Lets just get married!

[songz777]

As any one here loved their love so much that they would rather get married in filli and then wait for how ever long to finally get their love into the UK, even though you would be apart as a married couple for long spells until UK Spouse visa granted?

[stevie c]

I did just that we got married in phils in september 2010 & my wife was here in november 2010 on a spouse visa :)

So my answer to your question is yes i definatley recommend to take that route :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[songz777]

I did just that we got married in phils in september 2010 & my wife was here in november 2010 on a spouse visa :)

So my answer to your question is yes i definatley recommend to take that route :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Oh cool thanks Steve soo much!!! really encouraging, I really feel I would rather mayy her and wait and wait than be like I am now.. I am going in June to see her and family and hope we shall then be even more in love and decide to get married. God willing!

[Steve.r]

Me too, I married my mahal in April 2011, we now have a beautiful baby boy and are just starting the visa process.

If you love her and she loves you, it will work. BUT... you need 100% commitment and 100% honesty.

It works for us, so yes, do it.

[stevie c]

Oh cool thanks Steve soo much!!! really encouraging, I really feel I would rather mayy her and wait and wait than be like I am now.. I am going in June to see her and family and hope we shall then be even more in love and decide to get married. God willing!

Im going to the phils in june also :)

Where in the phils does your gf live?

[stevewool]

Im going to the phils in june also :)

Where in the phils does your gf live?

now now steve remember you ar a married man:yikes:

[stevie c]

now now steve remember you ar a married man:yikes:

:omg: im going with the wife steve :doh:D

[Steve.r]

where you going Steve?

[stevie c]

Hi Steve going to visit the family for two weeks & hoping to have a week in palawan

[Steve.r]

nice :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[stevie c]

Thanks steve Flor has an Auntie who lives in El Nido so hopefully if all goes to plan we shall spend a week there with her Auntie :)

[stevewool]

wow thats the place i would love to see, el nido, take lots of pictures steve:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[stevie c]

Yeah me to steve i have wanted to go there since Flor told me about where her Auntie lives :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[raynaputi]

OMG! :omg: I can't follow which "Steve" is talking to the other "Steve"! :doh :laugher: :D

[stevie c]

OMG! :omg: I can't follow which "Steve" is talking to the other "Steve"! :doh :laugher: :D

:laugher::laugher::doh

[stevewool]

OMG! :omg: I can't follow which "Steve" is talking to the other "Steve"! :doh :laugher: :D

its easy we just post a thread and we all just answer, aint that right steve, steve and this is from the other steve:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

[stevie c]

Yes steve how about you steve do you agree steve :D

[Steve.r]

I agree woth both steve and steve, right steves' :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[stevie c]

Steve,Steve & Steve fully agreed.

Ok Steves:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[raynaputi]

:laughitupsmilie::laughitupsmilie::laughitupsmilie:

[Iani]

Yes, why not.

You can have a conventional marriage to someone- you get married, then go home together, or go on vacation - then go home together, open the presents, admire yet another toaster, and think you could start a shop selling tea towels.

Or you can have a slightly less conventional marriage where you marry her, and for various reasons, you can't be together immediately.

As long as you know it's not forever (being apart- not the marriage), then no biggie - go for it.

[songz777]

Yes, why not.

You can have a conventional marriage to someone- you get married, then go home together, or go on vacation - then go home together, open the presents, admire yet another toaster, and think you could start a shop selling tea towels.

Or you can have a slightly less conventional marriage where you marry her, and for various reasons, you can't be together immediately.

As long as you know it's not forever (being apart- not the marriage), then no biggie - go for it.


Thanks that really gives me hope :) Better to marry and wait than never marry her at all!

[songz777]

Im going to the phils in june also :)

Where in the phils does your gf live?

Hi Steve she lives in Cagayan De oro City :) I am booking a room in River View Inn just 2 mins from her home and she will be my guide and with all two weeks there :) I am nervous but looking forward to it, her mum has given me her approval already so thats good!

[stevie c]

Heres hoping everything goes well for you. You will certainly have a fantastic time in the phils the people are friendly the sights are beautifull so im sure you will have a wonderfull stay.

[mickcant]

Yes I think Steve is right:icon_lol:
Mick.:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[lastlid]

As any one here loved their love so much that they would rather get married in filli and then wait for how ever long to finally get their love into the UK, even though you would be apart as a married couple for long spells until UK Spouse visa granted?

We did just that too. Got married in Phils in June 2011 and my wife arrived in the UK on Oct 1st 2011 on a spouse visa.

Only thing I would say is that during the in between time, while waiting for the visa, I did wonder if she might get the visa at all. But in hindsight it worked beautifully....

[joy_86jm]

Hi Songs! I got married last September 2011 and I'm going to apply my spouse visa hopefully march :) Am looking forward to be with my asawa this yr :D as our fav quote with my husband says " Love knows no boundaries and no distance ; miles and obstacles mean absolutely nothing in the face of LOVE " :heartshape1:

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO ALL!!!:D

[febmary]

Songz777,
By all means, give yourselves a chance to meet and start from there. It takes a lot of patience, understanding, commitment and honesty to get into a long distance relationships. As long there is no hindrance, love will conquer! Goodluck and hope you will have a great stay in the Phils.:xxgrinning--00xx3:
If there's a way, there's always a WILL.

[lordna]

Yep, i got married in August 2009 and finally got my wife here in June 2010. Its hard being apart but well worth the wait!.....Go for it!

[jonnijon]

Im getting married in Phills and im not coming back YIPEEEEE :Wave::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[songz777]

Thanks SO much for your advise!! I agree love conquers mountians .. and I will not give up on my love I will fight on until she is with me and we are a couple! She deserves everything I have and am. All my love of searching for that special soul mate seems to have ended now! Its worth 49 years to have her by my side, well thats my dream.

[stevewool]

dreams do come true, look at me and many more on this site,

[songz777]

dreams do come true, look at me and many more on this site,

Thanks for your inspiration Steve!! I am encouraged with the help of you guys to keep my dream in view and never give up.
:) thanks so much,

[Eyes O'Donnell]

Hi songz777 :) yes, me and my husband did that :):lovecouple: just got married last October 2011 here in Malabon :) and now I'm waiting for my visa to be approved hopefully soon :):pray:
" There is no long distance about L:love:VE, it always finds a way to bring hearts together no matter how far they are on each other" :luv13::coeurtendre:
Good luck :)

[philuk]

go for it songz, we got married in the august, the asawa was here in the october, would have been sooner but got delayed due to nanay needed a big op,