My G/F earns about 10,000 a month

4000 rent
1500 electric
1000 internet

whats left pays for jeepny food ect (she gets fed at work)

my thoughts are to rent a better place and start with doubling that budjet and see what happens

Doonat you electric projection is at least 55kw per day wow and water more than current rent fuel costs 650 miles a month