Quote Originally Posted by kencornish View Post
I have to say again that requests for money only came in this last month when her situation became more difficult. And I believe that to be true.

But, true or not, there's no problem for me to accept whatever comes my way on this or any other decision I make. Still, the more I read and respond, the more I feel that the right lady is not so far away or out of reach... and might well be a tonic when I'm ready. Thanks again.

Ken
Ken, you 'believe' it to be truth, or you want it to be true, the thing is you don't know, not easy to deal with, i've been there myself, and when my misses got into difficulty, she didn't ask me for money, i offered, it was refused by her and by her mom, i pratically begged her to take the money for weeks and for me then, there was no way out

maybe you are being scammed or used and abused, maybe she really does need your help, but becareful what you accuse her of without evidence, anyway the balls in your court, i wish you well.

and i forgot to say, we married in end, and we've been happily married for 6 or 7 years, i can't remember