that was an interesting informed post from ginapeterb.
i now feel a little selfish for wanting my fiance to come here.
having said that theres a lot of good advice on offer here.
and i will bear it in mind when my fiance gets here ( i live in hope)
i think that pandering to the wifes tampo and swallowing pride,
job of some sort and familiarity seems to be the key.
