I'm looking for love

[goldyhorn1]

:Hellooo:I'm 49 single and live in Essex .I'm looking for a Filipino woman.I don't have children ,I don't drive,I don't have pets. One dream I have is to move to the Philipinnes one day.A holiday there would be ok.I have decided not to visit any other country but at the present time I live on my own.As long as I do I will stay on my own I won't change my mind on the holiday destination or the move.I like snorkelling have done this a couple of times but not in Philippines.My parents are both alive at the moment and I feel I have to say this that at least one of them has a bad outlook on the Philippines although I have not.I may not here the last of it until there gone but this does not stop me dating if I meet (Mrs right)

[Ako Si Jamie]

Welcome to the forum Goldy and good luck with your quest.

Out of interest why do your parents have a negative outlook towards the Philippines?

[Steve.r]

They are probably tarring it with the same brush as many use for Thailand :doh:Brick:

[goldyhorn1]

Well when I bought a package in 2008 and told my mum I was going I was told by them that parts of the Philippines were to dangerous to travel to .I think one of them had read the travel advice on the Philippines.I said I was not goint to the dangerous parts mentioned in the travel advice at the time but they would not agree the country was safe to visit and tried to persuade me to cancel the package.After telling them I was not going to the dangerous parts that is at the time the parts that were not safe to travel to going by the travel advice pages.I don't know only that maybe she had heard that some people there are very poor.

[goldyhorn1]

I've never visited Thailand

[goldyhorn1]

I forgot to say thanks for the good luck.

[goldyhorn1]

I've never visited Thailand

I'm 49yrs I will not be retiring age until maybe now 66-67yrs depending on what the new rules are on retirement age in England Uk.I'm on ESA benefit with not much hope of a better income in the future.One hope I've got is to win the national lottery Saturday draw lotto jackpot which is unlikely.I do this once a week.

[Dedworth]

.I said I was not goint to the dangerous parts mentioned in the travel advice at the time but they would not agree the country was safe to visit and tried to persuade me to cancel the package..

Did you cancel or visit the Philippines ?

[goldyhorn1]

Did you cancel or visit the Philippines ?

I went the flight was good I went with Kuwait airlines.I did not like there smoking room at Kuwait it was awful.

[Terpe]

...I'm looking for a Filipino woman...

I suggest you begin planning your weekend trip to the upcoming London Barrio Fiesta (http://www.londonbarriofiesta.com/)
(click on the link)

BTW, why do you feel the need to limit your future partner's ethnicity?

[goldyhorn1]

I suggest you begin planning your weekend trip to the upcoming London Barrio Fiesta (http://www.londonbarriofiesta.com/)
(click on the link)

BTW, why do you feel the need to limit your future partner's ethnicity?

Thanks for your suggestion Terpe,I dont know what you mean by ,BTW, why do you feel the need to limit your future partner's ethnicity?I have not seen or met a filipino girl since I was in Makati Manila in 2008.I certainly don't know what BTW is.

[SimonH]

BTW=By the way :smile:

[goldyhorn1]

thanks i was thinking for the last 15 minutes:doh and thought that might be by the way.I also thought of bank Transfer Wan_ _ _s but thought that cannot be right.Thanks Simonh

[Ako Si Jamie]

I went the flight was good I went with Kuwait airlines.I did not like there smoking room at Kuwait it was awful.At least they've got one. Two actually, unlike Heathrow. :wink:

[goldyhorn1]

I clicked on the link Terpe what's so good about it what goes on is it like top of the pops or the xfactor or opportunity knocks.what goes on and how much does it cost?I could not find that.Also I probably won't go it's in london and if it's for a weekend where do you stay?

[goldyhorn1]

it put me off smoking in one though:yikes:

[goldyhorn1]

At the moment i feel there's only two good places worth a visit in london 1.Gatwick airport 2.heathrow airport

[Ako Si Jamie]

At the moment i feel there's only two good places worth a visit in london 1.Gatwick airport 2.heathrow airportHaha. Quite agree :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[SimonH]

I clicked on the link Terpe what's so good about it what goes on is it like top of the pops or the xfactor or opportunity knocks.what goes on and how much does it cost?I could not find that.Also I probably won't go it's in london and if it's for a weekend where do you stay?

Take a look at this:-
http://www.londonbarriofiesta.com/faq.shtml

You don't have to go for both days, but as you're only in Essex why not go on the Saturday and then come back on the Sunday if you enjoyed it.

[Ako Si Jamie]

I clicked on the link Terpe what's so good about it what goes on is it like top of the pops or the xfactor or opportunity knocks.what goes on and how much does it cost?I could not find that.Also I probably won't go it's in london and if it's for a weekend where do you stay?It's free I think. You may have to pay for parking but don't quote me on that.

