Hi USA. First thanks for the compliment you gave my missus..yes there is something quite nice when they look preggy...Your predicament above is just like mine..Nisa cannot afford to ring me or text me...but will not accept any money for the cards or load as she calls it..(but I insist that I pay for her living expenses and pay for the the birth of our baby in October)..we talk once a day for 1 hour on the internet and I text her each day also...I hate to say this my friend, but you will have to get used to calling your ladyfriend and not have her call you if she cannot afford it...I found out long ago that there are lot's and lot's of Filipino ladies who get uptight when they are compared with anyone who will take their boyfriends for granted or anything like that..Just keep the Status Quo....My friend..you have a pure gem there..don't worry about you ringing her and she not you...Just be glad she gets in touch with you as and when she can...I have a feeling it could be the start of a wonderful romance...God bless and good luck to you both.