hello,
we have the same status visa. my visa will be expired by november but im getting married this month. i dont think you can go home as what i understand. coz after you get married here the next step will be you have to apply for another extension for your visa which is you have to change to spousal visa. we all want to go home to spend christmas there but since we chose to come here to be with your love ones and be legalized so we have to hang on. we can just go home and visit someday. by the way congratulations to you.