There's a lot of food stalls, stuff for kids, singers on stage and forlorn looking paramedics in a tent. That's the one in Birmingham anyway.

[goldyhorn1]

I hope not I've got nothing to park

[Michael Parnham]

BTW=By the way :smile:

Thanks Simon, I've been dying to know that for years, been too embarrassed to ask:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[grahamw48]

:Erm:
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[Terpe]

I clicked on the link Terpe what's so good about it what goes on is it like top of the pops or the xfactor or opportunity knocks.what goes on and how much does it cost?I could not find that.Also I probably won't go it's in london and if it's for a weekend where do you stay?

Do a search for Barrio Fiesta.
It's free.
It has a potential interest for you since you mentioned in your first post "I'm looking for a Filipino woman"
Usually at this fiesta will be over 20,000 people. Mostly Pinay.
Get to meet people.

[Terpe]

Thanks for your suggestion Terpe,I dont know what you mean by ,BTW, why do you feel the need to limit your future partner's ethnicity?I have not seen or met a filipino girl since I was in Makati Manila in 2008.I certainly don't know what BTW is.

I was asking why you only want to meet a filipina ?
Why aren't you open to other nationalities ?

If you're really looking for love, then you've already put up some very challenging restrictions.:icon_rolleyes:

[Terpe]

:Erm:
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http://imageshack.us/a/img545/5936/wtflol2.jpg


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https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/4733636864/h67AD7952/

[goldyhorn1]

Yes I see what you are saying Terpe I will make a change to the previous posting:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[Terpe]

Yes I see what you are saying Terpe I will make a change to the previous posting:xxgrinning--00xx3:

Have you joined any dating sites?
How about local social activities?
Are there any Philippine Communities in your area?
How about Asian Grocery stores? Hospitals?Care Homes? Catholic Churches? (all good places to meet up)

BTW, you don't need to change your posting, sometimes we're just too nosey :biggrin:

[goldyhorn1]

I'm 49 single and live in Essex .I'm looking for a woman.I don't have children ,I don't drive,I don't have pets. One thing I would like to do is move to the Philipinnes one day.A holiday there would be ok.I have decided not to visit any other country but at the present time I live on my own.As long as I'm on my own I won't change my mind on the holiday destination or the move.I like snorkelling have done this a couple of times but not in Philippines.I think the Philippines could be a great place to live.
I may not be able to move there until my parents are gone my mum does not like the idea and lives locally and drives a car I see her everyday because she is only a few minutes drive away.My mum is 68yrs in June 2013 and my dad is 77yrs.I don't know how long their going to live for but they're against the idea of me having a holiday out there or moving there.If I won the lotto jackpot it could be a different story.

[Terpe]

Follow this Forum Thread link from BigMarco for Morden Barrio Fiesta (http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php/46485-Morden-Barrio-Fiesta-June-8th-and-9th)

[goldyhorn1]

I can answer two of the suggestions 1. the nearest asian store is probably Colchester which is 18 miles away or London which is 70 to 80 miles away depending on what part of London not my usual shopping trip. 2. I don't go to church 3. I don't know of any Philippine communities in my area.

[goldyhorn1]

these dates are different is it a separate event? this one in june and the other in july

[Travellor]

I have plenty of good honest and hard working family members.

pm me for more info if interested

[Moy]

me too :wink:

[grahamw48]

...and me. :smile:

[goldyhorn1]

Do any of them live in Essex England?

[goldyhorn1]

Do any of them live in Essex England.Also how far are any of them willing to travel to meet?

[grahamw48]

I'm afraid all my pretty young relations and friends live in the Philippines and can't afford to travel to the UK.

[Steve.r]

I am bursting :Help1:

[fred]

How about Asian Grocery stores? Hospitals?Care Homes? Catholic Churches? (all good places to meet up)

Care homes? Hospitals? :icon_lol:
Do people actually go to these places to find a Filipino woman?
Do they accept grapes on the first visit?:Erm:

[Steve.r]

Do they accept grapes on the first visit?:Erm:

Haemorrhoids?

[fred]

Actually Terp, I think you may be on to something.
Look at this cheeky bugger.. There`s nothing wrong with him but I think he may have pulled!!

http://media-social.s-msn.com/images/blogs/00120065-0000-0000-0000-000000000000_469b5687-f4ab-4992-a2ac-46c322b7a161_20130524130826_Insurance-Man-Crutches-300-001C3831.jpg

[Ako Si Jamie]

The last time I was up the hospital visiting a friend I engaged conversation with at least two Pinay nurses who were working in that ward. Was only there ten minutes.

