Quote Originally Posted by Welsh_Italian View Post
What would everyone advise? What ever I choose, there is a terrible consequence. Being apart will be tremendously hard, and not just for my wife. But I also have to provide for them - they are entirely my responsibility and making sure they are fed and clothed and the bills are paid is my life's duty. On the other hand, it will be easier to get investment while I'm in the UK.
i understand how you feel. im a filipina who came to UK cos of work. it broke my heart to leave my 2 children behind. i cried on sleepless nights thinking of them. how could a mother leave her young children behind? but i had to, so i fought the guilt, the loneliness. so i planned and prepared so i can get them to come over here. after three years of sacrifice, on their part specially, although i went home on 2006, leaving them again was an ordeal. 3 weeks more and im going to the Philippines, coming back with a smile and with my 2 children...no more tears

a british like you can make things happen faster. hope things will be better for you and you family.