Hi all,
After my bf visited me here in the Philippines last Feb'08. I am planning to go to the UK this October.
My bf and I have known each other for 4 years now, since Dec'04 but only met last Feb, April, May and July '08. I really love my bf and he wants me to go to the UK but i still need to finish my studies, and ill be able to finish my studies by April 2010. So now, I am planning to go to the UK not through a spouse or fiancee visa but a visit visa.
We are both 23 so we are not financially established yet. I am still dependent on my parents and he also still lives with his mother. So I am not sure what visa to get, so i decided to get the visit visa:
I have already paid the visa fee in the bank for 5971 pesos.
I got my certificate of enrollment from my graduate school.
I got a letter of invitation from my girl friend in Manchester who is a british citizen.
I was advised that I shouldnt include my bf in my application because they might say that i need to apply for a fiance or spouse visa.
However, we dont have the funds to pay for the application of the fiance and spouse visa.
My problem now is that my parents dont want to sign a joint affidavit of support for me, stating that they will support my travel etc. They also dont want to lend me the bank accounts and the bank certificates they have. So i am lacking financial evidence to support my trip.
Since I am largely dependent on my parents, my bank account only contains about 30 k pesos. My parents did not tell me that they will not support me up until yesterday when I had already paid the visa fees.
I don’t know what I should do, if I cant provide those evidence, what should I do?
Thanks so much for taking time to read this.