like I said in another post, if I start to get wound up I will just pick up our baby, watch him smile, wave his arms, kick his legs and generally just enjoy playing with him. If I am at work, I just call up some of his piccies on my lap top or call home and listen to him gurgle, if all else fails, jump in the car drive 180 miles to North Cornwall and go surfing with my 18 year old and have a couple of beers!!![]()