Well from doing some more digging it may seem that if the spouse has ILR visa, then it means if the marriage has broken down, then the spouse loses his/her right to stay, which although is ok for me, i wouldn't be that bad to her, and have her chucked out lol
Sometimes marriages break down, as that's life, and of course i will see her right!

Will keep u guys updated reference to the ILR thing.

Is only 4 or so months before I go to see Hanzell in the phils, and i can't wait

Third time lucky as they say



Philip