[goldyhorn1]

I will ask then nearer the time I'm ready to go out there

[goldyhorn1]

With the weather we get in this country would they want to?:anerikke:

[bigmac]

.My mum is 68yrs in June 2013 and my dad is 77yrs

my old dad is 92 and still going strong. see if this forum is still here in about 25 years time lol

[Arthur Little]

see if this *forum is still here in about 25 years time lol

Well ... :anerikke: ... *it's been around for about 10 years already - and is growing from strength to strength with every passing day! :xxgrinning--00xx3:

NO reason to suppose it WON'T. :NoNo:

[bigmac]

Well ... :anerikke: ... *it's been around for about 10 years so far - and
is growing from strength to strength with every passing day! :xxgrinning--00xx3:

NO reason to suppose it WON'T. :NoNo:

my post was a bit tongue in cheek. meaning--elderly parents have the habit of becoming VERY elderly parents. how long does a son/daughter have to put their life on hold for?

[Arthur Little]

:Hellooo:I'm 49 single and live in Essex .I'm looking for a Filipino woman.I don't have children ,I don't drive,I don't have pets. One dream I have is to move to the Philipinnes one day.A holiday there would be ok.I have decided not to visit any other country but at the present time I live on my own.As long as I do I will stay on my own I won't change my mind on the holiday destination or the move.I like snorkelling have done this a couple of times but not in Philippines.My parents are both alive at the moment and I feel I have to say this that at least one of them has a bad outlook on the Philippines although I have not.I may not here the last of it until there gone but this does not stop me dating if I meet (Mrs right)


I'm 49 single and live in Essex .I'm looking for a woman.I don't have children ,I don't drive,I don't have pets. One thing I would like to do is move to the Philipinnes one day.A holiday there would be ok.I have decided not to visit any other country but at the present time I live on my own.As long as I'm on my own I won't change my mind on the holiday destination or the move.I like snorkelling have done this a couple of times but not in Philippines.I think the Philippines could be a great place to live.
I may not be able to move there until my parents are gone my mum does not like the idea and lives locally and drives a car I see her everyday because she is only a few minutes drive away.My mum is 68yrs in June 2013 and my dad is 77yrs.I don't know how long their going to live for but they're against the idea of me having a holiday out there or moving there.If I won the lotto jackpot it could be a different story.

Hi, Goldy ... as one of the Moderators, I have taken the liberty of merging the [above] two threads you've posted in this Section of the forum - since BOTH relate to the same context - in order to keep all the responses together. :smile:

[bigmac]

i have to say this---a british guy trying to live on ESA and dreaming of 1: winning the lottery---and 2: going to the philipines---or any other non--EEA country---to find a future partner---is simply on a hiding to nothing.

better to look a lot closer to home for a future partner--one who fully understands the implications of a life on benefits.

[goldyhorn1]

I will if I can :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[goldyhorn1]

Thankyou Arthur will they appear differently? :Cuckoo:

[goldyhorn1]

if both mine live until 92 I would be retiring age anyway.I hope I'm old enough and sane enough to make my own mind up by then

[goldyhorn1]

what and marry a blackwoman?

[stevewool]

whos sane

[Michael Parnham]

What is ESA?

[grahamw48]

What's wrong with marrying a Black woman ? :Erm:

[goldyhorn1]

Nothing I guess

[goldyhorn1]

Hello Michael there is a post about ESA (Employment and Support allowance) on the UK benefits Thread

[jake]

Hello Michael there is a post about ESA (Employment and Support allowance) on the UK benefits Thread

ESA is also the abbreviation for the European Space Agency.

[stevewool]

have you tried dating sites on the internet , that may be a good place to start

[hawk]

i found my wife on a dating site called tagged its all free no money you sign up like facebook then you put in where your looking and ie philippines age easy as 123 as i said its free you talk to them free they talk to you free messaging then you move onto skype good luck

[SimonH]

ESA is also the abbreviation for the European Space Agency.

Essex Space Agency :Erm:

[Steve.r]

if both mine live until 92 I would be retiring age anyway.I hope I'm old enough and sane enough to make my own mind up by thenAre you really still their little soldier and at your age still not allowed to make up your own mind about YOUR life???? I think about time you 'grew some' as Jeremy Kyle would say...... otherwise you are just wasting your life and we only get one chance!!!


what and marry a blackwoman?You do realise that you are thinking about dating an Asian woman right? They come in all colours from white to black..... is this another of your parent's influences about race and colour ??


What's wrong with marrying a Black woman ? :Erm:Nothing Graham, in fact I love my wife when she is darker. I know you will agree with me on that.


