Hi faralorbes & telford, I admire ladies like you, I myself doesnt ask money from my husband...if I want to go shopping, I use my own money...I work so I can buy myself silly things...I prefer to pay my own airfare if we go on holidays bec hubby pays for the kids, accommodation and other expense, so fair enough if i do my share.

Hi Ken, I dont know what her intentions are but I hope her feelings for you is for real....see if she will change if you stop sending her money anyway if you havent met her Im sure she can sort herself out.