very interesting topic

[Rhose]

I'm a newly wed and I've attended a Marriage encounter yesterday. I've learned that sex is intimacy and not dirty.. wow!! any thing you do when you are married is good..
At first I was confused, when everything was explained well it was cleared that I'm going to make my husband happy.. I'm thinking what kind of position should my husband satisfy? I need to google it tonight..for more knowledge about it.. :)

[Steve.r]

This thread could go on forever :Sex:

[grahamw48]

May I recommend 'Cosmopolitan'...usually available free in your dentist's waiting room (if you can prise it away from a curious 10 year-old). :D

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http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/

[Rhose]

This thread could go on forever :Sex:

:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[joebloggs]

May I recommend 'Cosmopolitan'...usually available free in your dentist's waiting room (if you can prise it away from a curious 10 year-old). :D

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http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/

:yikes: is that what they print in there :omg:
no wonder you see men looking thru it :rolleyes:

[Rhose]

May I recommend 'Cosmopolitan'...usually available free in your dentist's waiting room (if you can prise it away from a curious 10 year-old). :D

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http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/
thanks graham!! but I think some of it are quite difficult..

[grahamw48]

thanks graham!! but I think some of it are quite difficult..

Some of us can only look at the pictures now. :cwm3:

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jT3_UCm1A5I

[Steve.r]

thanks graham!! but I think some of it are quite difficult..

That is half the fun Rhose...... fill your boots and try everything


I think it wrong that sex is seen as 'dirty' but I think we all know where this stems from....:doh:rolleyes:

[Lhailhani]

sex for me is not dirty... :D specially if husband and wife doing it or any partners that love each other... go all the way with every position u want and like to try :) as I DID :D :Sex::Sex::yikes:

[lastlid]

Some of us can only look at the pictures now. :cwm3:

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jT3_UCm1A5I

Say no more. No what I mean....:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[grahamw48]

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[Rhose]

That is half the fun Rhose...... fill your boots and try everything


I think it wrong that sex is seen as 'dirty' but I think we all know where this stems from....:doh:rolleyes:
In Asian country it's awkward to discuss about sex but time goes even in curiculum in school they included it, but not the way I want to know.
I will do as much as I can but on the last position we did before it hurts me. Maybe I was not ready that time because the only thing I know is the easy position or doggy style as they called and the woman on top. As your experience how many position could it be possible to do in a round?

[grahamw48]

http://img824.imageshack.us/img824/6770/nursee.jpg

[grahamw48]

In Asian country it's awkward to discuss about sex but time goes even in curiculum in school they included it, but not the way I want to know.
I will do as much as I can but on the last position we did before it hurts me. Maybe I was not ready that time because the only thing I know is the easy position or doggy style as they called and the woman on top. As your experience how many position could it be possible to do in a round?

Well Steve ? :Erm:

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[Lhailhani]

RHOSE! hahaha... u can do many positions as u want in one night... just be ready and be comfortable and no holding back when in that moment...shouldn't hurt so both can enjoy.. i have my fav one... but sucks been four years.. and i need to do warm up :D :doh:doh well in one round... it depend ..if how long you and your partner can hold..

[Rhose]

RHOSE! hahaha... u can do many positions as u want in one night... just be ready and be comfortable and no holding back when in that moment...shouldn't hurt so both can enjoy.. i have my fav one... but sucks been four years.. and i need to do warm up :D :doh:doh well in one round... it depend ..if how long you and your partner can hold..
May be you can call me stupid or innocent... I don't know, that's why I'm curious to learn my part as a wife and to be passionate when doing it. I grew up and scared about it because my parents told me that's not good to watch and to read some of a kind. But now I realize that I was naive, why some teens get pregnant at early age because they knew it.. :bigcry:

[Rhose]

http://img824.imageshack.us/img824/6770/nursee.jpg

:omg:

[lastlid]

...... fill your boots and try everything




You use boots? :Erm:

[Rhose]

yes I'm using boots but not on bed :icon_lol: just only a typographical error of steve :doh, it's boost :)

[Lhailhani]

May be you can call me stupid or innocent... I don't know, that's why I'm curious to learn my part as a wife and to be passionate when doing it. I grew up and scared about it because my parents told me that's not good to watch and to read some of a kind. But now I realize that I was naive, why some teens get pregnant at early age because they knew it.. :bigcry:


nahhh youre not naive.. you just knew how to value your self at a young age.. :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3: you have lots of fun to do... EXPLORE the world of that position thing....


:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[andy222]

:Erm: Whats all this about? I must read that cosmopolitan.:icon_lol:

[Rhose]

:Erm: Whats all this about? I must read that cosmopolitan.:icon_lol:
a really interesting magazine...:yikes:

[Steve.r]

sex for me is not dirty... :D specially if husband and wife doing it or any partners that love each other... go all the way with every position u want and like to try :) as I DID :D :Sex::Sex::yikes:

Hoorayyyyyy!! Go girl:do_it:


Well Steve ? :Erm:

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Too many to list Graham :cwm3:


May be you can call me stupid or innocent... I don't know, that's why I'm curious to learn my part as a wife and to be passionate when doing it. I grew up and scared about it because my parents told me that's not good to watch and to read some of a kind. But now I realize that I was naive, why some teens get pregnant at early age because they knew it.. :bigcry:


nahhh youre not naive.. you just knew how to value your self at a young age.. :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3: you have lots of fun to do... EXPLORE the world of that position thing....


:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

Rhose, you are not naive, maybe innocent. But like Lhailhani said, you have been brought up having respect for yourself, your body and values. Now is the time to let your desires free with your husband. Whatever you do behind your bedroom door (or wherever you like to do it....wink wink..say no more!) is nobody else's business and you will find the things you enjoy more than others. Your sexual partnership with your husband will make your relationship stronger as you learn everything about how you both 'tick'
Enjoy experimenting, its not rude or dirty... it's just practice leading up to the ultimate level of making love, where you know eachother well enough to produce a little Rhose.

