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[bigtombowski]

Can anyone tell me how to get less stressed, worried, how to not care so much about the things that often :censored: me off? How can i be less angry?
How can i say "bahala na" in difficult circumstances?

I find myself getting into arguments about things that don't matter

can anyone offer me some advice?

thanks
salamat po

tom

[somebody]

I had the same problem when me and the missus was seperated by 8 thousand miles. You really do need to relive de stress.

One of the best is imo to exercise even if its taking a walk or running/cycling round a park. Something repetive i find the best so your mind can wander and think things over. It also normally helps you sleep far easier which if you get more sleep clever doctory people say your mind gets a chance to put things in order etc.

Even if your not the sporty type its worth it for your health both mental and physical.

[bigtombowski]

thanks andy
i joined a gym 4 months ago and still haven't been!

[somebody]

:doh
thanks andy
i joined a gym 4 months ago and still haven't been!


:doh:doh:doh:doh:doh:doh:doh:doh:doh:doh:doh:doh:doh

[bigtombowski]

yeh dude

[Bridget]

I go out for a walk or running when I feel Im over stress. I also have a long bath. Then have my favorite food such as Ice cream and chocolate. Then I watch a comedy DVD. If still I find myself angry, I sit infront of my computer and make my blog, trying to release all the anger inside me, but that blog I just keep in my PC (do not publish it).

[bigtombowski]

wow
ya, that sounds quite like me! lol

i have been depressed all day ... i tried to toughen up ... but it didn't work, so i went for a walk into town, had a coffee, and then came straight home lol ,but i got a comedy DVD in town, so i watched it, had 2 hours of great fun laughing ... then afterwards, the feeling of anxiety came back :(

gosh

maybe i need to see the doctor!

[Bridget]

[QUOTE=bigtombowski;42109]wow
ya, that sounds quite like me! lol

had a coffee

I tried to avoid coffee when Im stress as according to the article I read coffee will get you more stress.

[bigtombowski]

yep it's a depressant and a stressor

[baboyako]

put on weight :xxgrinning--00xx3:

:Erm: no seriously.. something about the stress and fat and stuff..:Cuckoo:

[bigtombowski]

i am 19 stone

[Bridget]

Depends also what cause you stress.
RElationships, Job, Family, Money and etc.
If its about relationship, if you feel upset about her, just be positive, being a LDR is not very easy. Try to read some post about successful LDR. Try to recall those times when you having laughters with her. If you feel you have doubts, try to look from her points of view.

[bigtombowski]

all very hard things to do

[baboyako]

i am 19 stone

:blacklistsmartassHL

[bigtombowski]

huh? u told me to gain weight
i told u i'm already fat
hmmm where exactly did i do wrong?
care to point it out to me?

[Bridget]

all very hard things to do

I hope things get better Tom.

[bigtombowski]

me to bridge

[Bridget]

me to bridge

You will get ovet it, Brother. You are Smart guy.:)

[desRICHARDS]

the last time i got so stress and was asked to rest for three days due to over fatigued and doing this:Cuckoo:while in bed...lol i get to realized lots of things...

what really stressing people is not what the things that sourounds them, those stressors are like a SWITCH ones it was flick ITS ON...:doh who switch it on?ITS US...you need to be aware of what is stressing us...


what i do?i dont :Brick::D i just stop complaining of WHAT I SEE because it makes things more heavy and stressing. 2nd. accept that life is not all as GOOD you want them to be 3rd...and most importantly, dont let the CHILD in you DIE..keep him playing:BouncyHappy: do something worthwile like SENDING ALL THE MEMBERS HERE CHOCOLATES TOM:D OR MAYBE MORE:cwm12:

peace tom:ARsurrender:

[bigtombowski]

thank u for that
now i just don't know if mar isn't answering my call or if there is actually a lack of coverage at present
then i just make myself even more agitated
i get soo stressed that i can't even function right ... and ...
i can just about type now :(
my breathing is forced ...

i really need to visit the doctor tomorrow to make sure i am ok

tom

[Bridget]

[QUOTE=bigtombowski;42125]thank u for that
now i just don't know if mar isn't answering my call or if there is actually a lack of coverage at present

Which part of the country she lives?

