Cheating Is Disease

[amyburple]

Why MEN cheats? What do you think the REASONS? It's just they want to have Multiple partners or they are not contented with their PARTNERS... Why not tell the truth to the PARTNER! WHY CHEAT....

I have friends that are UNFAITHFUL to their PARTNER... I feels so bad! I feel sorry to their PARTNER, It's bad to judge people but then your only human and you can really judge on their lifestyle on their doings.... So MANY WHY'S???? The worst scenario is WOMEN is ALSO CHEATING. Can't think of it that they can do that. awwwww sad! I have 2 office mates they are cheating on their HUSBANDS. The way I look on them they LOOK so very CHEAP and dirty. why why why why!!!!!

[KeithD]

Why MEN cheats?

For every cheating man you have a cheating woman.

[keithAngel]

I have also asked this question to Ladys on line, almost all complained about cheating local men but when I asked them who they cheated with it mostly went silent

I was curious if there was only a small percentage of women involved in these infidelities or if it was an equal problem after all it takes two to tango

"edit" I was typing this while you replied boss, great minds think alike(and fools never differ)LOL

[amyburple]

I have also asked this question to Ladys on line, almost all complained about cheating local men but when I asked them who they cheated with it mostly went silent

I was curious if there was only a small percentage of women involved in these infidelities or if it was an equal problem after all it takes two to tango

"edit" I was typing this while you replied boss, great minds think alike(and fools never differ)LOL

Yea SMALL PERCENTAGE but if you heard WOMEN doing this you cannot imagine WHY especially if their HUSBAND is FAITHFUL on THEM.. Are they really BORN BITCHES like that or WHAT... In our SOCIETY they said the MEN is very common and sometimes they said ACCEPTABLE that they CHEATS.... but WOMEN that's a BIG NO NO.

[keithAngel]

Yea SMALL PERCENTAGE but if you heard WOMEN doing this you cannot imagine WHY especially if their HUSBAND is FAITHFUL on THEM.. Are they really BORN BITCHES like that or WHAT... In our SOCIETY they said the MEN is very common and sometimes they said ACCEPTABLE they CHEATS.... but WOMEN that's a BIG NO NO.

interesting so say its only 5% of women compared to men then for every 20 men they are all cheating with the same woman incredible!! they must have very good organizational skills

[Ana_may365]

its only natural to the english people[man/woman]to cheat to thier partner.but i dont know any body pilipina here,that they do it to thier partner or hubby.all i know is,we pilipina,if we fall in its very deep[cant measure.lol]its came from the bottom of our heart.

[amyburple]

its only natural to the English people[man/woman]to cheat to their partner.but i don't know any body pilipina here,that they do it to their partner or hubby.all i know is,we pilipina,if we fall in its very deep[cant measure.lol]its came from the bottom of our heart.

Yea that one thing for SURE if FILIPINA will FALL in LOVE that's to the FULLEST to the POINT that sometimes they look like STUPID already . But in contrary there's still WOMEN who IS CHEATING to their PARTNERS... WHY NOT TELL THE TRUTH, are they not CONCERNED on the CONSQUENCES after ALL.

[andypaul]

its only natural to the english people[man/woman]to cheat to thier partner.but i dont know any body pilipina here,that they do it to thier partner or hubby.all i know is,we pilipina,if we fall in its very deep[cant measure.lol]its came from the bottom of our heart.

So you know exactly what every one is doing, thinking and saying?

Im sure all the Roman catholic priests were totaly honest and perfect till like every group of people they found as well as the good there are the bad.

Never fall for the trap one set of people are good and all others are bad.

Please remember when you qutoe all English(i presume british/european white) people are bad remeber you just insulted many people on here and their familys.
I dont find it natural to cheat on my better half and im English

Nothing personal just suggesting it maybe wise to rethink that passage or would you show that to all your whitey inlaws? Make sure the mother in law doesn't have a cooking pan in hand at the time

Peace love and have a good saturday evening

[amyburple]

[quote=andypaul;86659]

Im sure all the Roman catholic priests were totaly honest and perfect till like every group of people they found as well as the good there are the bad.

