Cheating Is Disease

[amyburple]

Why MEN cheats? What do you think the REASONS? It's just they want to have Multiple partners or they are not contented with their PARTNERS... Why not tell the truth to the PARTNER! WHY CHEAT....

I have friends that are UNFAITHFUL to their PARTNER... I feels so bad! I feel sorry to their PARTNER, It's bad to judge people but then your only human and you can really judge on their lifestyle on their doings.... So MANY WHY'S???? The worst scenario is WOMEN is ALSO CHEATING. Can't think of it that they can do that. awwwww sad! I have 2 office mates they are cheating on their HUSBANDS. The way I look on them they LOOK so very CHEAP and dirty. why why why why!!!!!

[KeithD]

Why MEN cheats?

For every cheating man you have a cheating woman.

[keithAngel]

I have also asked this question to Ladys on line, almost all complained about cheating local men but when I asked them who they cheated with it mostly went silent

I was curious if there was only a small percentage of women involved in these infidelities or if it was an equal problem after all it takes two to tango

"edit" I was typing this while you replied boss, great minds think alike(and fools never differ)LOL

[Ana_may365]

its only natural to the english people[man/woman]to cheat to thier partner.but i dont know any body pilipina here,that they do it to thier partner or hubby.all i know is,we pilipina,if we fall in its very deep[cant measure.lol]its came from the bottom of our heart.

[Paulboy]

I think it's a tempation or natural to the entire human race, but especially men, and in this country and the west in general since the 70's when it started to become more acceptable [free love etc]. Instead of cheating it became 'an affair'! Sounds much better. Perhaps if men and women are contented with their partners they are more able to resist the tempation. It's human nature to always want what you can't have, and men are always tempted by women, it's hard not to admire a pretty female, women don't usually crash the car looking at a man, men frequently do, or almost! Women are more likely to crash looking in a shop window!

Re multiple partners, I don't think having several wives was ever ruled out in the Bible, it just fell into disuse, probably hard enough to keep one wife happy! [This from a man who has never married!] I have been scammed in the recent past by two filipino ladies, for a substantial figure, letters etc for months, hopes being raised, trips planned, that's a different type of cheating, emotional and financial. You feel a right prat! And wonder are there any genuine people left in this world. Even though you know there are and you have to start again. There you go.

[amyburple]

I have also asked this question to Ladys on line, almost all complained about cheating local men but when I asked them who they cheated with it mostly went silent

I was curious if there was only a small percentage of women involved in these infidelities or if it was an equal problem after all it takes two to tango

"edit" I was typing this while you replied boss, great minds think alike(and fools never differ)LOL

Yea SMALL PERCENTAGE but if you heard WOMEN doing this you cannot imagine WHY especially if their HUSBAND is FAITHFUL on THEM.. Are they really BORN BITCHES like that or WHAT... In our SOCIETY they said the MEN is very common and sometimes they said ACCEPTABLE that they CHEATS.... but WOMEN that's a BIG NO NO.

[amyburple]

its only natural to the English people[man/woman]to cheat to their partner.but i don't know any body pilipina here,that they do it to their partner or hubby.all i know is,we pilipina,if we fall in its very deep[cant measure.lol]its came from the bottom of our heart.

Yea that one thing for SURE if FILIPINA will FALL in LOVE that's to the FULLEST to the POINT that sometimes they look like STUPID already . But in contrary there's still WOMEN who IS CHEATING to their PARTNERS... WHY NOT TELL THE TRUTH, are they not CONCERNED on the CONSQUENCES after ALL.

[keithAngel]

Yea SMALL PERCENTAGE but if you heard WOMEN doing this you cannot imagine WHY especially if their HUSBAND is FAITHFUL on THEM.. Are they really BORN BITCHES like that or WHAT... In our SOCIETY they said the MEN is very common and sometimes they said ACCEPTABLE they CHEATS.... but WOMEN that's a BIG NO NO.

interesting so say its only 5% of women compared to men then for every 20 men they are all cheating with the same woman incredible!! they must have very good organizational skills

[amyburple]

I think it's a tempation or natural to the entire human race, but especially men, and in this country and the west in general since the 70's when it started to become more acceptable [free love etc]. Instead of cheating it became 'an affair'! Sounds much better. Perhaps if men and women are contented with their partners they are more able to resist the tempation. It's human nature to always want what you can't have, and men are always tempted by women, it's hard not to admire a pretty female, women don't usually crash the car looking at a man, men frequently do, or almost! Women are more likely to crash looking in a shop window!

Re multiple partners, I don't think having several wives was ever ruled out in the Bible, it just fell into disuse, probably hard enough to keep one wife happy! [This from a man who has never married!] I have been scammed in the recent past by two filipino ladies, for a substantial figure, letters etc for months, hopes being raised, trips planned, that's a different type of cheating, emotional and financial. You feel a right prat! And wonder are there any genuine people left in this world. Even though you know there are and you have to start again. There you go.

