i think we (filipinoes abroad) all share that burden of helping our family back home. its a culture that we all cant escapre, i guess.
my husband doesnt mind me doing it as long as its my own money. by that, he means my salary. he doesnt mind paying for evrything here but if i want to send money back home, i have to work. fair enough.. i dont complain. its the best arrangement, there is.