Gerrod Parrot draws attention to the distinct thoughts and feelings that occur in jealousy and envy. [10] [15] [16] The experience of jealousy involves:
- Fear of loss
- Suspicion or anger about betrayal
- Low self-esteem and sadness over loss
- Uncertainty and loneliness
- Fear of losing an important person to an attractive other
- Distrust
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jealousy_definitions
Nothing to do with love whatever asis the opposite of this list of attributes