57
" terpe ",, ( or anyone else ),,, will a photo copy of,, letter of invitation, passport, bank statment and tennancy agreement be sufficient or will originalls be required,, or is email acceptable,, ta R ( and M )
Hello nnomad:).. visa granted in 7 days,,,,,with no interview. my bf visited me here and stay for 21 days. then when he return in uk we apply immediately. i apply december 20,2011 and i received my visa on january 9, 2012.
Here's, how we work our application:
1. General visa fees - P 5,472.00 - i paid this amount cash to the bank and get a receipt from UNION
bank. you kept the receipt, coz you attached this on the application
form.
2. VAF1A ( General visit visa form ) - answer these online.
3. INFORMATION about Applicant and Finances
A. Passport of Applicant - it should be a valid passport.
B. General visit visa checklist
C. Cenomar - Certification no marriage
D. Western Union Receipts
4. Supporting Documents of Sponsor
A. Invitation letter
B. Brief resume of relationship
C. Birth Certificate
D. Details of passport - copies only.
E. Employment Status
F. Inland revenue and tax return for 12 months
G. Company accounts
H. Bank statement and investment
5. Accommodation and travel details
a. Accommodation letter
b. itinerary for visit
c. Official guide for dartmouth and surrounding area
d. coast and countryside events 2011-2012
e. hotel vouchers with receipts
f. booking confirmations (emails)
G. photographs of meetings
6. Communication
a. emails/ecard greetings for birthdays
b. name of internet connections
c. receipts and bills
d. yahoo messenger and skype conversation's
7. Photograph to attache your application form. be careful the sizes.( 45mm By 35mm) look on the site www.ukba.com.. about the photos guidance.
I hope this will help your problem.. and goodluck:)
Anna
nnomad
30th January 2012, 14:25
thank you anna,,, general visa fee P 5472 ? !!!!
nnomad
30th January 2012, 14:26
thank you Terpe
lastlid
30th January 2012, 14:29
thank you anna,,, general visa fee P 5472 ? !!!!
Pesos....:)
Ann1984
30th January 2012, 14:32
thank you anna,,, general visa fee P 5472 ? !!!!
yes in pesos P 5,472.00 pesos only.... when you finish processing on your supporting documents send it to your gf, thru courier, then your gf submit it to vfs centre.. this is what we did on my application.
I suggest she go to VIP only 1,800 pesos. rather than booking appointment.
Ann1984
30th January 2012, 14:32
Pesos....:)
Hehehe.. yes lastid, its a pesos.
Eia
30th January 2012, 14:57
Hello nnomad. Better to go to the Philippines and meet her. It's not so unsafe, if you keep away from dodgy places. If your gf is from Manila, she should be able to tell you where those places are and which hotels to stay at in Manila, Makati, or Quezon City. You can get a standard room usually for 50GBP a night in a business hotel like City Garden. It's just like paying for a night at Travelers Lodge here in England. Unfortunately, there is not much to do in Manila unless you want to go shopping, night clubbing, and eat out. Traffic is HORRIBLE so you will not get to do much if you're planning to go around. Best to choose one place like Makati, and stay there! If you're visiting for a week, you can make it worthwhile by getting yourselves out of Manila and going to Tagaytay (1.5 hour road trip) or to a beach in Batanggas (3 hrs). If she has a car, then no worries. If not, "premiere" airconditioned buses are available. And that should be fairly safe, with loos, wi-fi, and all. If you want to "spend" and have a romantic getaway and enjoy one of the best beaches in Asia, fly yourselves from Manila to Boracay island for 3-4 days. Checkout Cebu Pacific for flights. It will still be cheaper than spending a week in Tenerife, flying from England. Just make sure to ask about taxi fares and all that coz some taxi drivers tend to overcharge foreigners, as they do everywhere else in the world. That way, you get to meet your girl, enjoy the warm weather, and possibly have a romantic getaway. And if it doesn't work out for you, then at least you had a holiday. :yikes: Best of luck.
nnomad
30th January 2012, 16:45
ok, done the sums,, 93 UK pds,,, what is this VIP
lastlid
30th January 2012, 16:57
VIP is 1800 pesos. Gives you more freedom on an appointment time and can be a lot quicker at the point of submission at VFS. A free drink is thrown in etc etc. Some think it is a waste of money and others feel it is beneficial.....it doesnt buy you faster processing or a gauranteed visa.
