7 months of bf/gf...

[trina]

My husband and I met in dating sites last october 2007 and from then we start talking every night and been a routine of our everyday life... during then we felt that we LOVE each other soooo much that we are comfortable and perfect for each other even we didn't even see each other personally.. and spend the rest of our life together...He booked his flight then to come and see me for the first time and also to get married to me....before he went here we've been planning and arranging documents for our wedding..and everything done as we've planned...and We are so happy to become one...

My only question is being in a short engagement and first time saw each other can make an application refuse???

[Mrs.JMajor]

NO,based on what i read on the forum trina...been a member here January 2008 i kept reading and as what other members says w/ their success visa,its not how many months u know each other,its how u gonna prove that u had a genuine relationship:cwm38:

anyway,good luck to you:)

[trina]

NO,based on what i read on the forum trina...been a member here January 2008 i kept reading and as what other members says w/ their success visa,its not how many months u know each other,its how u gonna prove that u had a genuine relationship:cwm38:

anyway,good luck to you:)

thanks jedc143..

i'm sure we can prove the Entry clearance officer that we do have a genuine relationship.... "HOPE sooo"...:) fingers cross

hope we receive our VISA this week...good luck!

[benb]

My husband and I met in dating sites last october 2007 and from then we start talking every night and been a routine of our everyday life... during then we felt that we LOVE each other soooo much that we are comfortable and perfect for each other even we didn't even see each other personally.. and spend the rest of our life together...He booked his flight then to come and see me for the first time and also to get married to me....before he went here we've been planning and arranging documents for our wedding..and everything done as we've planned...and We are so happy to become one...

My only question is being in a short engagement and first time saw each other can make an application refuse???

Hi Trina, I also met my wife in Oct 2007 in Manila for the first time by chance. We got engaged on New Year and married in April 2008. She applied for spouse visa in May 2008. She is now in her 9th week and waiting.

I suppose its the relationship evidence that matters.

Best Wishes,
Ben B

[trina]

hi ben b

thanks for that...i hope me and your wife will get our VISA this week...and i read that your wife is pregnant congratulations....:)

[benb]

Many Thanks Trina.

I'm sure that its only a matter of time for all us. However, I still think that it will take 12 weeks, maybe more due to the recent embassy relocation and numerous other applications.

My guess is that there are additional background checks in place to fight terrorism threats.

Best Wishes,
Ben B

[trina]

Many Thanks Trina.

I'm sure that its only a matter of time for all us. However, I still think that it will take 12 weeks, maybe more due to the recent embassy relocation and numerous other applications.

My guess is that there are additional background checks in place to fight terrorism threats.

Best Wishes,
Ben B

NO don't think like that...12 weeks is fair enough...i don't think i can take another days or even months to wait...:bigcry:

[Sconnie]

we hAve been waiting for more than 7 weeks now.missing my husband too so much
wish we have our visa soon.good luck to everyone

[trina]

yep sconnie...its really hard to think that we're not with our love one..especially in this stressful waiting... well its my 3rd weeks of waiting today...

we will get our VISA this week... I'm sure of that...

[Sconnie]

hopefully trina,cant wait another week or month being away from my husband
btw where are you in PI?

[trina]

Batangas City... what about you??? when did you got married??? still working???

[Sconnie]

we got married april 8 2008,i lodge my appliction last may 22nd,im in manila right now

[trina]

ahhh...well we got married last may 13, 2008...I was planning then to submit my application first week of june...but because of the MC in Secpa paper...(NSO waiting game) i had to handed in my application last june 23, 2008... but where exactly are you in PI??

[Sconnie]

malate,same as mine,had go back to NSO office several times

[trina]

ahh ok...are you still working??? what profession???

[Sconnie]

im not working anymore.how about you?

[Sconnie]

what part of uk you are going to?

[trina]

Lancashire.... nope..just recently working as a nurse but then i had to stop to spend most of my time with our wedding before and my application....
what about you???

[Sim11UK]

I met my girlfriend in oct. 2007 too, must be a lucky month.
I've been to see her once & hoping to go again, beginning of october.
We're not engaged or anything yet, but we get on so well, so who knows?

Good luck! to all. :)

[trina]

hi sim11uk..
well good luck... i'm sure you'll never regret being with a filipina...

[Sconnie]

i only worked as a cashier in a computer shop and accesories.

[trina]

that's a nice job...
anyway i really do hope that we get our VISA this week....for us to be with our love one...
it really drives me crazy...hehehe....

[trina]

where are you going in UK??

[Sconnie]

yes,driving us all crazy
my husband is in newcastle.
hope we can meet there when we get our visa
hehehe

[trina]

yep we will...we have to set a date for that...ahh ok my husband is a graduate of newcastle university...he is a lawyer....what about yours???

[Sconnie]

my husband is working in siemens.he is an engineer

[Sconnie]

im really praying hard for us to get our visa soon,anyway im vanessa

[trina]

a nice profession too.... well good luck to us....

[IainBusby]

My husband and I met in dating sites last october 2007 and from then we start talking every night and been a routine of our everyday life... during then we felt that we LOVE each other soooo much that we are comfortable and perfect for each other even we didn't even see each other personally.. and spend the rest of our life together...He booked his flight then to come and see me for the first time and also to get married to me....before he went here we've been planning and arranging documents for our wedding..and everything done as we've planned...and We are so happy to become one...

My only question is being in a short engagement and first time saw each other can make an application refuse???

