Hi,
I was pondering this "Tampo" concept and it got me thinking:
I remember a few years ago reading "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" and I remember the generalisation that when men are cheesed off, they want to "go into the cave" and not speak until they can understand the problem. Then we come out ready to get on with things again.
Conversely, the book said that women want to talk about their problems as it helps them to feel better about things.
These concepts were recognised by professionals in marriage guidance fields to be true.
So......you know what's coming.....where the heck does this "Tampo" fit in?
It seems to fly in the face of logic.
I must say that I have not experienced "Tampo" first hand with my new wife.
