Quote Originally Posted by cornwoman View Post
Hi Ken,
are u indeed cornish?as my hubby is.seems shes using you as a piggy bank based on ur story. my hubby and i met also online thru a dating site everything is fantastic.there was no request for money for personal needs but only for the payment of marriage expenses and visa thing.my advise to you is to stop sending money and get back to a dating site and hope you can find a genuine filipina woman as most are genuine.cut your losses shes using you.best of luck.
Thanks for your remarks, cornwoman, and yes... I am indeed Cornish, as your husband is.
Some situations are simple, others not as simple, and some are not so simple. My lady's situation is of the latter type.
I've put a lot of effort into this relationship, and I believe that she has too. Whatever money I've put in was my own choice and is gone from me. End of story. I accept that and have no regrets about the money. If ever I feel that my efforts have been wasted, I shall post and say so for the benefit of those who come after me on these boards. What they choose to do about money is also their choice, but I say this much... if I had the foresight to join this board when our relationship started, my actions might well have been different. Still... water under the bridge, we can't go back, and time moves on.

Ken