Nothing I guessI guess?????? Guess what??? :doh

[bigmac]

ESA will preclude getting a spouse/fiancee visa.

[Michael Parnham]

Got it Goldyhorn! :wink:

[goldyhorn1]

i have to say this---a british guy trying to live on ESA and dreaming of 1: winning the lottery---and 2: going to the philipines---or any other non--EEA country---to find a future partner---is simply on a hiding to nothing.

better to look a lot closer to home for a future partner--one who fully understands the implications of a life on benefits.

Thanks I will look closer to home but is there anything wrong with having a holiday or moving to the Philippines on my own if I don't find a partner?

[goldyhorn1]

I have tried a site called Plenty of Fish P.O.F.com

[goldyhorn1]

no not really but I think it's possible to date or meet either african or asian women or any other in the uk

[goldyhorn1]

thanks for that bigmac but I have not met one yet and maybe I never will. Hooray for being single and free:smile:

[Ako Si Jamie]

I have tried a site called Plenty of Fish P.O.F.comTake that site with a pinch of salt. :peepwall:

[bigmac]

thanks for that bigmac

i'm only trying to point out the harsh reality---just to spare you future heartache that some of us are going through.

plenty of fish is a useful site--i was on it--& thats how i met my girlfriend.

but--if you can find a philipina who is already settled here--you're home and dry.

[stevewool]

any site is ok just for talking give it a go but dont rush into anything before thinking about it

[grahamw48]

I think the Filipinas on POF tend to be a bit more 'fussy'.

Well done bigmac. :biggrin:

[bigmac]

I think the Filipinas on POF tend to be a bit more 'fussy'.

Well done bigmac. :biggrin:

my lady obviously has very good taste :wink:

[Arthur Little]

Look at this cheeky bugger.. There`s nothing wrong with him but I think he may have pulled!!

http://media-social.s-msn.com/images/blogs/00120065-0000-0000-0000-000000000000_469b5687-f4ab-4992-a2ac-46c322b7a161_20130524130826_Insurance-Man-Crutches-300-001C3831.jpg

:icon_lol: ... pulled a muscle, more like! :icon_rolleyes:

[Arthur Little]

Thankyou Arthur will they appear differently? :Cuckoo:

:NoNo: ... just means that - instead of the replies to each, appearing on two separate separate threads - they'll ALL now be in the ONE place. Makes them more accessible and, easier to follow if they're in order of sequence. :xxgrinning--00xx3:

Also tidies things up a bit! :smile:

[goldyhorn1]

I had a look at tagged and joined. Thanks :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[bigmarco]

Filipina Nightclub :egyptian: in Shepherds Bush you can always give that a try one night. Get your dancing shoes on and jump on the central line:REDancedancer08: you never know your luck:wiggle:

[sars_notd_virus]

:Hellooo:I'm 49 single and live in Essex .I'm looking for a Filipino woman.I don't have children ,I don't drive,I don't have pets. One dream I have is to move to the Philipinnes one day.A holiday there would be ok.I have decided not to visit any other country but at the present time I live on my own.As long as I do I will stay on my own I won't change my mind on the holiday destination or the move.I like snorkelling have done this a couple of times but not in Philippines.My parents are both alive at the moment and I feel I have to say this that at least one of them has a bad outlook on the Philippines although I have not.I may not here the last of it until there gone but this does not stop me dating if I meet (Mrs right)

Filipina women is not for ''everyone'' .. pinays are just like any british women except they are generally more attractive in a very asian way with better figures (unless you prefer the fuller woman) but it has been said before in this forum about meeting women, Why pinay ?... the cost is very prohibitive at the moment... not trying to put you off...just wondering why it defiantly needs to be fillipino ?...Good luck and by the way... we can be bitches also:smile::wink:

[goldyhorn1]

Filipina women is not for ''everyone'' .. pinays are just like any british women except they are generally more attractive in a very asian way with better figures (unless you prefer the fuller woman) but it has been said before in this forum about meeting women, Why pinay ?... the cost is very prohibitive at the moment... not trying to put you off...just wondering why it defiantly needs to be fillipino ?...Good luck and by the way... we can be bitches also:smile::wink:

Yes this was my original post but also on the same thread there is a post saying I'm looking for a woman and not stating where from.

[sars_notd_virus]

Yes this was my original post but also on the same thread there is a post saying I'm looking for a woman and not stating where from.

Cool thats correct u can actually live in Ph without marrying a filipina.. goodluck on your endeavours...you made a "fine" choice..
Btw, I rarely known a man who quickly change their mind as you do..you must be lost somewhere??