Are you offshore just now or on fieldbreak? Are you on the Ocean Gonad, by chance?
nnomad
30th January 2012, 18:10
what do VIP and VFS stand for and what are they,, ( i didnt mean how much ! )
no dont work off shore just now,, land based..
Stephen550
30th January 2012, 19:12
Hi Nnomad, the general visa is not too complicated all you have to do is supply plenty of information, as far as the itinery is concerned all you need to do is visit your local tourist information centre and obtain a copy of their guide to the area, submit this with a letter to say these are some of the places you will be visiting, you do not need to detail hotel bookings etc, however you do need to build a complete picture of your relationship, and supply all the relevent information, my g/f has just been granted a six month general visa, it is possible,,,,, best of luck.
nnomad
30th January 2012, 19:25
is it posssible to PM people on here
Arthur Little
30th January 2012, 19:47
what do VIP and VFS stand for and what are they,, ( i didnt mean how much ! )
no dont work off shore just now,, land based..
OK ... then I'll be "down to earth" in my reply:
I'm surprised you're asking about the initials VIP; :rolleyes: ... they're normally self~explanatory ... in the sense that they are the customary abbreviation used to denote a 'Very Important Person'. However, when applied in the current context, they mean that, if you are prepared to part with a wee bit extra cash, it entitles you to the sort of "little extras" that Lastlid describes ... see #43 above.
As for the initials VFS ... these are short for 'Visa Facilitation Service'. Or :anerikke: - putting ANOTHER slant on some of your questions - "Very Funny Stuff"!
Arthur Little
30th January 2012, 20:23
is it posssible to PM people on here
:icon_sorry: ... I'm afraid you need to earn what is known as 'Respected Status' before being allowed to post messages privately.
However, ordinary members may - if they so wish - send a *message to a fellow member of their choosing (unless that person happens to be a 'Newbie') by *typing it into the box provided on their respective profile. :xxgrinning--00xx3:
nnomad
30th January 2012, 20:50
so you mean that for an extra 30 qd a cup of tea and some flexability on apointment times are available,, well thank you,,, i am on here to gain as much information as possible and if it means putting up with some smartypants then so be it,, thanks again... R ( M )
tone
30th January 2012, 21:04
What do you mean "putting up with some smartypants"?
Thats not very nice is it!
Think you should look at your questions and consider an element of simple common sense mate.
Tone
nnomad
30th January 2012, 21:14
maybe not,, but obviously i , or any body else, would know what VIP means in normal circumstances, but i thought that in this instance it may have meant something different,, and i have to enquire, a simple clarification is all that is needed, not some smartypans attitude,, still, i thanked him for his help, however bombastic,,,
Terpe
30th January 2012, 22:23
maybe not,, but obviously i , or any body else, would know what VIP means in normal circumstances, but i thought that in this instance it may have meant something different,, and i have to enquire, a simple clarification is all that is needed, not some smartypans attitude,, still, i thanked him for his help, however bombastic,,,
C'mon nnomad,
If you feel you may want to continue to seek help from all the members here, then someone is gonna have to bite their lip. Whoever is right or wrong, or whoever started the 'thing' first makes no difference someone is gonna have to bite their lip. Maybe it's a better strategy if you could be the one coz I don't think I can convince everyone else at the moment.
What do you say? eh?
Call it quits and continue or risk that no-one will bother to reply anymore.
It's true there are plenty of forums out there in cyberspace, but this one has some very knowledgeable members, it also has a very large active membership (which is always a good thing for a variety of good experience)
Try to grow a slightly thicker skin for your cyberspace activity, and dont let your pride think everyone wants to attack you personally just because you erxpressing viewpoint was openly debated.
Anyway at least think about it and decide your best strategy, you can't continue to grow here and help yourself and your g/f if you alienate everyone you hope will eventually help and support you.
I'm sure you're a perfectly reasonable and generous bloke.