Just make sure you have saved all of your chat logs as this will help you prove that although you hadn't met before he came there to marry you, you had been communicating on a daily basis.

Cheers,
Iain.

[trina]

thanks Iain...

yep i already did that...i saved it all from day 1 until now..because i'm just not using it as an evidence but also as a souvenir of our love story that in the future are children to be can read that...

i printed that all and book bound it every month so i submitted that book of chats from october 2007 to june2008

and even emails and text messages

[Sconnie]

that was very sweet trina.he i very lucky to have you

[trina]

thanks sconnie

I am very lucky too...he is a perfect gentleman, honest,thoughtful,caring,intelligent, family oriented, LOVING, HAndsome..lol husband... I'm very proud that I'm Mrs. Leach and no one will replace my hubby...

[trina]

or should I say we both lucky to have each other.... that is the line he used to mention...

[Sconnie]

how old are you and your husband sis?

[trina]

hehehe... I'm 22 and he is 29.... what about you sis???
well i'm turning 23 this 28 of july

[Sim11UK]

hi sim11uk..
well good luck... i'm sure you'll never regret being with a filipina...

Hi again, thanks!...Absolutely no regrets. Filipinas are the best! :)

[trina]

yep...so what are you waiting for?????lol

[Sim11UK]

yep...so what are you waiting for?????lol

Haha! :) Watch this space :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[trina]

hehehehe... yeah right......

[Terrielicious]

I met my girlfriend in oct. 2007 too, must be a lucky month.
I've been to see her once & hoping to go again, beginning of october.
We're not engaged or anything yet, but we get on so well, so who knows?

Good luck! to all. :)
:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:
I met my bf in the Phils Oct 2007 too, must be a lucky month

[islander]

My husband and I met in dating sites last october 2007 and from then we start talking every night and been a routine of our everyday life... during then we felt that we LOVE each other soooo much that we are comfortable and perfect for each other even we didn't even see each other personally.. and spend the rest of our life together...He booked his flight then to come and see me for the first time and also to get married to me....before he went here we've been planning and arranging documents for our wedding..and everything done as we've planned...and We are so happy to become one...

My only question is being in a short engagement and first time saw each other can make an application refuse???

hi trina!

I do think that length of the relationship doesn't really matter much in visa application, as long as its proven to be genuine, then it's fine. I have known of a friend who just met her fiance in phils. by chance last feb. 2008, after that they have decided to pursue their relationship, so my friend applied for her fiance visa on april 2008, & so lucky enough, she got her visa on june 2008 without interview. Hope this experience makes you less worried!

Good Luck!

[benb]

That is really a fast track relationship :)

[KeithD]

That is really a fast track relationship :)
Not in Liverpool, we usually get them pregnant before asking their name....It's polite :xxgrinning--00xx3:

[vbkelly]

or should I say we both lucky to have each other.... that is the line he used to mention...

my husband always says to me why you don't text me earlier like early 20's of age bcoz we meet by text late 20's and we both the same age,we are now 35

[trina]

hi trina!

I do think that length of the relationship doesn't really matter much in visa application, as long as its proven to be genuine, then it's fine. I have known of a friend who just met her fiance in phils. by chance last feb. 2008, after that they have decided to pursue their relationship, so my friend applied for her fiance visa on april 2008, & so lucky enough, she got her visa on june 2008 without interview. Hope this experience makes you less worried!

Good Luck!

thanks for that islander...
that is soooo lucky...
its a relief...hehehe.... how i wish i can get my visa this week...and ofcourse all the couples here that been waiting so long....

[aug06_2006]

Hello, Trina n Sconnie! good luck both of u..

[Sconnie]

thanks aug06 2006.i hope and pray i will have the visa soon.
anyway where are you in uk?

[trina]

thanks aug06 2006.... hoping this week...

[trina]

hi sis sconnie...

[Sconnie]

hello.any news with your visa?

[trina]

not yet...grrrrr.... well still hoping that I will receive a phone call this week to pick up my passport...

[Sconnie]

me too sis,good luck to us

[benb]

Folks, we got to be realistic. ;)

[Sim11UK]

:xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3::xxgrinning--00xx3:
I met my bf in the Phils Oct 2007 too, must be a lucky month

Definately lucky :xxgrinning--00xx3:...Long may it continue :)

[trina]

Folks, we got to be realistic. ;)

you're right...

but WE HAVE TO BE POSITIVE ALL THE TIME also

[flomike]

I met my husband online. We chat for about 8 months then he finally meet me and engaged after 5 months he's back again and we got married.

I lodge my application and waited 3 months for my interview but on the spot I got my visa (that was 5 years ago) I guess its different now for what Im reading.

so good luck to everyone waiting for their visa!!!

[telford]

hi trina, as long as you submit all the documents that the ECO ask, then you have no problem:)

[trina]

thanks telford..

I'm sure that i submitted everything....

[dondi]

thanks Iain...

yep i already did that...i saved it all from day 1 until now..because i'm just not using it as an evidence but also as a souvenir of our love story that in the future are children to be can read that...

i printed that all and book bound it every month so i submitted that book of chats from october 2007 to june2008

and even emails and text messages


Impressive! And to think that you are already looking in the future with your kids-to-be :xxgrinning--00xx3:

I wish both of you all the best and I hope you get the visa that you sooooo deserve..

[trina]

Impressive! And to think that you are already looking in the future with your kids-to-be :xxgrinning--00xx3:

I wish both of you all the best and I hope you get the visa that you sooooo deserve..

THANK you sooooooo much for that....:BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy::BouncyHappy: