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stevewool
16th February 2012, 19:48
funny how one minute life is great then the next life is not so great, the news you see and read and just life itself, last week i received a call from the ex, she was explaining this and that about the kids and looking after them, they are both 24 and 20 and they live with me, anyway she said afterwards tha she did not call for this but she has news. She has cancer, what a shock and i can say i just shouted with anger, she found out that day, cancer of the womb, this was tuesday, last week and on monday she had a full body scan to see if it has spread, it had not and on tuesday this week she had a hysterectomy and the kids have told me she is doing well, 3 days in hospital and another 6 weeks rest, i know i have a new life and i am very happy and lucky too, but my thoughts for the ex was kindness, just goes to show you how life can change so quicky for any of us

tone
16th February 2012, 23:26
Good for you Steve.
I had a very acrimonious and litigious divorce - very serious accusations towards me with no substance but 12 years later if she said something like this to me I'd probably have the same attitude.
For that we are better human beings:xxgrinning--00xx3:
Tone

Marie
16th February 2012, 23:55
very nice of you steve...she's been a part of your life that's why ...hope she will do better ...God Bless

imagine
17th February 2012, 03:43
we never know whats round the corner,

its awful news when you hear cancer, i hope she fully recovers,

your a good man steve , ,,,, the past is gone , and as you say you have a new life now and obviously very happy and in love, thoughts of kindness is proberbly just how i thought you would be ,
:xxgrinning--00xx3:

mickcant
17th February 2012, 08:14
I also hope she recovers ok, when you have children together even divorce cannot mean having no contact:NoNo:
Well done Steve it shows the good man you are:xxgrinning--00xx3:
Mick.:)

Eyes O'Donnell
17th February 2012, 08:46
You have a big heart steve :) and hope she feel better soon. God bless :)