:xxgrinning--00xx3:
nnomad
30th January 2012, 23:41
Terpe , thank you very much for you sound advice on all things,,,,, i have no " thing " and i do not feel that anyone let alone everyone wants to attack me personally,,,,, i am not on here to fall out with anyone,, to me it is not a game, i am here seriously trying to get as much information as possible to ease our visa application,,, that some people will look on some of my , seemingly simplistisc, questions as a reason for sarcasim,, or , on other topics, trying to act like little hitlers, is really of no concern to me,,,to the contrary, i am very gratefull to the many people taking time and effort to share their knowledge with and to help me ..... R & ( M )
Arthur Little
31st January 2012, 00:50
i am on here to gain as much information as possible and if it means putting up with some smartypants then so be it,, thanks again...
a simple clarification is all that is needed, not some smartypants attitude,, still, i thanked him for his help, however bombastic,,,
Smartypants?
That's twice you've used the definition in as many posts :rolleyes: ... and I don't need to be particularly smart :anerikke: to work out in whose direction the comment was aimed.
Thing IS, far from being the :blacklistsmartassHL you imagine, I'm just an ordinary bloke like yourself ... the difference between us being that I am a senior citizen :olddude: who is prepared to devote many, MANY hours of my retirement to "behind the scenes" research - often late into the night ... in areas with which I am not altogether familiar - to helping others (as best I can ) to bring them closer to their loved ones.
One example of my efforts to help YOU can be found in #23 overleaf ... which you DIDN'T even bother to acknowledge!
Bombastic? :rolleyes: NO! :nono-1-1: ... I'm not the person who's being bombastic.
Ann1984
31st January 2012, 04:32
Oi, Arthur :).. thank you.. i received reputation points and now i had 124 points..:)
Yes, it is a big helps to other 'who wish to apply visit visa. much better we share our ideas and knowledge to our fellow friends.. it good to help :)
Thank you once again Arthur:)
grahamw48
31st January 2012, 10:29
I would also like to thank Arthur for his VALUED AND MUCH APPRECIATED contributions to the forum...and also for being even older than me. :D
aronbabev
31st January 2012, 11:30
Agree with you Graham..More info and advice that we can get in this site.helps a lot for those who need.Patience and understanding of moderator and members to answer all the info that we need.thanks a lot to all of you.God bless us always.:) :)
Arthur Little
31st January 2012, 12:01
Thanks to all those who've expressed their appreciation of the sterling work carried out by so many on this marvellous site ... it's truly heartwarming. ;)
nnomad
1st February 2012, 22:31
Smartypants?
That's twice you've used the definition in as many posts :rolleyes: ... and I don't need to be particularly smart :anerikke: to work out in whose direction the comment was aimed.
Thing IS, far from being the :blacklistsmartassHL you imagine, I'm just an ordinary bloke like yourself ... the difference between us being that I am a senior citizen :olddude: who is prepared to devote many, MANY hours of my retirement to "behind the scenes" research - often late into the night ... in areas with which I am not altogether familiar - to helping others (as best I can ) to bring them closer to their loved ones.
One example of my efforts to help YOU can be found in #23 overleaf ... which you DIDN'T even bother to acknowledge!
Bombastic? :rolleyes: NO! :nono-1-1: ... I'm not the person who's being bombastic.
i am sorry if you feel you have been overlooked when i have thanked everybody, sometimes person specific and sometimes generally, ( see post 3,5,14,16,18,27,29,31,36,37,49,53 ) for their effort and help , irrispective of how " funny " they thought my questions ( ! )to be,,,,,,,,thanks to this " friendly " forum i feel we are now much better prepared to go ahead with our application,,,,,, thank you all again,, R ( and M )
Arthur Little
2nd February 2012, 00:11
i am sorry if you feel you have been overlooked when i have thanked everybody, sometimes person specific and sometimes generally, ( see post 3,5,14,16,18,27,29,31,36,37,49,53 ) for their effort and help , irrispective of how " funny " they thought my questions ( ! )to be,,,,,,,,thanks to this " friendly " forum i feel we are now much better prepared to go ahead with our application,,,,,, thank you all again,, R ( and M )
Ah well :anerikke: ... we all do our best in trying to help each other here - because just about every one of us has experienced similar anxieties and frustrations in our attempts to bring loved ones to this country - which is one of the main reasons why the forum is truly a friendly place. And knowledegeable people like Terpe & Joe Bloggs - to name but two - are a virtual godsend.
