Quote Originally Posted by ivor&mel
Tommy,

You're right: convincing the Embassy that a Filipina will return after a tourist trip is extremely difficult. But put all that behind you. I have to say again: don't rush it! Yes, there is a shedload of information to digest, so make sure you both understand what lies ahead.

You got engaged after just knowing each other for 2 months? I think that's a short time in the eyes of the Embassy. Indeed, your whole relationship is just 5 months. I'd suggest taking time to consolidate the relationship further before making a move towards a settlement visa. I know it's a pain, but so would be another refusal. You don't have to convince yourselves or people on the forum about your relationship, but you do have to convince the Embassy.
Well put Ivor.

The application process is tough as you are both in love but seperated and like all of us who have gone though the process already. Will find it a testing time.
You need to take the application as a project, fille all paperwork, research everything, double check all the plans you have and of course all the information regarding the visa application.

Try to look at your application impartially ask people on this site, we are not experts but have all gained knowledge and experince on this subject. My family and friends all wanted to help, but none had any experince on this matter.

Ivor is right you both need to dicuss in depth your furture and plan what to do.

Like others have said this and petes site have loads of invaluable infomation and insights. But make sure you ask all the questions that are nagging you, everyone on this site will try and help you i know this for sure