Hi,
I let my husband read this forum too, and he told me that as I am married to a British citizen living in The Netherlands, I do not have to take the civic intergration examination abroad.
This is a quote that my husband sent me from one of the forms.
Civic Intergration Examination Abroad:-
the foreighn national is not required to take the civic intergration examination abroad as he/she wishes to come to the Netherlands to stay as a family member with a holder of a permanent or temporary asylum residence permit, or to stay with an EU citizen.........etc.etc
So now we are working on getting a resident permit for me to stay withmy husband