mind it or not?

[Lynn76]

Hi, I'm Lynn76. Would you mind that your separated boyfriend still having a time for dating and go for sight seeing to his ex-wife with their kid? Is that normal UK?

[stevewool]

yes and no, it all depends on what you both want out of life,
If there is a child he must have time to visit him/her but concerning the ex well its like i said , for me i would stop it or ask why he thinks its ok to do

[Ako Si Jamie]

Seperated couples can spend time together for the sake of the kid although I don't think it happens much.

[Terpe]

Seperated couples can spend time together for the sake of the kid although I don't think it happens much.

That's how I see it too.

It's not the norm, but there may be good reasons

[grahamw48]

Separated couples may remain friends, and as previously stated, naturally the man will want to (and SHOULD) see his kids.

The rest is a matter of trust between him and his new partner.

[sars_notd_virus]

Hi, I'm Lynn76. Would you mind that your separated boyfriend still having a time for dating and go for sight seeing to his ex-wife with their kid? Is that normal UK?

their culture is different...of course i will mind!! ....he can see the kids go out with them but not go sightseeing with the EX , its insane for me but then its completely up to you and your bf's understanding and trust.

[bigmac]

why dont you go with them ?--then you can be one big happy family