i don't know how to put my words exactly, but am just trying to let you know based on my own ...well...i don't know if am gonna say am lucky enough to have him(husband) which i consider him as very well understanding and considerate with all the things happened or if ever there were some circumstances that needs to be understood. I often do late to come online as we have a set of time to meet online each day, my longer late was about 30 minutes without even telling him before then, i just came online as if I wasn't late and that he never complain anything coz he knows that i always have the reason either valid or not on him but what do important is i do still come online and have to put an explanation to widen up his understanding...and that without any farther explaination he will just say..."its okay for as long as you are fine and that it worries him if something bad happen." anyway for almost 3yrs of relationship he knows me well enough and I proven him right already that he is my top priority it was just there were some circumstances arise that we didn't expect to and that we have no choice than to go with the flow .....well then what matter is you builded up your relationship with too much TRUST and no reason for two both parties to doubt in any way.


As of your own, i have the feelings that you both still need to widen up your relationship and have all the knowledge to strengthen it through especially regarding about TRUST and LOVE....maybe there is a LOVE ye but not that deeply enough to conquer everything in all. In a relationship its actually a two way process.....either it depends on how you able to explain it to him with regards which that makes me wonder why it seems so hard for him to understand for that fact that you have done no wrong and so as it depends as well on how you able to manage handling your relationship for him to gain much TRUST.....(we girls do sometimes think of our side first if how far you go through by proven our man that its only HIM no any other on earth that we love to spend our lifetime with) or else just try to evaluate yourself if what you did is enough already to satisfy him that he has no reason to doubt you in any single way.

Well just try to think and evaluate first if you lack any....if the answer is YES that you did everything in your relationship to work it out and give all your time to him as needed no matter how busy your sched is....and that if yes you did no wrong and committed no stains into your relationship...well i guess you have no reason to feel any guilt nor to worry if things goes wrong....for as long as you made the right thing and that what you only need is his wide understanding which seems so hard for him to give it heartily to you instead leaving you out with no reason. What you goin to do as of now maybe is just send him a couple of emails or offline messages and voice out all your worries and thoughts, do make any moves to win him back over....but then if how many times you tried to contact him with no luck yet....well girl...its about time to give up and wait until he is the one who contacted you back again..................leave him out in peace as if thats what he wants for a moment...if he truly loves you he will eventually find all ways to work things out between you and him.................those kind of arguments is not a big deal actually, its just a simple thing that only needs both trust and understanding before things goes much complicated....oh my what a shame on him to tell you that he lost trust on you....gosh what you did is not a big mistake that enough for him to say so....

Wait and see how things goes between you and him...let him do his part......maybe what he did to you was just a way of letting you go and he just find those as sort of excuses to end up all...well i may be wrong but see how it goes.........if he comes back then be thankful that you two both able to manage the test of time and so by next that makes you both feel stronger and better and just enjoy every UPS and DOWNS in relationship as its truly a must...good luck..................