[bigtombowski]

bayawan city
Oriental Negros
Visayas

[desRICHARDS]

YOUR OKAY TOM AS FAR AS I KNOW YOUR STILL IN TACT...LOL see, simple things stressing you already, its in your hands how you will stop that...

maybe your gf phone is off battery or maybe she is at work or maybe she is still sleeping or really no coverage..whatever it is JUST ACCEPT the fact that you cant talk to her at the moment but think nad keep it in your heart that she loves you and thinks of you as well and then SLEEP...

or who knows, it must be your phone that really needs HELP and see DOC not YOU...

want me to cheer again for you?lol

[Bridget]

bayawan city
Oriental Negros
Visayas

I see. Sometimes does it happens.

[bigtombowski]

ya ya ya ya!

gosh

i am just feeling overwhelmed with these emotions ... it happens sometimes
although i can tell there is one qualified psychologist reading this

[kimmi]

son ure saying everything is not yet sorted since last time we chat?

[Bridget]

Have a sleep Tom. Im sure things will be OK tomorrow.

[bigtombowski]

nope kimmi
she went offline very quickly
and all day my emotions have been building up

[desRICHARDS]

sorry i cant help it..am a psych graduate...sorry tom ill back off...hehehe

[bigtombowski]

oops ... Des . . .
nope. i wasn't talking about u! lol hehe

i appreciate ur helpful lovely words
i mean one of the people viewing this is a former Psych Prof! lol

sorry for the misunderstanding des

[kimmi]

son just calm down for now, we can easily conclude things and react with the situation but right now we can't do anything about it,ur apart miles away and we're not living near her area so we can't say what's really going on with her..it might be the phone line, it might be she didn't like to answer (well, it depends on the outcome of ur chatitng yesterday), or its ur phone which is really not working..

calm down ok, btw, are u at work now?

[bigtombowski]

i am not working tonight, i return tomorrow ... coz my car was getting fixed, i just got it back :!

[desRICHARDS]

no worries but ill go now papers are waiting for me to be sorted and hope things will be okay for you and gf...goodluckkkkkkkkkkk


paalam

dessie

[bigtombowski]

thank u dessie
salamat po
please do come back here again when u get the chance :) u are fresh air here :D

tom

[kimmi]

ok, pls remember its raining in her area so it will be hard for her to go outside and to have a phone connections.

[bigtombowski]

huh? does the rain affect the connection?

[Bridget]

Tom, remember this ...

"and im so thankful that i have you as my Boyfriend and be my bana soon coz your such a nice man,loyal, loving and respectful too! and i love you as being you babe and thank you so much babe for loving me as who am i!.. thanks a lot babe"

[bigtombowski]

thanks for bringing that to my attention :)
and i know i am a really good BF :)

and hey, i am kind and tenderhearted, or else why would i cry over a silly wee argument we had right?

[Bridget]

thanks for bringing that to my attention :)
and i know i am a really good BF :)

and hey, i am kind and tenderhearted, or else why would i cry over a silly wee argument we had right?


Im sure everything will be alright Brother Tommi.

[bigtombowski]

thank u ate bridge :)

[Bridget]

thank u ate bridge :)

Youre welcome Tommi. I understand how you feel, I`ve been in LDR for many years.

Cheer Up!

[bigtombowski]

thanks again sister

and in another world (a very gray one ... u know wot i'm talking about hehe) another friend is giving me some very DOWN TO EARTH advice! lol

thanks

tom

[bigtombowski]

for the psych experts here

des and kimmi ...

when does love become obsession???

also open to non psych experts lol

[kimmi]

hiya son,

i hope and pray everything will be sorted out between u and mar..

just stay calm and have a rest now..

this is just one of the hurdles of LDR's that will test ur faith and love for each other..