Well SAID I AGREE with you ONLY FEW IN THIS WORLD are FAITHFUL... It's in the BIBLE every good and bad deed/s you made theirs CONSEQUENCE GOD WILL GIVE TO ALL US...

[Dedworth]

Not a lot to add to this

[telford]

Lets face the fact, some Filipina only marry foreigner because of financial reasons, and that is the one of the possible reason why they cheat. Because they're not happy with their partner simply because they don't love them. But for those filipina that marry her man for love,its so tiny chance for her to cheat,especially if he take care of her and give her all his time and love.
But as what they said as well, once a cheater always a cheater. so lets watch out for that.
I know a girl in my place who marry a rich old foreigner,he's a nice man but she cheat on him always specially if he went back to his place. The guy is on his 70's and she's on her 20's. I ask her why she do it, and she said that she is not happy with him, so I told her to let him go but she said she cant coz her family need him and she wants to give her daughter a good life. I dont know if I get mad or I feel pity,coz I know her since she was a kid,and she is a nice girl.
So, maybe not all cheaters are bad,some have their personal reason why they do it,but others do it for the sake of cheating and having fun.

[KeithD]

http://menstuff.org/issues/byissue/infidelitystats.html

[Mrs Daddy]

cant do anything about it.thats their life and they choose to live their life like that and its thier own will to suffer at the very last time of their marriage life.supposed if they have problem on their marriage they have to talk about it as soon as possible and not leave it like that.am feel sorry for the couple who suffer such problem.

[amyburple]

cant do anything about it.thats their life and they choose to live their life like that and its thier own will to suffer at the very last time of their marriage life.supposed if they have problem on their marriage they have to talk about it as soon as possible and not leave it like that.am feel sorry for the couple who suffer such problem.

Yea I agree with you.. It's nothing with us. I also feel sorry for them

[PeterB]

Lets face the fact, some Filipina only marry foreigner because of financial reasons, and that is the one of the possible reason why they cheat. Because they're not happy with their partner simply because they don't love them.

Or because they can get more money by keeping several men 'on the go'?

But for those filipina that marry her man for love,its so tiny chance for her to cheat,especially if he take care of her and give her all his time and love.

... and money?

[paul brogden]

i think you will find women are more likely to cheat than men are,. if a rich guy with a big **** comes around she will be tempted

[keithAngel]

http://menstuff.org/issues/byissue/infidelitystats.html

"Only 46% of men believe that online affairs are adultery." DivorceMag

I am suprised that there are any

[joebloggs]

if a rich guy with a big cock comes around she will be tempted

if the guy didn't come around there would be no cheating

takes 2 to tango, both are equally to blame if they know one or both have a partner already.

if you can't deal with it, move on

[paul brogden]

you phil women think phil women dont cheat how funny an english man was killed by a phil women in the phils cos she wanted the money and her lover

[maria_and_matt]

you phil women think phil women dont cheat how funny an english man was killed by a phil women in the phils cos she wanted the money and her lover

its 1 filipina out of how many million?? gee if you have problems with asian women y look for one? best you stick with a white girl they may be better! it is not only asian women that kills husbands paul...

[joebloggs]

you phil women think phil women dont cheat how funny an english man was killed by a phil women in the phils cos she wanted the money and her lover

no, not only do phil women cheat, so do british guys..

and another filipina who killed her husband to add to your list, but then the deserved it.

http://www.gazettelive.co.uk/news/te...name_page.html

your so negative about women

[andypaul]

its only natural to the english people[man/woman]to cheat to thier partner.but i dont know any body pilipina here,that they do it to thier partner or hubby.all i know is,we pilipina,if we fall in its very deep[cant measure.lol]its came from the bottom of our heart.

So you know exactly what every one is doing, thinking and saying?

Im sure all the Roman catholic priests were totaly honest and perfect till like every group of people they found as well as the good there are the bad.

Never fall for the trap one set of people are good and all others are bad.

Please remember when you qutoe all English(i presume british/european white) people are bad remeber you just insulted many people on here and their familys.
I dont find it natural to cheat on my better half and im English

Nothing personal just suggesting it maybe wise to rethink that passage or would you show that to all your whitey inlaws? Make sure the mother in law doesn't have a cooking pan in hand at the time

Peace love and have a good saturday evening

[amyburple]

[quote=andypaul;86659]

Im sure all the Roman catholic priests were totaly honest and perfect till like every group of people they found as well as the good there are the bad.

Yes I do heard about CATHOLIC PRIESTS about so many SCANDALS and ANOMALIES... NO BODY is PERFECT in the SIGHT of GOD even PASTORS and REVEREND they commit ADULTERY... And I guess it's human NATURE. Just the fact that WHY PEOPLE can't RESIST on this kind of TEMPTATIONS

[amyburple]

Please remember when you quote all English(i presume British/European white) people are bad remember you just insulted many people on here and their family's.
I don't find it natural to cheat on my better half and im English

Nothing personal just suggesting it maybe wise to rethink that passage or would you show that to all your whitey in laws? Make sure the mother in law doesn't have a cooking pan in hand at the time

Originally Posted by Ana_may365
its only natural to the english people[man/woman]to cheat to thier partner.but i dont know any body pilipina here,that they do it to thier partner or hubby.all i know is,we pilipina,if we fall in its very deep[cant measure.lol]its came from the bottom of our heart.


