Hi Lunalove! I know sometimes it gets really upsetting to hear some negative stuffs about Visa Processing especially when you are really anxious to get things done and just want to be together. We all wish it is that simple...but do not fret. Though it might take up to 3 months to process the visa sometimes it's less than that. So, keep on doing your research as I'm sure you get much helpful insights from all the good people on this forum. Good luck!