Goodluck son and God bless.:)

[bigtombowski]

thank u mommmi

[LEAHnew]

Relax bro. Tom:) 5 weeks to go you will be Mar's BANA. BTW what is Bana:Erm:

Cheers bro...
Leah

[Missyalice]

Hello Tom! LDR can really be trying. Keep your faith in your relatiosnhip. Hold fast and trust your heart. Everything will be okey.

[ervenescence]

wow
ya, that sounds quite like me! lol

i have been depressed all day ... i tried to toughen up ... but it didn't work, so i went for a walk into town, had a coffee, and then came straight home lol ,but i got a comedy DVD in town, so i watched it, had 2 hours of great fun laughing ... then afterwards, the feeling of anxiety came back :(

gosh

maybe i need to see the doctor!

You need company Bigtom. How its nice to have someone to walked with you, to have a coffee with you and have a laugh watching a comedy DVD with you. Being on your own is not that easy.

[KeithD]

Just fire up Halo or Unreal online, and blow some buggers brains out :)

[kimmi]

hi sis Leah,

Bana means Asawa in Visaya..:)

[LEAHnew]

hi sis Leah,

Bana means Asawa in Visaya..:)

Thanks sis and regards to your Bana to be:)
Goodluck:xxgrinning--00xx3:

[kimmi]

thanks mare..he he he:)

[Gie]

oh dear! T dude is in trouble? lol

[kimmi]

how are u son?

hope everything is sorted with u already..:)

[bigtombowski]

do u notice anything diffferent?

[Missyalice]

Why did you change your signature Tom? "Notice anything different?"

[Bridget]

do u notice anything diffferent?

Hi Brother Tommi, Did you managed to get some sleep?

[bigtombowski]

because if u remember what it was ....

it doesnt' apply anymore

[kimmi]

yes Ive notice something son,u dont have ur signature now..

where does ur Bana goes?

[bigtombowski]

i got a little sleep
then i called marivic
and talked for 15 secs, before she HUNG UP on me

[Bridget]

i got a little sleep
then i called marivic
and talked for 15 secs, before she HUNG UP on me


Oh Brother Tom, Im sorry to hear that.

[Missyalice]

Im sorry to hear that Tom, don’t give up yet! if you truly think she is the one, you will really end up together, but it takes work and effort and getting threw problems to make it there.

[bigtombowski]

hey, there's been almost 9 months' work and effort . . . and i am fed up now

[joebloggs]

oh bigtom :NoNo:, yes your signature has gone :yikes:, what happened? you took tooo long to see her or shes worried that the date of you meeting is near ??? , its not over til the fat lady sings, i went thru this many times with the misses, and we still got married in the end :xxgrinning--00xx3: :cwm24::doh

[bigtombowski]

well ...
i'm not sure i want to deal with this anymore

i spend lots of money to call her

the least she can do is say bye before she slams the fone ...
and also ...

i said "do u still love me" ... and she did NOT answer
she just hung up

[Peanutz]

hey, there's been almost 9 months' work and effort . . . and i am fed up now

Trouble, trouble!

There is no time scale that can measure a relationship to make it work. It might take a whole life.

If the effort worth it, you can move mountains, if not, just end it.

I hope you can manage your emotions more efficiently Tom.

