Wanted Gentleman...

[keithAngel]

I totally disagree, an introduction is just that, an introduction. What happens after that is up to the two people who have been introduced. She is not trying to sell her sister, she is mearly trying to introduce her to a prospective husband.

If anyone is interested and does reply to her posting in that way and an introduction happens, the chemistry will either work or it won't. Even if they only meet online, there will have to be a certain amount of physical attraction and personal chemistry for the two people to want to pursue the relationship beyond online chatting and emails etc.

Iain.

but Ian dream partners are so much less demanding than real ones

[IainBusby]

but Ian dream partners are so much less demanding than real ones

There are many members on this forum, including myself, who first met there wives, fiancees or gf's online and I don't think many of them would have looked upon them as just "dream partners", by whick I assume you mean "unreal".

There has to be something real there for both partners, a genuine attraction Especially for the man (most often) who is eventually prepared to fly 6,000 miles to a strange third world country to meet his cyber gfand move things on to another level.

I also know from girls I have spoken to and from postings on this site, how hard the girls work on preparation for the arrival of their, "up until now" cyber bf, quite often losing much needed earnings and even borrowing money to make everthing perfect for him. There has to something there for both parties before each would decide to take things this far.


Iain.

[keithAngel]

There are many members on this forum, including myself, who first met there wives, fiancees or gf's online and I don't think many of them would have looked upon them as just "dream partners", by whick I assume you mean "unreal".

There has to be something real there for both partners, a genuine attraction Especially for the man (most often) who is eventually prepared to fly 6,000 miles to a strange third world country to meet his cyber gfand move things on to another level.

I also know from girls I have spoken to and from postings on this site, how hard the girls work on preparation for the arrival of their, "up until now" cyber bf, quite often losing much needed earnings and even borrowing money to make everthing perfect for him. There has to something there for both parties before each would decide to take things this far.


Iain.

I agree about to do it myself after more than a thousand cyber hours mostly of skype calls

Dream partner was a somewhat tounge in cheek remark first used by Anna-May

I suspect that the vast majority of cyber relationships never meet in reality and only when they do does it become real beyond the projections of both sides clearly here there is a much higher percentage of relationship beyond chatting online by the nature of the forum .

I wonder what percentage of commited relationships here met on line first?

Present company excepted (this means every one here) the common attraction you refer to may in the odd case be Sex and Security

Its a tough medium to establish a genuine life partner and one has to be lucky , which is great or very persistant hopefully thats all of us right