Yes I do heard about CATHOLIC PRIESTS about so many SCANDALS and ANOMALIES... NO BODY is PERFECT in the SIGHT of GOD even PASTORS and REVEREND they commit ADULTERY... And I guess it's human NATURE. Just the fact that WHY PEOPLE can't RESIST on this kind of TEMPTATIONS

[amyburple]

Please remember when you quote all English(i presume British/European white) people are bad remember you just insulted many people on here and their family's.
I don't find it natural to cheat on my better half and im English

Nothing personal just suggesting it maybe wise to rethink that passage or would you show that to all your whitey in laws? Make sure the mother in law doesn't have a cooking pan in hand at the time

Originally Posted by Ana_may365
its only natural to the english people[man/woman]to cheat to thier partner.but i dont know any body pilipina here,that they do it to thier partner or hubby.all i know is,we pilipina,if we fall in its very deep[cant measure.lol]its came from the bottom of our heart.


To Andypaul...let's just respect of ANA_may365, that's what she thinks and that's her opinion! That's her view! Yes you are FAITHFUL to your BEHALF but what she's stating is all BRITISH and you cannot deny that, even my hubby he is British but he stating the FACT that there are many of BRITISH guys are UNFAITFUL...

It's very RARE that you can find BRITISH MEN that are faitfull now a days.. Britsh men that are not PERV. Your WIFE is lucky to have you because you are FAITHFUL to HER. So do I I'm lucky to have my HUBBY.

[andypaul]

Originally Posted by Ana_may365
its only natural to the english people[man/woman]to cheat to thier partner.but i dont know any body pilipina here,that they do it to thier partner or hubby.all i know is,we pilipina,if we fall in its very deep[cant measure.lol]its came from the bottom of our heart.


To Andypaul...let's just respect of ANA_may365, that's what she thinks and that's her opinion! That's her view! Yes you are FAITHFUL to your BEHALF but what she's stating is all BRITISH and you cannot deny that, even my hubby he is British but he stating the FACT that there are many of BRITISH guys are UNFAITFUL...

It's very RARE that you can find BRITISH MEN that are faitfull now a days.. Britsh men that are not PERV. Your WIFE is lucky to have you because you are FAITHFUL to HER. So do I I'm lucky to have my HUBBY.

So do you say this to all white people you met?

You like to racial and sexually sterotype?

So that means most south east asian females in marriages with british men are off the shelf wifes maill order most likely ex bar girls or worse?

Thats the consenus of many people in the west and i would not be surprise in asia as well.

So where are the facts to show many British men/women are not faithful compared to everyone else in the world? If you could see the facts for the world im sure the amount of faithful to unfaithful is pretty similar all round the world.

Just because he says that should i also belive the sterotypical view of south east asian ladies held by many today?

Sorry but if you hold such broad views of groups of people i hope you dont meet people, who you hope are to employ you or judge you in some way who hold similar views.

[amyburple]

So do you say this to all white people you met?

You like to racial and sexually stereotype?

So that means most south east Asian females in marriages with British men are off the shelf wife's mail order most likely ex bar girls or worse?

That's the consensus of many people in the west and i would not be surprise in Asia as well.

So where are the facts to show many British men/women are not faithful compared to everyone else in the world? If you could see the facts for the world im sure the amount of faithful to unfaithful is pretty similar all round the world.

Just because he says that should i also believe the stereotypical view of south east Asian ladies held by many today?

Sorry but if you hold such broad views of groups of people i hope you don't meet people, who you hope are to employ you or judge you in some way who hold similar views.

I will respect your view point....

[Fitzy]

So do you say this to all white people you met?

You like to racial and sexually sterotype?

So that means most south east asian females in marriages with british men are off the shelf wifes maill order most likely ex bar girls or worse?

Thats the consenus of many people in the west and i would not be surprise in asia as well.

So where are the facts to show many British men/women are not faithful compared to everyone else in the world? If you could see the facts for the world im sure the amount of faithful to unfaithful is pretty similar all round the world.