[bigtombowski]

nope
pea, i will not be hung up on
too much disrespect

[Bridget]

well ...
i'm not sure i want to deal with this anymore

i spend lots of money to call her

the least she can do is say bye before she slams the fone ...
and also ...

i said "do u still love me" ... and she did NOT answer
she just hung up

Hi Brother Tom,
Having a row or argument does happen to us as well. In any relationship sometimes theres ups and downs. Maybe just give yourself and her a bit space, let each other think of what had happend on the last 24 hours. Im sure if she realised if its her fault then she will make a way to ask for apology and if its your fault you have to admit your mistake and reconcilliate. I dont know exactly what had happend, but I don`t think you will not come to this point, as you said nine months, if you didn`t really care to each other.
I know how it feels, Tom Ive been through all these, but Im still here through the years, as I do believe that if you love someone and if you know that she loves you ,too you will not let her go. It should be you and her against the world. Try to look at from her point of view. Maybe she didnt mean to hung the phone, maybe theres other reasons.
I remember when my fiance and I have rows and he was very cross and raised his voiced, as I couldn`t stand to talk to someone who se shouting at me, I did hang up the telephone. He keeps sending me txt messages but I just ignored it, until he realised his fault and ask for apology in his email and then we start to talk again.
Yesterday, you were asking about the angry management, so I assumed that you get angry to her. Please do not misundertood me, your a good man in this forum and it seems you did contribute a lot of good post and advice in this forum,so we just trying to help you.
Anyway, it is your life. whatever it is , I hope you find peace and joy in your heart. Cheer up Brother Tommi.

[bigtombowski]

thanks for ur nice long reply
i don't think i was angry til today
after she hung up

now i am really mad :)

[KeithD]

Just phone her up...and when she answers.....hang up....:) Make YOU feel better :icon_lol:

[bigtombowski]

haha
sounds like a plan keith

[ervenescence]

It takes a lot of patience and efforts to make the relationship works, especially in a long distance relationship. Theres a lot of things to consider.

Take your time, calm yourself down.

[robeth]

can i butt in? just bored and cold here....hehehe...

if she hungs up, only one thing is CLEAR

SHE DOESNT

[robeth]

oppppssss...


SHE DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO YOU! period.


Now you can vent...

and wait.

then maybe read the Dalai Lama book? :)

he's very practical, you know..

[somebody]

Geezer after a quick scan of the messages its been a busy day and all that.

Geez don't call her take a break and chill.

At first it will be tough stop beating your self up.

Shes having tampo best way imo to deal with it is to do it back and better. Trust me i can not talk for days if needed.

Best to say nothing you might regret, i thought when i have an arguement its all, over two hours later we are all happy again.

Have a chill pill and zip de lips.

[IanB]

Prozac.

[kimmi]

Son,

the best thing for u to do now is to stay calm..Less talk, less mistakes..Remember, it takes two to tango..

I remember my grandfather always tell me this one, it is a very good advise and i am sure u can relate too son..

"don't talk too much when u are mad, u might say things u don't meant to say, making decision takes time, don't rush, Life is like a chess game One wrong move and ur game is all messed up.."

[bigtombowski]

Geezer after a quick scan of the messages its been a busy day and all that.

Geez don't call her take a break and chill.

At first it will be tough stop beating your self up.

Shes having tampo best way imo to deal with it is to do it back and better. Trust me i can not talk for days if needed.

Best to say nothing you might regret, i thought when i have an arguement its all, over two hours later we are all happy again.

Have a chill pill and zip de lips.







how long in ur humble opinion mr somebody (andy) does this crap last? coz i got sent home from work early and i am out of my rag with it all!

tom

[bornatbirth]

tom,you really have to get used to her tantrums its part of there make up lol,
i think when they get mad they're like 5 year old kids having a fit but they're grown women!
u both must of had arguments before? how long did these last before she started talking again?

there must be a reason why this happened? just dont fight fire with fire.

that time of the month my gf can go nuts,when shes tired and grumpy guess what she takes it out on me,there are times im shocked at what she says to me! but i never get mad back at her,i always stay calm and tell her i love her!

so whatever happens just stay calm theres no point in getting mad too!

[KeithD]

Just txt her, simply say "Sorry for other night", and leave it at that for 2 days.

If you pay Kimmi 5000 pesos, she call her for you...... :)

[somebody]

how long in ur humble opinion mr somebody (andy) does this crap last? coz i got sent home from work early and i am out of my rag with it all!

tom


How long is a piece of string i dont know Mars, but don't let it mess with you.

