Quote Originally Posted by Philip View Post
I just want to say something about people commenting on those who need monetary help and having pride etc.

Just because someone asks for money does not mean they are necessarily a scammer or a hooker or that there isn't genuine love etc, everyones situations are different!

Those who have managed to get by without the support of your bf/husband are lucky to be able to do so, that's good for you! Those that aren't so lucky can still have pride in themselves and also be genuine with their feelings for their loved partner.
Thanks for your comments, Philip, and I agree. That's why I'm content to just "wait and see". I always try to think the best of a person, rather than the worst, and try to help others rather than hinder them. That philosophy has served me quite well up to now, although helping others is only good as long as they're prepared to help themselves.

Ken