Cheers boss. That is a good idea too. I don't want them to be enemies, but I don't want them to be bosom pals either. Maybe he is trying to find reasons to find her.
We were planning on staying at her place 1 or 2 nights - maybe it is better if I stay at a hotel in these circumstances.
Good Plan! Stay at a good secure hotel in the centre of the city. If she lives out in the sticks, hire a driver for the day when you go to visit.
Iain.