Just because he says that should i also belive the sterotypical view of south east asian ladies held by many today?

Sorry but if you hold such broad views of groups of people i hope you dont meet people, who you hope are to employ you or judge you in some way who hold similar views.

Well said mate

[Paulboy]

I think it's a tempation or natural to the entire human race, but especially men, and in this country and the west in general since the 70's when it started to become more acceptable [free love etc]. Instead of cheating it became 'an affair'! Sounds much better. Perhaps if men and women are contented with their partners they are more able to resist the tempation. It's human nature to always want what you can't have, and men are always tempted by women, it's hard not to admire a pretty female, women don't usually crash the car looking at a man, men frequently do, or almost! Women are more likely to crash looking in a shop window!

Re multiple partners, I don't think having several wives was ever ruled out in the Bible, it just fell into disuse, probably hard enough to keep one wife happy! [This from a man who has never married!] I have been scammed in the recent past by two filipino ladies, for a substantial figure, letters etc for months, hopes being raised, trips planned, that's a different type of cheating, emotional and financial. You feel a right prat! And wonder are there any genuine people left in this world. Even though you know there are and you have to start again. There you go.

[amyburple]

I think it's a tempation or natural to the entire human race, but especially men, and in this country and the west in general since the 70's when it started to become more acceptable [free love etc]. Instead of cheating it became 'an affair'! Sounds much better. Perhaps if men and women are contented with their partners they are more able to resist the tempation. It's human nature to always want what you can't have, and men are always tempted by women, it's hard not to admire a pretty female, women don't usually crash the car looking at a man, men frequently do, or almost! Women are more likely to crash looking in a shop window!

Re multiple partners, I don't think having several wives was ever ruled out in the Bible, it just fell into disuse, probably hard enough to keep one wife happy! [This from a man who has never married!] I have been scammed in the recent past by two filipino ladies, for a substantial figure, letters etc for months, hopes being raised, trips planned, that's a different type of cheating, emotional and financial. You feel a right prat! And wonder are there any genuine people left in this world. Even though you know there are and you have to start again. There you go.

Well SAID I AGREE with you ONLY FEW IN THIS WORLD are FAITHFUL... It's in the BIBLE every good and bad deed/s you made theirs CONSEQUENCE GOD WILL GIVE TO ALL US...

[telford]

Lets face the fact, some Filipina only marry foreigner because of financial reasons, and that is the one of the possible reason why they cheat. Because they're not happy with their partner simply because they don't love them. But for those filipina that marry her man for love,its so tiny chance for her to cheat,especially if he take care of her and give her all his time and love.
But as what they said as well, once a cheater always a cheater. so lets watch out for that.
I know a girl in my place who marry a rich old foreigner,he's a nice man but she cheat on him always specially if he went back to his place. The guy is on his 70's and she's on her 20's. I ask her why she do it, and she said that she is not happy with him, so I told her to let him go but she said she cant coz her family need him and she wants to give her daughter a good life. I dont know if I get mad or I feel pity,coz I know her since she was a kid,and she is a nice girl.
So, maybe not all cheaters are bad,some have their personal reason why they do it,but others do it for the sake of cheating and having fun.

[PeterB]

Lets face the fact, some Filipina only marry foreigner because of financial reasons, and that is the one of the possible reason why they cheat. Because they're not happy with their partner simply because they don't love them.

Or because they can get more money by keeping several men 'on the go'?

But for those filipina that marry her man for love,its so tiny chance for her to cheat,especially if he take care of her and give her all his time and love.

... and money?

[paul brogden]

i think you will find women are more likely to cheat than men are,. if a rich guy with a big **** comes around she will be tempted

[Dedworth]

Not a lot to add to this

[KeithD]

http://menstuff.org/issues/byissue/infidelitystats.html

[keithAngel]

http://menstuff.org/issues/byissue/infidelitystats.html

"Only 46% of men believe that online affairs are adultery." DivorceMag

I am suprised that there are any

[Mrs Daddy]

cant do anything about it.thats their life and they choose to live their life like that and its thier own will to suffer at the very last time of their marriage life.supposed if they have problem on their marriage they have to talk about it as soon as possible and not leave it like that.am feel sorry for the couple who suffer such problem.