Like Mr admin says a quick sms or email nothing overboard then two days break on your side.

If i were you tonight i would go out see friends or watch a film or two you enjoy. Particularly if you intend to have a few beers, either dont take your mobile or delete Mars number for the evening so you don't feel the urge to call or text. Brahmeds up calling/texting is not a good way forward as im sure your aware.

Let her chill and you chill dont bug her and bug yourself.

[bigtombowski]

umm because i was doing night shift on work i hmm didn't like do any of what u told me sadly! grrr

i didn't get to meet with friends, I texted her announcing i was gonna call her, i called her, she didn't answer ... and so it continues

... but again ... there's only so much i would be willing to take lol

and deleting her number from my fone?
grrr
i know that number better than my own number! lol

[kimmi]

how are u son?did she talked to u already?

[bigtombowski]

nope!
well, she did then hung up lol
i am buzzing u on YM lol

[kimmi]

Just txt her, simply say "Sorry for other night", and leave it at that for 2 days.

If you pay Kimmi 5000 pesos, she call her for you...... :)


well Boss, I wonder if tommi did say sorry to her already..:doh:NoNo:

and oh I called up Mar already without Tom paying me 5000pesos,so tommi u owe me one now..he he he:Rasp::Rasp::icon_lol:

[kimmi]

sorry chuck is using my ym

we already talked last night

[somebody]

umm because i was doing night shift on work i hmm didn't like do any of what u told me sadly! grrr

i didn't get to meet with friends, I texted her announcing i was gonna call her, i called her, she didn't answer ... and so it continues

... but again ... there's only so much i would be willing to take lol

and deleting her number from my fone?
grrr
i know that number better than my own number! lol

Look at it the other way if you needed a bit of space and the missus kept bugging you it might pee you off a little.

If you remebr the number then don't take your phone with you. I guess im differnt can't remebr my age let alone phone numbers, thank god for speed dial.

[charlwill]

Hhmm... did you try to examine yourself? maybe you're asking too much and giving to much pressure on her that she can't handle anymore and she feels suffocated with all this pressure in her life. In a relationship, it should be give and take and must have loads of understanding. Give her space to breath and think.

[bigtombowski]

thank u for your input charlwill

[somebody]

Hhmm... did you try to examine yourself? maybe you're asking too much and giving to much pressure on her that she can't handle anymore and she feels suffocated with all this pressure in her life. In a relationship, it should be give and take and must have loads of understanding. Give her space to breath and think.

Very well put charwill, if i remeber corretly Mars has a full time job with fairly long hours?

Ask anyone on here or in your circle of friends and they will say sometimes they just need some personal space or at least a change.
I know its happened to me and read of others on here who it has happened to.

The Pinays on here im sure can fill you in. The prospect of someone you care about deeply is coming into sight before it was months off. Will it work out, will he like me? What happens if blah blah. This is what happened to my Wife before she first met me.

[bigtombowski]

if u remember right she has a full time job with long hours?
ummm

not anymore
she left last month
to concentrate on PREPARING FOR MY ARRIVAL! lol

[bigtombowski]

and i got a job with long hours too :D
i still made the effort

[somebody]

if u remember right she has a full time job with long hours?
ummm

not anymore
she left last month
to concentrate on PREPARING FOR MY ARRIVAL! lol
Blimey takes her longer to put on her warpaint than my missus does and thats only to tescos:omg: thank god for 24 hour shops i say:icon_lol:

[bigtombowski]

hahahaha
funny funny lol

hehe

[Bridget]

Hi Brother Tommi,
If you remember , once you wrote a blog about how much you love Mar. I just read that Blog and honestly it was touching.

[bigtombowski]

aw thank u

[somebody]

More importantly who send me rep Tommmmmmmmmmmmmmmm:cwm23::cwm24:

Some one derep me quicccckly

[Bridget]

I dont think she meant that to refuse your love, you said that she gave up her job to concentrate herself on preparing for your arrival.

