Love or comfort?

[aposhark]

What matters most is, if two people are happy and both comfortable to each other :-)

[flomike]

my husband is 16 year old than me...is that a huge gap in British point of view? as for filipinos point of view (in Phils) it is a very huge gapIMO but who cares...he is the love of my life

well, actually I have co-worker (filipina) she is 49 years old and the hubby is about 82 now but no child both parties agreed not to have one at all. My only criticism at her is she never called her husband as "husband or asawa" she always called him as her companionship and she told me that they don't sleep on the same room anymore But being married for 17 years is a remarkable achievement