[Lhailhani]

Rhose, you are not naive, maybe innocent. But like Lhailhani said, you have been brought up having respect for yourself, your body and values. Now is the time to let your desires free with your husband. Whatever you do behind your bedroom door (or wherever you like to do it....wink wink..say no more!) is nobody else's business and you will find the things you enjoy more than others. Your sexual partnership with your husband will make your relationship stronger as you learn everything about how you both 'tick'
Enjoy experimenting, its not rude or dirty... it's just practice leading up to the ultimate level of making love, where you know eachother well enough to produce a little Rhose.


Agree with you Steve..... :xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Rhose]

Hoorayyyyyy!! Go girl:do_it:



Too many to list Graham :cwm3:





Rhose, you are not naive, maybe innocent. But like Lhailhani said, you have been brought up having respect for yourself, your body and values. Now is the time to let your desires free with your husband. Whatever you do behind your bedroom door (or wherever you like to do it....wink wink..say no more!) is nobody else's business and you will find the things you enjoy more than others. Your sexual partnership with your husband will make your relationship stronger as you learn everything about how you both 'tick'
Enjoy experimenting, its not rude or dirty... it's just practice leading up to the ultimate level of making love, where you know eachother well enough to produce a little Rhose.
thanks!! :) well, as you've said need a little experiment... hmmm... for how many hours of browsing in different site for me to have some info, I think I'm enjoying..is there a kind of thing that man will like most when doing it and what is it?

[raynaputi]

Best advice I can give you Rhose is to communicate with your hubby about the things you like (the ones you want to try and the ones you enjoyed) or don't like. You won't have fun unless you'd be vocal about it to your husband. Same thing goes for your husband. It's not always about the positions but about how you'd both be satisfied. :xxgrinning--00xx3: Every person has different preferences so you have to ask your husband about the things he prefer. :D

[grahamw48]

Better do it now....before this thread gets too pornographic. :omg: :icon_lol:

[Lhailhani]

Better do it now....before this thread gets too pornographic. :omg: :icon_lol:


:yikes::yikes::yikes::yikes::yikes:

[Leen]

Best advice I can give you Rhose is to communicate with your hubby about the things you like (the ones you want to try and the ones you enjoyed) or don't like. You won't have fun unless you'd be vocal about it to your husband. Same thing goes for your husband. It's not always about the positions but about how you'd both be satisfied. :xxgrinning--00xx3: Every person has different preferences so you have to ask your husband about the things he prefer. :D

:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:
you dont need to research just use your imagination:yikes:

[Leen]

Better do it now....before this thread gets too pornographic. :omg: :icon_lol:

:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol:

[lastlid]

I am still a bit worried about Steve r filling his boots. No doubt Iani will be feeling a bit worried....:icon_lol:

[grahamw48]

Aye...I think a lot gets lost in translation on this forum. :doh

For all the Filipinas reading:

'Fill yer boots' is a British slang expression meaning 'take full advantage' or 'help yourself to the big harvest etc, while there is the chance'. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Nothing to do with pissing into your boots. :NoNo:

[lastlid]

Aye...I think a lot gets lost in translation on this forum. :doh

For all the Filipinas reading:

'Fill yer boots' is a British slang expression meaning 'take full advantage' or 'help yourself to the big harvest etc, while there is the chance'. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Nothing to do with pissing into your boots. :NoNo:

But there is a loose connection with sheep, I might add. :icon_lol:

[imagine]

But there is a loose connection with sheep, I might add. :icon_lol:

sheep n wellie boots
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BoMdC2i0OXY

[grahamw48]

I'm trying to be helpful.

There are a lot of Filipinas viewing the forum to whom the frequent use of slang, colloquialisms and 'in' jokes by the Brits must be very confusing and possibly off-putting.

Perhaps we could give them a little more consideration when they are contributing to a thread ? :rolleyes:

It's actually quite a serious topic...especially for those considering a Filipina as a life-partner. :NoNo:

You need to be SENSITIVE to such things.

[lastlid]

I'm trying to be helpful.

There are a lot of Filipinas viewing the forum to whom the frequent use of slang, colloquialisms and 'in' jokes by the Brits must be very confusing and possibly off-putting.

Perhaps we could give them a little more consideration when they are contributing to a thread ? :rolleyes:

It's actually quite a serious topic...especially for those considering a Filipina as a life-partner. :NoNo:

You need to be SENSITIVE to such things.



Some of us can only look at the pictures now. :cwm3:

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jT3_UCm1A5I




What you mean like the Monty Python sketch? :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Nudge nudge wink wink say no more Squire.....:D

[grahamw48]

No, I'm talking about what is written.

Anyway, take it as you wish.

[lastlid]

No, I'm talking about what is written.

Anyway, take it as you wish.

Fair point.

To Rhose.

To be honest, I would have offered some anecdotal advice, but my wife wouldn't have appreciated it being put out on a forum. Suffice to say she is from a religious background etc etc but she has been great and relaxed etc etc. But I feel I have helped her feel relaxed. Its a two way street.

[Steve.r]

To be honest, this is a very serious subject for some people, possibly many of the ladies from the Philippines, more than us guys in the west. I think Rhose has been very brave to approach such a delicate and private subject and has honestly asked for real help. Unfortunately, 'we' cannot give advice as such because it is between Rhose and her husband. It is difficult to direct someone to a publication that can help..

I do have a good friend in Singapore who has written and published a book all about this very subject and can direct anyone to his contact details. Just pm me. Might be very helpful for you Rhose. I do have a few copies myself.