stevewool
20th July 2016, 20:52
Regret's we all have them, and deep thinking are they the same do you think,
Just lately i have been having the same thoughts, a child between us,
It will soon be 6 years since Emma came to England so if we had planned to have a child they may have been either 6 or even younger,
My second grandchild was born on our wedding day so in a way he could be our child, he does bring joy to us both and Emma is great with him, she has so much time for him where i after a few minutes of why why why why WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY grandad i am ready to say bye bye, :biggrin:
Our life is very good and having that child we would not be able to do the things we have done and are wanting to do and i do know that many will say you manage and its the best thing that can happen and it makes your life complete too, and i agree too, but you both have to want that child and plan for that child too.
So are there any regrets , NO, deep thinking YES , Emma's content, she loves work, sends money to her dad, has nice things and she has me her big baby , i have offered to get her a budgie but trying to explain what one is i gave up and said i would get her some love birds instead .
Just lately i have been having the same thoughts, a child between us,
It will soon be 6 years since Emma came to England so if we had planned to have a child they may have been either 6 or even younger,
My second grandchild was born on our wedding day so in a way he could be our child, he does bring joy to us both and Emma is great with him, she has so much time for him where i after a few minutes of why why why why WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY grandad i am ready to say bye bye, :biggrin:
Our life is very good and having that child we would not be able to do the things we have done and are wanting to do and i do know that many will say you manage and its the best thing that can happen and it makes your life complete too, and i agree too, but you both have to want that child and plan for that child too.
So are there any regrets , NO, deep thinking YES , Emma's content, she loves work, sends money to her dad, has nice things and she has me her big baby , i have offered to get her a budgie but trying to explain what one is i gave up and said i would get her some love birds instead .