[somebody]

I dont think she meant that to refuse your love, you said that she gave up her job to concentrate herself on preparing for your arrival.

Exactly a far bigger statment of intention in the Phillpines than the UK belive me and if you don't just ask the Ladies on here.

[bigtombowski]

well ... i didn't rep u andy
but i THOUGHT about it
i thought it'd be funny
but someone else did seriously
u can give it to me if u want ;)

[KeithD]

it should be give and take and must have loads of understanding

We understand that we give.......the Filipina takes :icon_lol:

[bigtombowski]

lol

[somebody]

well ... i didn't rep u andy
but i THOUGHT about it
i thought it'd be funny
but someone else did seriously
u can give it to me if u want ;)


Mr admin can you pass my rep on to Tom please i don't want to be repped:bigcry:

[bigtombowski]

hehe

[KeithD]

.... i don't want to be repped:bigcry:

Did he say 'repped'? :Erm:

[somebody]

Did he say 'repped'? :Erm:


:omg:

[bigtombowski]

i'll let ur wife take care of that ;)

[somebody]

i'll let ur wife take care of that ;)

LOL im married im as likely to get rep of my Wife as she is to say "Somebody i don't want to go shopping on my day off ".

[bigtombowski]

lol
i've now got a minefield of humour to p155take out of u :D
hehe

[somebody]

lol
i've now got a minefield of humour to p155take out of u :D
hehe

Lucky i got a metal detector:icon_lol:

[somebody]

well ... i didn't rep u andy
but i THOUGHT about it
i thought it'd be funny
but someone else did seriously
u can give it to me if u want ;)
I have found the repper it wasn't you im sorry Tom:D Please don't sue me
for all my skyflakes:omg:

[bigtombowski]

just for that, im gonna rep u :D lol ;)

[sabb]

Nobody will hung up on you if YOU did nothing wrong.

[kimmi]

I agree with u Sabb, that is very true..

[KeithD]

So it's all Tom's fault? :xxgrinning--00xx3: Do we stone him to death, or burn him.....if the latter can we throw some spuds on the fire? :D

[somebody]

So it's all Tom's fault? :xxgrinning--00xx3: Do we stone him to death, or burn him.....if the latter can we throw some spuds on the fire? :D

No burning its bad for our carbon footprint:NoNo:

[kimmi]

no not at all Boss, i just hope he realized that if u really love somebody u shouldn't expect them to reciprocate what u have given to them..

[somebody]

just for that, im gonna rep u :D lol ;)

oii no

[somebody]

Nobody will hung up on you if YOU did nothing wrong.


Like a double glazing sales person:Erm: maybe i should just ring them back and say i dont dislike them just i was eating my dinner and we really dont need a consevatory on our flat.

[KeithD]

Double glazing salemen do conservatories as a sideline now then? :)

[somebody]

This one was i guess its a double glazed one.

[bigtombowski]

everything will be ok

[KeithD]

and no - win2win ... it's not the light of an oncoming train lol ;)

Actually...I thought it was Mark :action-smiley-081: :yikes:

[bigtombowski]

hahahahahahaaaa!
mark is a lovely man :) he deserves a great girl :D

[ervenescence]

---The END---

[bigtombowski]

interesting post erve lol

[kimmi]

second the motion Erve..:)

[kimmi]

wot do u want to end son?

[bigtombowski]

kimmi,
please lets make things clear
no need for mind games

[kimmi]

nobody is giving u mind games..

whatever u wanted to end it's up to u..but for me its the end of my waiting game..:)

[joebloggs]

oh never say never, and its not over til the fat lady sings :xxgrinning--00xx3:
been there 100 times over the years, still ended up getting married and err, 2wks today, we've been married 5 years :yikes: :D

[aromulus]

thanks for ur nice long reply
i don't think i was angry til today
after she hung up

now i am really mad :)


Cool down, boy...:rolleyes:

It is the testosterone and the Paddy temper that are blinding your line of thought.:doh

If it happens again don't it doesn't mean that she loves any less. Probably it is the only self-defence weapon in her arsenal that hasn't been de-activated.

