Do guys like dummy girls?

[maria_and_matt]

aww thanks maria!!
well, you know, I have to admitted that he has changed me a lot, intended or not, he has. to better I suppose (in some ways), I am now more mature and responsible (which I think would comes natural as he is 16 years older than me!), however, he has also influenced me into being a bit more stingy, assertive and judgemental.

What is it with us girls, that makes us want to please our boyfriends/husbands so much?
Is it still that conservative feeling in philippine/asian women that makes us feel submissive to them? Is it the feeling of being socially inferior? or that we do anything for love/relationship? Do we sometimes feel inferior if we are single? Are end of relationships harder for us than for men?

A. xxx

i guess my husband has changed me in a lot of ways too, before i use to be an impulsive buyer i'd go in a shop see what i think i like and bam i'd buy it just like that, a few days down the line i then realize that it was not the right thing for me anyway. my husband has taught me how to not do that anymore, now i do a lot of reading up before making my mind up ( i bought 2 new cars in the past kept it for 6 months and changed). the money i wasted on that . but the changes i made for him made me a better person i think.
about pleasing our men? you can please your partner in a lot of ways, rather than being submissive. i do try to please hubby by making him his favourite food when he comes home from work, or perhaps sitting in a beer festival with him and driving him back. it is the little things i do that pleases him, but i never lost my personality, i am in general a very strong willed person very opinionated so we do tend to argue a little bit. but not once did he try to change me, he just told me he loves me for who i am faults and all .
i have never felt inferior to anybody when i was single, i divorced my 1st hubby and was single for over 2 yrs before i met this lovely husband of mine. i had a blast!