To Andypaul...let's just respect of ANA_may365, that's what she thinks and that's her opinion! That's her view! Yes you are FAITHFUL to your BEHALF but what she's stating is all BRITISH and you cannot deny that, even my hubby he is British but he stating the FACT that there are many of BRITISH guys are UNFAITFUL...

It's very RARE that you can find BRITISH MEN that are faitfull now a days.. Britsh men that are not PERV. Your WIFE is lucky to have you because you are FAITHFUL to HER. So do I I'm lucky to have my HUBBY.

[amyburple]

its 1 filipina out of how many million?? gee if you have problems with Asian women y look for one? best you stick with a white girl they may be better! it is not only Asian women that kills husbands Paul...

CORRECT... Why waste time to LOOK for ASIAN WOMEN!!!! there are so many GIRLS around the WORLD, Russians, Germans, American Women..So why not LOOK all those and not ASIAN WOMEN

[telford]

its 1 filipina out of how many million?? gee if you have problems with asian women y look for one? best you stick with a white girl they may be better! it is not only asian women that kills husbands paul...

I agree!

[Fitzy]

Why MEN cheats? What do you think the REASONS? It's just they want to have Multiple partners or they are not contented with their PARTNERS... Why not tell the truth to the PARTNER! WHY CHEAT....

I have friends that are UNFAITHFUL to their PARTNER... I feels so bad! I feel sorry to their PARTNER, It's bad to judge people but then your only human and you can really judge on their lifestyle on their doings.... So MANY WHY'S???? The worst scenario is WOMEN is ALSO CHEATING. Can't think of it that they can do that. awwwww sad! I have 2 office mates they are cheating on their HUSBANDS. The way I look on them they LOOK so very CHEAP and dirty. why why why why!!!!!

Must be English women, am I right?????
Then again, English men are worse in my opinion, from what I have seen.
Am English/Irish by the way lol
Well I love my Hanzell in Cebu, and am impressed with the Filipinas moral standings.

Need I say more?

C ya...

[Fitzy]

i think you will find women are more likely to cheat than men are,. if a rich guy with a big **** comes around she will be tempted

Mate, sorry If this offends you, but there are sensitive ppl who use this forum, I mean Women especially so we need to watch what we say ok, by the way I agree with you in part

[Fitzy]

you phil women think phil women dont cheat how funny an english man was killed by a phil women in the phils cos she wanted the money and her lover

I read about that.
Was the priest right?
Very sad news

[amyburple]

1. He's super protective of his gadgets. "The main way that trysts are found out is through the discovery of incriminating e-mails, IM chats, cell phone texts or bills," says Belisa Vranich, PsyD, a clinical psychologist in New York City. So if he's being unfaithful, he may guard his gadgets or act really defensive when you innocently touch his phone or computer. It should be a giant red flag if he readily gave you passwords in the past, and now he's more evasive.
2. He steps up the grooming. This is so obvious, but it's a sign many women miss: "If your man starts grooming more without you requesting it, that could be an indication that he's getting intimate with someone else," says Vranich. You can actually thank modern mass media for this tip off. Guys today are used to viewing manscaped dudes onscreen, so if he has another chick to impress with his appearance, he may emulate those ultra-trimmed guys. Another clue: He's spending more time at the gym.

3. He smells different. "When he comes home, if he doesn't smell the same as he did in the morning, and it isn't the scent of soap in the gym or at your home, it may be because he's showered at her place," offers Vranich. So pay attention, because in this case, that old saying "the nose knows" might very well be true.

4. Nothing fazes him anymore. "If he was short-tempered before, a combination of added intimacy and attention could be making him way more relaxed, even downright giddy," Vranich says. Adds Mira Kirshenbaum, author of "When Good People Have Affairs: Inside the Hearts and Minds of People in Two Relationships": "
"If your guy is suddenly going around all happy and whistling, then you need to find out why."

5. He becomes suspicious of you. "If he's normally a mellow type, all of a sudden he may want to know where you are all the time and with whom," says Vranich. "It's the result of him realizing that if he's cheating and it's not that hard, you might also be getting away with it." Also, beware of extremely detailed responses to even your most innocent "How was work today?" queries. He may be preparing epic answers because he's terrified of getting caught.

One caveat: If your romantic life hasn't fallen off, that's no guarantee that he's faithful. "It's a serious mistake to think that affairs are necessarily physical. He may just be unhappy in other parts of the relationship," says Kirshenbaum. In fact, an illicit relationship could even stoke his lust for you.