Angry Wife :(

[benb]

Its not that easy.

My wife accepted along time time ago that when she comes to live with me it would be herself and my daughter.
SHe has two children from a previous relationship, i could not afford to look after two more kids, she knows are financial situation.
I have promised to look after her kids (financially) remittance and such, but if they where to come here we would be buggered.

Sorry it it seems harsh but not everyone earns the big bucks

Deck

Deck, how old are the other two children? You may be able to claim benefits if they are your step children and under financial pressure.

Cheers,