fair enough, it's just that recently there seems to have been a big jump in the not happy ones.
I nearly got caught once before, of course I ignored the signs everyone spoke of, but I guess so do many others.
On the other hand, I know of a few girls who have endless uphill from their UK husbands/boyfriends.
It is probably fair to say that most of us have a lot to give, (not talking money) and are willing to give, all is asked in return is honesty, openess and fidelity.
But that of course puts people at risk as easy targets, and I admit I would be an easy target initially. I never get stressed at work, or by other peoples lives, but my own emotional wellbeing is easily put under pressure.