Been there.... Done it, like many others before me and many others after... It sucks.
It is called LDR...

Don't disappoint me because I am looking forward to see what a freckled face, red haired 1/2 irish and 1/2 pinoy kid will eventually look like....:Erm:

[bigtombowski]

hahahahah

cool luigi! thank you

...

please read the "Marivic and I" thread dom :D

[ervenescence]

wot do u want to end son?

The end of the first chapter of the book and proceed to another one.

Tom im pleased that you made up with Marivic. Forget and forgive, you know life can be a rollercoaster. Its good that you gave it another go :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[bigtombowski]

thank u erve
i am so so so glad i did :D
now we are continuing our story of love and life :D

t

[kimmi]

Chapter 1 of book 2..

Love story of TOMMI and MAR..

[bigtombowski]

hehe :D

this is the chapter that goes on :D yay

[Bridget]

hehe :D

this is the chapter that goes on :D yay

Hi Tom,
Do you remember this replied to your post when you were very upset? Do you think am I right now? :)

Depends also what cause you stress.
RElationships, Job, Family, Money and etc.
If its about relationship, if you feel upset about her, just be positive, being a LDR is not very easy. Try to read some post about successful LDR. Try to recall those times when you having laughters with her. If you feel you have doubts, try to look from her points of view.
__________________

[bigtombowski]

hehe
yes ate bridge and thank u for being there for me ... a true friend :D

thank u

tom

[Bridget]

hehe
yes ate bridge and thank u for being there for me ... a true friend :D

thank u

tom

It is my pleasure Mister. Im sure you re very excited that you re coming to see her...:icon_lol:

[bigtombowski]

i can't explain the excitement i have :D

it's overwhelming :D
t

[Bridget]

i can't explain the excitement i have :D

it's overwhelming :D
t

:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol: and Mar is starting marking her calendar :icon_lol::icon_lol:

[bigtombowski]

yes hehehe

let's see, 15th - be with Tom, 16th- Be with Tom, 17th - Be with Tom, 18th - Be with Tom


well ...

u get the idea :D

t

[Bridget]

yes hehehe

let's see, 15th - be with Tom, 16th- Be with Tom, 17th - Be with Tom, 18th - Be with Tom


well ...

u get the idea :D

t

then 19th bye bye Tom:bigcry::bigcry:

[bigtombowski]

nope :D hehe

she got about 26 - or is it 27 - days to mark as "Be With Tom" ...

then .... after that ....

"go to airport with tom and say goodbye to tom for a few months"!

awwwwww

[Bridget]

nope :D hehe

she got about 26 - or is it 27 - days to mark as "Be With Tom" ...

then .... after that ....

"go to airport with tom and say goodbye to tom for a few months"!

awwwwww

I was just joking...:icon_lol::icon_lol::icon_lol: so you`ll spend christmas here? woowww...

[bigtombowski]

yes

imagine the party

4 celebrations

1) my birthday - christmas eve
2)lolo's birthday - christmas eve
3)our engagement party -same time
4)Christmas celebrations :D

so does this mean i need 4 lechon baboy? ;)

[Bridget]

hahahahha wow thats great......can I have some lechon, too? please...

[bigtombowski]

we'll get back to talkin about the lechon flavoured connies ;) hehehe

[Bridget]

hahahaha. must think the best slogan for that first..

[bigtombowski]

lechon flavoured connies ... = "for that ULTIMATE celebration" ;)

[Bridget]

hahahahahaha not bad

[bigtombowski]

hehe can u think of a better one? ;)

[Bridget]

Ive got to go to bed now. I`ll think about it.

[bigtombowski]

well my friend
sleep well :D

ingat
tulog na hehehe

byebye