;) Sometimes along the way, the "pathway" ahead appears to be strewn with seemingly insurmountable obstacles ... and it's at times like these, that it provides some much-needed light relief to engage in a bit of banter with "fellow travellers". Such was the intention with my ill~considered :joke: about "Very Funny Stuff". No offence meant! :icon_sorry:
I'm glad to read that you and your girlfriend now find yourselves more readily-equipped to proceed with your application. So once again, I wish you both every success. :xxgrinning--00xx3:
nnomad
2nd February 2012, 00:53
thanks again arthur,, much appreciated, and from a fellow scot !!!
nnomad
4th February 2012, 14:01
hello again everybody,,,,,,,,,,,, taking a long term view this time,,, what is the situation regarding working in the Phillis,,,,,,,,and is there any welding work to be got there , i believe there is a lot of oil exploration / production around there,, i have also been told that locally sourced work is very poorly paid,,, anyone got any experience in this field,, Ta R (+M )
lastlid
4th February 2012, 16:00
A question i too would like to know the answer to. Evidently there are ongoing disputes with the Chinese on Philippine waters with oil and gas potential.
Terpe
4th February 2012, 16:00
hello again everybody,,,,,,,,,,,, taking a long term view this time,,, what is the situation regarding working in the Phillis,,,,,,,,and is there any welding work to be got there , i believe there is a lot of oil exploration / production around there,, i have also been told that locally sourced work is very poorly paid,,, anyone got any experience in this field,, Ta R (+M )
Not being negative but you'd face two difficult issues.
Firstly actually securing permission to work.
Secondly how to come to terms with the low salary level.
Steve.r
4th February 2012, 17:39
I am also en engineer, coded welder, a teacher of engineering and an aircraft fitter.......... finding work in Phils is about impossible if you want a good salary. Finding work in Asia is also very difficult because of all the locally sourced workers who do things for less money.
nnomad
6th February 2012, 14:00
thanks folks for your help , much apreciated,, i guess that working over there is not a viable option ... brrr it is cold here !!!
nnomad
6th March 2012, 19:13
hello again,, long time,,,,,,,i am trying to get my ( g ) friend , who is now back home on filli. to read this post and she says she can not find the web page " www. fillipinouk.co.uk ", can anyone confirm for me that it is available in the fillis,,, she has been trying google and also direct , but with no success,,, any body any ideas,, Ta R
grahamw48
6th March 2012, 19:50
Yes it is. I was online on this site in Manila a couple of weeks back.
Make sure it's spelt right. :D
filipinaroses.com
nnomad
7th March 2012, 10:48
thanks for that graham,, perhaps i got the spelling wrong !!!
nnomad
8th March 2012, 11:14
morning all,,,,,,, my, ( our ) saga continues, can anyone offer any explination why my (g) friend cannot access this site on googel in the Philis,,,, she is using correct spelling etc but when clicking on the link which i supply she gets a " not found " notice,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, nexy, does anyone know of any nursing agencies in UK or Phili who recruit nurses for UK,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, thank you R (& M )
grahamw48
8th March 2012, 11:35
That's odd. it should at least come up in the search results panel. :Erm:
I accessed no problem both in Phils and Abu Dhabi.
Maybe there is some sort of restriction imposed on the internet settings on the computer. (Ask her to go to 'tools' 'options' 'security' on the top toolbar).
nnomad
9th March 2012, 14:51
graham,,, when you access in phils do you dial filipinaroses.com or do you use .com or another,, thanks again
grahamw48
9th March 2012, 14:53
I just used google search and typed in the first few letters and up popped this site. :Erm:
Walang probleme.
Dedworth
9th March 2012, 15:13
,,, nexy, does anyone know of any nursing agencies in UK or Phili who recruit nurses for UK,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, thank you R (& M )
Theres a very useful thread from Doc Alan here - prospects aren't good at the moment
http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php/35967-Nursing-links?highlight=nursing
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