[amyburple]

cant do anything about it.thats their life and they choose to live their life like that and its thier own will to suffer at the very last time of their marriage life.supposed if they have problem on their marriage they have to talk about it as soon as possible and not leave it like that.am feel sorry for the couple who suffer such problem.

Yea I agree with you.. It's nothing with us. I also feel sorry for them

[Fitzy]

Why MEN cheats? What do you think the REASONS? It's just they want to have Multiple partners or they are not contented with their PARTNERS... Why not tell the truth to the PARTNER! WHY CHEAT....

I have friends that are UNFAITHFUL to their PARTNER... I feels so bad! I feel sorry to their PARTNER, It's bad to judge people but then your only human and you can really judge on their lifestyle on their doings.... So MANY WHY'S???? The worst scenario is WOMEN is ALSO CHEATING. Can't think of it that they can do that. awwwww sad! I have 2 office mates they are cheating on their HUSBANDS. The way I look on them they LOOK so very CHEAP and dirty. why why why why!!!!!

Must be English women, am I right?????
Then again, English men are worse in my opinion, from what I have seen.
Am English/Irish by the way lol
Well I love my Hanzell in Cebu, and am impressed with the Filipinas moral standings.

Need I say more?

C ya...

[stevenjay4]

Cheating on a partner is wrong, no matter if they are male or female, western or Philipino...Its wrong. As is any sort of cruelty be it mental or physical. It makes no difference who you are, its just wrong.
If someone has such strong feelings for someone else, then end your current relationship and move on. The hurt of a cheating partner is unmeasurable, just hope it never happens to anyone. Take it from one that knows.

[amyburple]

Cheating on a partner is wrong, no matter if they are male or female, western or Philipino...Its wrong. As is any sort of cruelty be it mental or physical. It makes no difference who you are, its just wrong.
If someone has such strong feelings for someone else, then end your current relationship and move on. The hurt of a cheating partner is unmeasurable, just hope it never happens to anyone. Take it from one that knows.

I agree with you...

[walesrob]

Wow, I'm gonna need eye surgery after reading this thread - so many font colours and font sizes.

[fred]

Wow, I'm gonna need eye surgery after reading this thread - so many font colours and font sizes.

Looks like one of my old text books after the teacher took a red pen to it.



A woman was cleaning her husbands dresser drawers when she found 3 golf balls and a box with $2000 in it. She waited for him to come home from the golf course to ask him why these things were hidden in his dresser drawer.

The husband said I'm sorry I hid this from you but the truth is every time I cheated on you over the last 30 years I put a golf ball in the drawer.

The wife was very upset at first but after thinking about it said "I guess 3 times in 30 years is really not that bad! Oh by the way what is the $2000 in the drawer.

The husband replied" Well every time I got to a dozen balls I sold them".

[fred]

A blonde suspects that her boyfriend is cheating on her, so she goes out and buys a gun.

She goes to his apartment that same day, with the gun in hand. Sure enough, when she opens the door, she finds her boyfriend in the arms of a redhead. She points the gun at her boyfriend at stares him down for a moment. Then, suddenly, she's overcome with grief, so she puts the gun up to the side her head.

Her boyfriend screams, "Honey, don't do it..."

The blonde yells back, "Shut up! You're next!"

[keithAngel]

A blonde suspects that her boyfriend is cheating on her, so she goes out and buys a gun.

She goes to his apartment that same day, with the gun in hand. Sure enough, when she opens the door, she finds her boyfriend in the arms of a redhead. She points the gun at her boyfriend at stares him down for a moment. Then, suddenly, she's overcome with grief, so she puts the gun up to the side her head.

Her boyfriend screams, "Honey, don't do it..."

The blonde yells back, "Shut up! You're next!"

Fred Im shocked at you reinforcing that old stereotype that dumb women are blonde......but you picked a good thread